Show LOVE IS LOUD LORI OF ALL IT IS A GOOD SERVANT CUT BUT A GAD BAD MASTER mrs frank leale 1 11 lift tea on an tho the of 0 f I 1 al bilm ili too A V media 1 I preferable donl iut all vii your xee in on oiw t Cop yil li ISM 19 hi by press AK OC lotion all ra taa J I 1 I 1 rn 04 if N t ta Q aty 01 OVE 1 is a good tiling thing this arioni is perhaps I 1 0 the most widely accepted of nil all the by we live eve tho the bible aible states it not once but many limesand time lines sand and dible bible narrative sets bets foith a great many in ny pretty lovo love stories beginning with that of adam adain who preferred excommunication with evo eve to fall privileges without her jacob courted rachel for 14 years and aad they seemed but a few lays days for the love ie he iid hall unto her all inato history y indeed both profane and sacred abounds in lories of love its might its endurance its erect feet upon the world hii and upon each person in it but after 1 all I is it not rather remarkable that tho the consensus of the worlds worrill opinion is that love is good should we not ot rather say that hat love is the enemy oi of i n man lial i and the favorite deputy of the arch enemy adam loved evo eve a end ill lost paradise paris loved helen and thousands of lives were ivere offered as a hecatomb to her charms cleopatra loved antony anti and lost ost both E egypt apt anti and her own life henry VIII loved a rood good many wives and aad cut off oc their heads so that lie ho might lovo love yet another one better and so on la fen icaudo linc commanded tile subtle diplomat birlien v hen a puzzling crim or complicated mystery was brought be fo ore roldin him arid and lie ho was ivas wise bu but t in ill rather a one sided fashion for if women have often incited mer men to crime or conspiracy they hey have also very often committed crimes themselves for tile the salic sake of some man and have also allowed themselves to 0 bo be used as tools that the man they oved loved might attain tile the success of a crime crime in n which they did not sympathize in fact act I 1 do not know whether the dasas arons rois effects of love have fallen most heavily upon the masculine or the feminine majority of mankind but butet it is safe to 0 say eay that 00 per cent of gw results of love ove have been disastrous arous trous to the race and yet arid and yet do we ire wish visit to do away with lover love had wo the remodeling ng of a wor world ill of which wo we so lou loudly ily complain at times should wo we modify existing conditions very essentially I 1 fancy not especially in this matter of love with its disastrous results it is in fact our dearest foe and surely good christians are bound to 0 leis o e their en enemies c and till cherish those who despitefully use them cupid is not a benevolent deity quite the reverse in ili fact ho he far more nearly resie resembles nibles puck and ariel those sprites tesi whose chief delight seems to be in in tormenting and teasing the very mortals they prefer to serve but egand e t and yet yell we cannot do without cupid we could far better spare a belter man and those whom ito ho kindly refrains frol from tormenting are always vainly coaxing him to visit them let us say then that lu lui 0 like fire arid and water anil and air is ft a good servant but a bad master hat dat hero here again our own is mock us for are w 0 not always declaring that love 1 ii lord of nil all and if so liow low daie we speak of him as a a bad master we can in a measure control conflagrations and floods and avoid cyclones cy clonas while adapting fire and water anil and air to our own uses but who lias has got out patent for a love eb escape earic or a love ment or a beneficent lov ION e trade wind cr ir a safety lati latitude bido for lovers so love is inevitable loi lo 10 e is dangerous love is essential to happi happiness tins love Is dangerous to peace loi a 0 is a bad master lovo love is lord of all love should be kept in subjection ion love laughs at locksmiths lock smiths love in a word woid Ls is a necessary enil eil a most beloved torment torm nf iu in idol at in whose hose feet wo we throw ourselves eien cen I 1 knowing that under thoe tho iho e feet yawns tile lio gulf of despair love liswith is us its and lias has come to stay came to stay in ill fact lie fore wo were born boni before fit alio worlds were made for love is the origin of all ail things arid and tile tha end t nd to which all things thing sare arc tending knowing all this it certainly is the part of discretion to gryto try to ourselves as ull is we can call from the he tyrannous exactions of tins this servant piT vant who is lurd lord of all anti and even while eagerly ag gerly welcoming mill to our beseeching min to make therein his to mt up such defense sand and provide ours alves uch retreats ret reata and ami hiding hi ling nooks that we ive may it least kast lel ilant of 0 our souls to call our own first of sill I 1 would say to women having