Show OF G. o WOMEN 0 lr KATHLEEN N K KAYE YE I Women a and d glen Ken who wa fO 10 Dear Dur Miss Kaye I am 17 years old I am engaged engage to a young man of 21 Mother thinks we are too young to marry and is trying to discourage it I Ilove Ilove love lovo this boy and I think he cares for me I dont don't see any reason why it wouldn't be all right for forus us to marry He has a good education education tion but is not making Use nee of what he lie learned in school now but makes fairly good money anyway and Im I'm not afraid but what we could get along all right I took a business course but didn't get a position right away and now I feel as though I couldn't hold one if Id I'd get it its it's so easy to forget and get 1 rusty and lose confidence in your your- self I know what I want and that's to marry this boy but all the folks have made such a fuss that I decided to write and see what you think about it If you youcan youcan youcan can tell me any good reason why it would be better not to marry perhaps I might listen to you but anyway Ill I'll know th that t youre you're telling telling tell tell- ing me your honest opinion I thank you and wish you suc suc- cess CeiS ELEANOR Eleanor dear child there Is every reason In the world why you should not marry now I could enumerate them all the tho way down this column column- but why Why bother about the reasons reasons reasons rea rea- sons why you SHOULDN'T when we haven't a single one why you ou SHOULD Granted that you DO love this boy also that he cares for tor you Very well then then only only the more reason why you should not spoil what might be otherwise a beautiful Journey through life together by starting too soon Love Is not love unless it can withstand a year or two of waiting If it cannot endure while you make ready to start right the biggest thing in life ute then better you not attempt to have haveIt It hold through the tests it lt will be put putto putto putto to in wedlock You are both young young too too young You should wait for maturity were there nothing else to delay your Joining hands But there is Boy is not doing his duty It is a discredit to a boy not notto notto notto to make mak the most of training he has had YOU have let slip the special training you must have acquired for some good purpose So please be he sensible sensible sensible sen sen- sible and have him be so You run along back to business college my dear Brush up a bit and take one of the many positions which await the girl who is awake to opportunities Do this the while Young Man finds his niche in the world It may take a year or two but rest assured it will be bethe bethe bethe the best investment ever made and when you have proven to yourselves and your people that you are truly substantial that substantial that you are made of the material that gives you the spirit to wait wait and and work while you wait rather walt rather than to give way to childish impulse and ill time things they'll all rejoice in seeing you rewarded for your display display display dis dis- dis- dis play of Judgment and common sense and nothing will be left undone in ln the furthering of your happiness your happiness your cup will be made to run over over And meantime oh meantime oh the Joy you'll feel just feel Just Justin in being BIG ANY girl can skip off and marry the tho man she thinks she loves It takes a REAL WOMAN to live Jive up to her to ideals ideals to do what within her she knows to be right and best best to to the of her prove courage convictions convictions convictions con con- even to the point of DE DENYING DENYING DENY DENY- YING Y- Y ING the man she loves loves' Im I'm sure I know which one you are are are- and Im I'm glad Iad to have had this privilege privilege- of getting acquainted with you Thank you Dear Miss Kaye This is the first time I have written to you arid and I hopes hope hopel I am welcome My friend is writing to get advice tonight tonight alio Will you please answer the following questions ques ques- questions for forme me 1 M My friend and I had an argument argument argument ment tonight My friend says it is is Dorothy Talmadge and I say it is Norma Talmadge Please Miss Kaye which of us is right 2 Will you please give me the address of Bert Lytell I hope my letter will wiH not make Its home in the waste basket THE OTHER TWIN Another time and the didn't get you There are aro rc three of the Talmadge girls Norma girls Norma Constance and Natalie sisters 2 Bert Lytell Metro studio Holly Hollywood Hollywood Holly Holly- wood Cal Cat Dear Miss Kaye are so kind in helping everyone very every every one that all I can write is that you are certainly a real friend to those in need It is necessary that I earn a little little lit lit- lit tle tie money someway and since since I cannot sew and do not want to take care of children I am writing writ writ- inq ing for your advice When I was a child of 12 years several actors and actresses told my parents parent I had talent It has al always always al al- ways been my desire to go on the stage Not because I was stage staga struck but because there was v a longing from my heart eart Do you think there would be any use of me doing anything like that I want your advice and I 1 will do just as you rou think best If you should decide it is all right please tell me how and where to togo togo togo go for best results I am 24 years old married and have a child of 4 years I thank you for any advice you may give me M. 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B A case of A ship that passed in the night I fear tear my dear For even though you may have had possibilities ties at 12 it Is a very different rent matter matter matter mat mat- ter at twice that with husband and babe In the arena To train for the stage is a long strenuous work some work some something thing that reeds needs must be entered early lest the gray hairs creep in ere the goal is reached Behind the footlights footlights footlights foot foot- lights youth and beauty reign su- su s su supreme preme age preme-age age or middle age for the most part find no place there Thus far I make reference to the drama drama to to those who wish to become real artists of ot the stage If It you had vaudeville in ln mind then I should discourage discourage dis ills courage it anyway even anyway even If you could qualify right now I should object from the standpoint of the breaking up of the home The rhe most important important- thing in your life Just now whether now whether y you u recognize it or not not not-is is to keep in intact intact m- m tact that home to guide and direct the tho babe whose career means more to you than your own own beside beside whose welfare the need of a f few w w extra dollars and cents pales t to insignificance So let letus letus letus us bid farewell once farewell once and for all all to to the long treasured dreams of the limelight lime lime- light Of times a rosy dream investigated investigated gated proves only a nightmare any any- way It is commendable of you to wish to where help where help Is needed but we must find a a. way that will not Interfere interfere Inter inter- fere with your home ties and duties I Why not take orders among your friends friends and and their friends friends for for fruit fruitcakes fruitcakes cakes to be made now for Thanksgiving ing and Christmas You know there are those who either do not care to tomake tomake tomake make such goodies or who for some reason cannot and yet who like the I home made product I 1 1 think you might make malte a pretty pretty- penny by Christmas Christmastime time time and and all without going out of the home Does this plan appeal to you I I should l love ve to do it I IDearest Dearest Miss Kathleen I have two questions to ask you and hope you wont won't think me too much trouble 1 1 I have aye two boy friends which I like very very much They sit to together together to- to gether gather in reading class I sit four rows from them They Thoy look at me all the time during reading Do you think they like me 2 Should you go to a show with a b boyat y at the age of 14 Yours affectionately ONE OF THE TWINS We have taken trouble out of our dictionary so nothing comes comes' under that head you head you wouldn't anyway 1 Perhaps they are only gazing in wonderment at your constant staring at then them If It you were were not looking in their di direction direction di- di how would you know upon I whom eyes were turned 2 No Wanted Wanted Three Three experienced lady demonstrators for city city- work Apply at once Ogden Packing Provision Co W. 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