Show r r BY AMY ADAMS A LETTER LEITER FROM A Y FRIEND Hear DellI my mv The letter In tour our column pec- pec to the college student who a ho Ic Un to become engaged to n a girl 1 oho ho was nut satisfied with the rho ring of his choice and a wanted anted to 10 pay part fur for her own nun engage engage- ice it ring brought back memories lIt ul mun years ears gone by IllS raes of ofa ut a young girl whose family was wua not pour poor but who wanted to murry marry n it boy who financially wins was beneath her She he too tou could have bought her own unan ring but instead she was happy to accept the ring her fiance bought for her which incidentally rune cume from Sears Scars and The marriage fl has happy and fruitful they have ha two t daughters and live Ii in in a beautiful white while house on u a hill in a hing ton D C the She is s known n as the First lady Ladr of our land and is married l to Lyndon Baines John John- Johnson son So as you so aptly put If H the the ring is secondary econ ary I Family Friend FriendS S C P Derv Amy my I dated quite n a few guys during ng these past years but only once did 1 come across one with such sucha a pattern of thought Lich nut lot his real name and 1 went stead steady for one month and then I 1 decided that he was getting too loo serious serious for me ate Rich told me there was no point In us seeing each other and going out every week werk if we wc didn't plan on getting married 11 I heard this 1 thought he was kid kid- kidding ding but he wasn't It 11 hil has always been blen my any ophy that a guy and girl go out together to have a good time lime How I I nv can one choose a partner for life if one doesn't go out with wills different types of people If every guy thought like did dating wouldn't really renny be any fists What do you ou think JAM r neal Derr JAU If you are arc not worth orth the woo woo- wooing jug ing lien surely you are arc not worth orth the winning I If C I Veal Dear Amy 1 rend your reply about love lo loveto to The the Married i Set et I 1 dont don't mean to be cruel crull or nasty but ll your definition was teas just as silly its as theirs their's The fie only place to 10 get gel tit definition or of love or anything else fur lor that matter is In the Bible which Is Gods God's odb word Love as I have translated It is slow to lose patience It looks for a way of being lon c It i is not posses possessive ive It Is neither anxious to 10 impress nor does docs it cherish Inflated Ideas of its own importance Iove has good man man- ners and dues docs not pur pursue Ul selfish h advantage It 11 is not touchy II t dues does not keep account alO of evil 11 or ori i gloat 10 1 at over the wickedness of other I people On the contrary It is glad with all good gaud men when truth prevails Love knows no limit to Its en I durance no end to 10 Its trust no fading of its hope hole It can outlast t anything it is in tact the one thing that still stands when aU ciC has fallen Happily happily Married Dear Amy 1 ant am a 16 6 year ear old girl and nd need your assistance to help solve e ea a problem my boyfriend has hasis llis is mother another and father arc separated and he lives with stills his Ilk mother Is always picking on him If hi he stays home hunte one day she gets angry and takes his keys away from him lie He has it a bad temper and they get gel into terrible arguments lie He doesn't avant to 10 leave Il home because he wants to finish but he doesn't want to live Ii In constant strife with his mother Ill Ile cant can't live with his father because his father is h ver very strict and he cant can't get along ulong with him either Sly Iy bo boyfriend friend asked me what hat i to do but Im I'm afraid I might give him a wrong answer Can Cun you OU help Trying TrinS I Dear t-ar I Trying Ahi Advie e your friend to stay lay where he belongs mn i learn to In Inget get gel along by taking and buttoning his lip II II PERSONAL TO Very Good GoodFriend Friend Calir Calif Your friend wont won't bite hitI fight or suggest t you fly m It kite S so tight fight that comple tills wilh all your I It might Ight II C i i Address i al letters to 10 AMY IY ADAMS o c TillS NEWSPAPER For or II a personal reply enclose a ai i self addressed envelope |