Show DO THE MANLY THING SON Dear Amy I nm a teenage boy with a I hope you can set me straight but I think I probably Deed psychiatric I am considerably overweight have tried diets and the whole bit but I still the same I have finally realized why I stay so heavy I leel that reo a I will not be drafted by the Army Hight or wrong this is the best analysis I can give for my problem I cant can't talk to my parents be cause they would be ashamed My attitude some working on but Im I'm not sure how to go about it I cant can't a lee and patriotic or unpatriotic I can see that there is a lear which Hes behind all this which I dont don't know how to erase Freddy Dear Freddy Your attitude docs need work Ing on I urge you to talk to your parents They wont won't be ashamed so dont don't you be and it you need help physical or mental will see that you gd It Few oung men who face the draft are heroes but one must come to the realization that a ajob job must be done and be man enough If called upon to do It Dear Im 24 and my husband Is 26 We have been 15 months now but although we want chil dren very badly had none yet Right after we were married I quit my job and did what I had hadI I thought most good wives should do stayed home took care of the house made it a areal real home and gave all y at and love to my husband so that I would never have to be afraid that he would look lor lorIt It somewhere else like some other men However all my married girl friends and my kept asking me why I dont don't go I back goback to work Ive I've had the reo I mark dropped once or twice by I my that since they work I and bring in an income and help relieve some of the burden their husbands they are being I appreciated more by their nus bands and being better wives husband says he loves me and wants me to do whatever I think is best and whatever I want to do lIe works nights but refuses to allow me to work nights and to come home at late hours while IlC'S not home Since we are only renting an apartment I realize by working I could help save lor a home some day y 1 husband brings home a good check each week to pay our bills and live on but it only leaves a small portion to put away in the bank each week But by my working it would leave much less time lor us to be together and perhaps make it considerably longer before we have children I want to be a good very much and have our marriage last for a but Im I'm not sure if my way of think ing is really best Is it Mrs Dear 1 Though there pros and COliS on the of working wives your are not old fashioned if they are While it Is true that you could more money if you took a position until your first firstI I child came If It would detrimental to the good and lare oC your marriage I wouldn't advise ft The only opinion on this mat ter that Is Important is yours your's and your husbands husband's Come to a and be with It I I I I I I Dear Amy About three years ago I met It boy in a city not fat from where I Since then I had not seen him until this summer when we met again and got to know each other in the short two weeks he was here Reliable sources told me that likes me but I dont don't know for sure Now his birthday Is coming up in a couple of weeks and Id I'd ika to know if its it's proper for me meto to send him a birthday card If that is not proper please tell me what to do so he will know that I like him P M IDear Dear P 1 Send him a lIelI get the message U 1 to AMY IS ADAl elo TillS For a personal reply enclose a stamped envelope |