Show I r I MIRROR MIRRO R Kindness May I I o of your I i MIND M I N D By fly Lawrence Gould Frighten Some I II I II I L I I j t tI I e s jr i Y I Will win kindness put pat anyone at his ease case I Answer r No It will win work in most cases cases but there are some people are actually frightened by kind treatment They believe this is because because because be be- cause they are afraid youre you're trying to put something over on them but what really terrifies them is the possibility possibility pos post that you may be sincere For a person of this type has built his life around the idea that everyone every every- one Quo is Js against him and excuses his bad disposition as well as his failures fail faU- ures tires by the fact that no one ever gave him bum a break To admit that you were kind would break down his defenses Can Inhibitions be a cause of lof illness Answer Definitely writes Dr Sidney Sidney Sidney Sid Sid- ney of New York in the Psychiatric Quarterly He maintains main that there Is a whole syndrome syndrome syndrome syn drome a pattern of symptoms which results when inhibitions prevent pre pre- vent yent our releasing inner tension by expressing strong emotions such as love or anger The he syndrome of inhibition includes fatigue ml ml- headaches lowered immunity ty to infection an exaggerated im pulse to cough sleepiness constipation tion itching and hives and several other Ills for which no adequate cause had ben been discovered t Can a child spend too much time with ups grown Answer Yes once he has ceased to be a baby The mark of normal development from infancy to childhood child child- hood is a growing preference for the society of other children and comparatively comparatively comparatively com com- little Inclination to stay with his his' parents except when hes he's hessick hessick hessick sick or sleepy A child who spends much time even with his mother after he is old enough for school either remains too much dependent on her or is over stimulated over stimulated into trying t to behave and think as she does And this makes him feel inadequate inadequate inadequate in adequate because he cannot really reaDy keep up with an adult |