Show 11 II OF INTEREST to WOMEN ll 0 K T L N KAYE Women and z z w w io want io to Mow Dear Dur Miss Kaye Kayo This is the second time I have come como to you for advice 1 1 When I meet boy friends I never have much to say uy I just stand tand still and listen to the other girls and boys talk and just chir chirp once in awhile When I am wit with my girl friends I am always talking talking talking talk talk- ing but when I meet the boys I suppose words fail me What can ean I do 2 I have used cold cream and vanishing cream on my face but it seems eom that it is always alway scaly What can I do to make it nice nbc and smooth I thank you for your trouble JUST A GIRL C The second cond speaks well for tor the first t I thank you ouI ou 1 I. What can you OU do Just be natural natural nat oat ural little girl To be a a. little less talkative than the regulation hatter chatter chatterbox chatterbox box is not In the least unbecoming For or your own comfort just try to know Imo that the boys are merely a part of ot the human family just family just the same flesh and blood same blood same breathing vibrating playing play play- log ing working thinking beings as aa the girls No a awe inspiring proclivities proclIvities- save savo in your our own imagination No O supernatural powers In an any direction directIon- save cave as your our mental attitude mo may clothe them in such That you and they mo may meet in a to girl or bo boy boy- to-boy to sort of ot way In the discussion of ot the ordinary topics of ot conversation without the slightest flicker of 01 emotion emotion emo emo- emo tion or strain Then when you ou KNOW that words that words will vili not taU fall you you thoughts thoughts I will be things Until then force torce noth noth- fn log ing Stereotyped prearranged sentences sentences sen sen- sen-I sen are alwa always s 's stilted and unnatural ural ural neal becoming only to the parrot I 2 Your face WOULDN'T WOULD be right i idear dear not while you ou are using vanishing vanishing vanishing van van- creams The less sensitive skin of ot the lands hands may profit by an occasional occa occa- treat to vanishing cream but the tho face tace never ne Use lisa a good cream croom If you are arc still in the bloom of ot I youth that will be sufficient If It you OU I are nearing the doubtful a age e supplement supplement supple supple- I ment it with a skin food which may be I used as a is night cream toll following owing the cleanser Use Ure no soap and water and I If It your powder does not agree with your skin perfectly make a change I Java Rice agrees with more different skins shins than an any other powder with which I 1 am familiar tammar D Dear ar Miss Mill Kayer I would like you to give me a s little tittle information regarding the I following When a young lady is invited to toso i so flO to dinner with a gentleman I friend to some hot hotel l or such should d she let him order the dinner dinner din din- ner nor or should she herself do her own ordering when the menu is passed paned to her by the waiter Also when being taken to a hotel after a theatre for a little refreshment and a dance should he or she order just a drink or should they thoy have some sandwiches or salad Will you please tell me where I Ican Ican Ican can get a book that will explain French menus menu as a. it is embarrassing not to know just what they mean when the order is being taken I have heard that when you are in In doubt about which or fork to use use the one farthest from your plate Is 1 this a good rule to follow or would it be apt to leave you with with a j knife jenife for your dessert I will wili iII certainly appreciate any little suggestions you may give me along this line so that I will not make any serious mistakes mistake I 1 have been getting along iI alright but would like to feel fael a little ittIe more certain certain tam tain of myself I am Inclosing a stamped envelope for a private re reply reo re ply Thanking you I am Sincerely A A. A AS S S. S The rhe hour circumstances etc usually Indicate the sort of ot m meal al that Is to tobe tobe be ordered and the understanding is perfect between the guest and her host boat thu thus far tar For instance She is Invited to dinner luncheon or whatever ItS it itis S is to be he Unless your meal hn has hns been I siv ordered bv h the host and aced I there is nothing to do but take your our places at the appointed table and await service which Is a very satisfactory wa way the menu is usually scanned b by each the natural consequence being to discuss It a bit after which he the host hostI I will place the order for Cor you as us well as I himself A lad lady when dining with a gentleman never requests anything of ot the waiter walter but always through her host For Instance if It during the progress progress ress reu of ot the meal she should wish more marc water butter or any such trifle she may Inay request It in the manner described Whoever hoever heard of ot a person who could read and understand a a. French menu Some Somo times Ive I've been skeptical about a a. Parisian deciphering oneto one oneto oneto to to the tile extent of ot kno to expect when the waiter walter arrived with It Even the menus written In English donot do donot donot not guarantee us feasting upon what we think we have ordered always However run into the library and make malee this want known and you'll be provided with a a. book that will prove helpful helpful- In let a measure C It If the table Is properly set you should have no fear of ot having to eat soup with a fork or an Ice with a knife by following the rulo rule you suggest sug sug- gest The usual method however and anti the one considered most moet satisfactory is to serve e the silver belonging to the course right with it In that event you ou cannot go wrong Why the stamped envelope There I I is nothing in your letter that need be hid from tram the light of da day On the contrary there is much here hero that may be helpful to another little girl I I am taking the liberty of or donating I your stamp to charity charity In in view of ot the the fact that you ou have oft oCt been requested not to request a private reply unless entirely necessary You dont don't mind mind- all rightie- rightie I I knew you Dear Miss Mill Kaye Could yon kindly tell me ma if Mrs Ella Wheeler Wilcox wrote Laugh and the World Laughs With You 2 2 I am a girl of 11 I am letting let ting my hair grow out Do you know how flow I could fix it Thanking you Miss Kaye I am Laugh Laush and the World orld Laughs With You was originally contributed anonymously anon anon- but the late Ella Wheeler Wilcox Wll- Wll cox has been long and end generally generall given g genthe the credit for tor It 2 little one ont why hy not curl iton Iton it iton on some of ot the nice pliable curlers to tobo I bo had In the department stores There are aro some excellent ones new ones new ones ones ones- I which hold tight and yet et do not injure I Ithe the hair or prove uncomfortable to the 1 head The hair can be curled Cr very successfully until quite long enough to r braid then braid then your difficulties are ended Dear Miss MIas Kaye It has been over a year since I came to you for help and though the Information I hoped for could not be had you told me mo to wait and hope and pray I did Miss Kaye Kayo and as you said the good goodnews goodnews goodnews news did come I am now waiting anxiously for the time when my dear boy will wilt be with me roe He was Over There and was spared to me inn Will you please p answer answer- these questions question for me 1 How does one one go about adopting a baby and just what formalities must be gone through 2 What day did June 10 1883 fall on Thanking you in advance I romain remain re remain ro- ro main One of your greatest admirers E E. E A. A O. O A. A For our blessings let us be forever grateful surely grateful urel they have been man many One cannot forever watch and walt wait and pray and anti hope in vain aln and Im I'm so happy that your reward came early And hems here's to the da day of ot your our happy reunion May Ia it compensate every hour of at trial and uncertainty 1 To adopt a II baby one must employ em em- employ ploy an attorney the fee tee is 35 35 In this state Both noth the parent parents or the guardian guardian guar guar- I dian of ot the babe and the persons makIng mak male ing the adoption must appear In the court together for tor the signing of ot the papers 2 June 10 1883 1583 fell tell on Sunday You ar are welcome welcome and and a a. lot more |