their hap chappine pine more at heart in this than that of nien men don dont t love too much most women feel it if they dont exactly say gay that they can t lovo love too much they t il courage themselves to liney that their whole idies their happiness here and hereafter their every chance of even moderate content is bound up in ill tiro tho love of tile the moment believe me my friend this is a great nii mitti jakc iko lit in fact it is a ceries of misa f for you yet of d f ourse course by assuring 3 anti and the alio object of your devotion tion that you are lov los ing him with tho one love of your life all that lias hat gone bc attore fore liaa hat been bec n a fully folly all that comon bomea after ft erwill trill but no there is nothing t conle come after this thin love tills this love of lovas is to lifo life anti and beyond death acting upon hi oil this theory tho ho vatic patient nt fol fo truly love is a madness fe feel fea A that bb jhc cannot love IOTO too much or CT to loudly arid ami rather pats herself upon ill lack back that slit she is able to do tho the thina thing 0 BI thoroughly now tile first part of this compoint comp comper mc mistake ig in thinking of your out prestell lose mo affair is as immortal lose loo is m nil fill mortal ni ortal I 1 grant you yon brt tile lovo love of pill fay one mortal for another poor mortal i 1 naturally as mortal a as they fire more so for any mortal of amerigo long longevity eity out lives quite a number of so called immor tal passions love lore in itself is certain immortal and tile the human hent heni t foreve I 1 longs to bo be filled with the divine ichii of ita presence but this very desire i deceitful arid and tale heart ii u constant crying out 1 I have it behold the pear of if grout great price when it only a i rowan roman lacall of very insignificant price tl the he lover is always nit an idealist espe bially tile the fe feminine lover love arid and adores adore no the alio actual act ual object of her al affection bul bu f what she fancies him to lie be then comes tile the d day ay when tile romal komai acarl cracks or famishes or is avei hei in the balance and found v wanting anc the ideal is destroyed and tho the idealist heartbroken for the timo time being but if los loio e laughs at lock locksmiths smiths fati fat laughs at lovers and knows s very wel that the broken heart will heals heal some times without even a scar and to lo al really ready pretty soon boon for another attempt t fit the impossible ideal head upon toi to narrow or too crooked humah hudaa shoulders A great mistake is to consider love at a concrete condition it is ii abstract wt wi lovo love because love is immortal and wo we art an makle made with as much necessity of lov loving n as wo have of breathing both are lawt lawi of our being anti and must bo fulfilled fulfill el bul we tie do not say 1 I will N breathe this par p r nicular tian ar region of air and never nil 1113 other tor for however agreeable or ho precious this especial air may be we know very well that if fate removes u us flout it wo ile shrill shall find all around tin lilt globe air as well fitted to sustain life anti and that moreover we shall go 0 breathing bo be the air more or less con coil genial simply begaii e it is our nature t breathe no now nov I 1 v probably this sounds T very ery cole blooded and very commonplace espe bially to persons just now that thai they have found the one great good ani aiu unchangeable gift of this life and an other but however chilling chil liag to senti ment it is the truth and after all thi the coldest and hardest truth is better thab the rosiest roviest delusion de arion for the one mellow with age and the other simply decnyf and becomes lovo in the ab is immortal love in the is very transitory arid and when as in a fe few cases the semblance of love endure through life it is because it lias has changed from love to friendship which is in good earnest an eternal tie between two souls two dear deluded blind lovers mar ry each ac li supposing lie ho or she has found the ideal eal bein being of an exalted fancy the th lovo love ail bayt ten time and then their vani vanish ah as gradually and hil imperceptibly perceptibly as ether out of an imper factly bottle but if luring during this process of disillusionment the opening eyes of man and woman discover ir the soul laid open to their inspection those congenial and admirable qualities that counterpart of itself which the soul at once accepts as a friend then these two gradually exchange tho the foll foil of love for the reality of friendship the two become tenderly attached tt each other in a perfectly rational and tangible fashion they are good corn coin rades sympathetic confidants stanch and faithful allies very likely they still fancy themselves in love but they are not a bit in love they are far better kofl than lovers they are devoted arid and true friends friend now then havin having traveled round the circle