Show KATHLEEN NORRIS NORRIS' y H Husband Can Jn Cut His that thi r t SOM SOMETIMES IMES a man mangou goes goes' out oP oPhis of J his way to ruin his his' marriage and his life We o Ell Eibert err of k kane ne is such uch a man man lIe He has bas been bee married tar for 11 11 months months' to totally Sally 22 i years rs old who says say rather ath pathetically 1 a 1 I 1 always y kept kep my myself lf clean e n and pure in and andin in my mind for my marriage and I I. I thought El EI did too But since weve been married hes he shocked k d m me and hurt burt m me me io o that that that-I'm Im I'm seriously y think think thinking tog ing of going back to m my other mother pother in fn Oa Oakland and California OJ Elbert is steady teady generous beis he be heis heis is the most natured good-natured man I ever knew he ho is u s popular and considered highly by his firm He lie is s I 10 years years years' older than I c am m and I t have always looked up to himas m my t stepfathers stepfather's closest friend b but t his bo boasting about abou th the experiences experiences' s' s b he has bas had bad with women re really makes ma feel sick lck Dreads Nights ti aye come really to 0 dread toe tae nights when be ho amuses himself with telling pt pie me stories stade a about o t girls l who have wl with h he says say he hasa letter from a high hlib school girl of oft to 16 10 that co could Id have bave put him n into jell jail if It her parents had bad ever got go b hold bold ld of It H He talks talk of ot women in the camp campIn in California where he was a a training ier for three thre years y years is using for tor forbad torb b bad houses that I never ver h heard ard before be be- before before fore fore and f for r the w women la in them tc too N No matter bow or h how close se t to him bun this mo mood d of ot his freezes me completely ai and Iwan I t twant want wan to go away and not ever see ee ty t tt tty t e t a 4 N. N p. p boat holl girls El finds find this very funny tunny He Ile calls me a Puritan and anel says saya he wants me to grow arow up And all aU aUthe the time I know that if U I J ever had bad had bada hada a serious affair with a man which I did not before marriage be the first drat to be horrified he I Is to jealous and nd he n never vel would let Set me me hear bear the end of it In six months month I will wUl have bave a child but El has bas spoiled spelled what hat should be th the happy tI time Ume of ot waiting for tor my ray baby by bl hints that if U it is a boy o he be Is to b be bo initiated the coarser couser side aide of life If while widle still Ull In to J his bis tee teens and taught to drink I and to W handle bardle al women bomen I have ban cried erle-cS' myself sick over alt all tins this II but I dont don't let Elbert see let my illy tears ean and m my asking him bins please plea t tt W spare pare me these there details of f his bis past only seem eem to spur spar p r him on I must muse add that UlI I know and love his m mother and that nothing he be ever did or be she ever told me mo of hint him pre pre previously gave me mo a hint of thus this tide side of ot 1 leis hi life We PO advise me I f am to so terribly unhappy lies lie's Lying r Well to begin bein with gaily Elbert U le making up a lot let of at this A m mm mail cant can't go 0 to the ag age of 04 30 winning the tho r respect of his bl mother moUle and his hla friend Bends and business associates and anda andas at as tU the th same ame time entering upon hearties and dishonorable rela- rela with all aU sorts aorta of 01 women What he be e wasn't completely Ine lairs inex perl nc d w when e b he ed you oi Js s probable Men dont don't have to turn to th the wit unfortunates of of the l lowest vest type for favors nowadays and if it wb what t one one ne hears of college years is' is true and I I dont don't believe all aU of it I by any means purity Is is rather rater r the the except tion than the rule Living as I have ve for 2 20 years y rs in In Ina a town fam famous us for its educational co-educational college I would discount discount- about 80 per percent cent e t of t generalization but there certainly is left m t truth Ma Many hot lege legs affairs are those of genuine at pr prompted d bj by y youth th and and tf freedom tp Jn those cases se one jone understands even if f one does not condone The die dis that s wit Wr inevitably Brings s sto to young lives lives' is an Ut r reas reason n for today's today comparative laxity But any ri man n who invents stories of ot tremendous tremendous' tr m rid us conquests who dwells fondly op On their err memories memori s. s and wb who tortures a young loving wife wite with disgusting details of these aff affairs rs is r really aUy not ot a m man n. n b but an an unreliable van vain vata rather pitiful adol adol- esce t. t Neither in manners manners mind mindi i nor r he heart rt ile adult and your r one one hope bope is that lie b ho will som someday i. i ashamed of of himself as i i are Ask k him a fear fr from now a year rn now J f he Ile would like his bra baby daughter to tomar tomay mar may marry 7 a man mans l like ke b her r father Keep up a a steady barricade of prayer for his better behavior and implement it 1 with laughter Meet bh tales tales' with un obviously true accounts of y your ur own own adventures tures tuxes with movie stars tars visiting oriental princes New York ork million aires sires Say amusedly If U youre you're going go ing lug to be e silly Elith all ail this high hIp school stuff so 0 am II lit Ask his bla friends innocently innocenti if they th 1 knew Elbert was Wal such a B lady Did Bill BIU know that perfectly beautiful ful married woman right here ere in town who said aid she he was going to kill herself for Elbert |