we ive come back to our first consid oration era tion antl and that is the great mistake ini stake rif cl loving too much or rather of loving tol toe much at once A few days ago I 1 saw raw home verses ill in one of oe tho the newspapers by whom or what about I 1 have forgotten but the retrain refrain of each was even this ii v in ill pa risa 3 aw an ayl aal arid and tho the next nest morning I 1 awoke finding those words upon my lips and their bi bittersweet ter sweet ls elanor or upon my tongue even this will ivill pass pas away is till the label that destiny with her inscrutable smile and pitying oyei indelibly writes across every treasure trea sura site vouchsafes vouchsafe to us and 1 love Y is of these theist the greatest so while lie i is ours whilo tho the shining wings aro are folded so close that they disappear while ho he with adol ang eyes aud and caressing careb sing lips swears that his islay shall bo be ete eternal nial let us not forget to whisper to ourselves but by no mens means to him eh en this will PASS away of course I 1 know that nobody will heed my advice or turn aside in the smallest degree for my iv warning arning from the time of cassandri cassandra down the people who raise miyo their voices in ill tho the attempt to warn their fellow mortals of tile danger of their churbe courbe boiu bc receive either cither indifference e or ridicule ridi culo as their meed arid and if they ix persist too vehemently are arc feet bet down a as mad inal arid and in these flays days carried to bloom in dale nevertheless I 1 run tile tho risk anti and once again whis whisper sper in the ear ot of every lover or rather of every lo veress dont love tou too much your whole existence dont set all your li lipes hopes pes dont cast ai as ido ideall all other joys arid and hopes for the sale sako of this love of today which you fondly believe to bo be et eternal crual but which in point of fact is 10 mure more eternal thau tile LUJI which is bound to fail you after a few hours leaving only night behind tho the sun will rise again no doubt mill and its sweetness ind and light may lie bo even more charming tor tomorrow than today IM but it will bu be another day this one will have passed away aai awi for eve ever r ten tell fifteen twenty cars from now you will it if you are at i true woman lovo love tonn tiling thing or somebody with all your loving beart but it wont both is home body kiil ui il as I 1 bail before your and liis his love changes into a noble friendship brok lc ol back it if you have alre already adir reached middle age antl and recall honestly hu nestly and reasonably tho the character tile alio intellect the manners of your ear eai earliest liest lovo love and con consider ider wilether whether it if you were ti itt macit inapt t lihn today just as lie was then yot boud IOTO hirl him I 1 aia sure enro you would not no for in inai you could 1 now DOW lovo love wat would 1 d not loved you lind and the man inan you loved thet has very roi poli sibly developed into 1 3 mal inar you could byno by no means love just as vcr possibly you havo have quite hail ged 1 l fron tile the woman of hk his present I 1 ideal arid and yet po io silly sibly enough when fall or anuci parenti or his own fickle iles divided you fro fron 11 that th t early lover over i 5 oi of vowed to yourself and bini eliat you i 1 wo would 1111 ch clinge inge you never would cease t be iuliis aln in heart if not dot in body that yol yoi would po go through aliro asli life cherishing an n un lin dying dahl devotion ION to him anti giat in tha behind v hither we trims trans I 1 plant tile hopes too ar bright ht to to bloom or 01 earth you avoul v buu be ilia his a and only liis today you sc co what till all that to you recall not without allu tha a year yea rand and a day ILY from the late date 0 of f allo l vows found you hugging hug to your licar hear the con ichon that now dow it at lat you voll hat love real really ay meant that hat tin chi childish blish fancy of a year ago ago was ivas no mort mon than a prelude cac anti and two acar tar later perhaps you a third 1 ideal 0 eal and in his bix months concluded lie ho was ro no YO your ur ideal after al all 1 end and ho fo on oil nd ill fin fil well I 1 dont cipech to alter alio wa of tho the world so it liis bas always been tx ix it will ivill always be as the iho priests chant dut but what I 1 havi hav tried to do what I 1 should be most happ to think I 1 hall had done oven even in a small do gree grce is to warn lovers to warn es capo 1 10 bially these dear a ardent lover esses dont love too much nt at once ro izo member always that even this will pass noayl anti and dont wre wreck C k tho the whole fl fleet cc t b becaas pc a U one fine little craft it lias as gone to pieces 01 sunken fill shoals shall I 1 it in alie vernacular corn com mon proverbs are usually founded or oi i cornmon sense ind and this ono one c po dally so dont don t put all your eggs in cria cna basket |