Show f r- r The i iJ ADVICE TO WOMEN AND MEN WHO ARE TR TROUBLED J IJ I By Kathleen Kaye This department Is Ie conducted solely ly tor for the of or advising on r social personal and domestic tlc problems i If It you jou ou nr aro troubled let mo me help holp you 0 u If Ir you ou have n n. problem to meet let mo me eUg suggest et ft n. way sway If It you OU are arc glad clad let m mo o CI rejoice with you ou All An communications to this depar department will ho bo treated d ns ne strictly conJ conJ- i f Letters must bear tho tho sl signature n turc of ot the writer Tho Initials only will b be used unless some Mme distinguishing name Is 13 supplied Triflers and anonymous writers will bo be l Ignored Ignore Address mo me personally In tn taro caro o of Tho Telegram Kind Kitty Kaye I have asked yo you many questions questions ques ques- r many times and you have always answered them satisfactorily satisfactorily but here Is a hard ope and anda a precious one Last fall as I Iwas Iwas Iwas was getting off a train It at Chicago where we had to change trains a friend of mine came to meet me and brought with him a friend The They are both men of about 35 Well when my friends friend's friend saw me he g gasped and went a little red and when he was Introduced and shook hands with me I thrilled thrilled thrilled-thrilled thrilled warm and d deep ep We seemed very much attracted to each other I had the pleasure of his company for only about thirty minutes but all the while he seemed very fond of me And I have thought of him almost continually ever since but not as I think of most of my I friends I think of him as a good clean progressive man one whom I admire D Do o you think this could be love at first sight Do you think my thinking of him so much Is caused by him thinking of me Or do you think my thinking If him so o much would make him think of me Of course he has never written to courser me l I would think he was a little premature premature pre pre- mature If he had He impressed me as as a very reserved man and andone andone andone one who is very haughty with others Please give me your frank opinion on It and please do donot donot donot not publish th the other part of my letter How can I make my eyes look large Is cutting them at the tho corners dangerous Awaiting your faithful reply I remain B B. B E E. E I Since your friend has not written you ou and you OU would think him a little lit tie tle premature if it he did dido I X can see Bee nothing for it but to wait walt patiently patently trusting to fate to throw you OU in each ench others other's WU way again People more experienced in that sort of tiling thing than I claim it is possible possible possible ble to experience love loe at first frat sight so Ill I'll not presume to contradict It iL YOU seem to have marked symptoms but whether HE has bas is another point Are you quite sure you did dM not imag Ice ine the gasp the blush and the specIal special special cial Interest Or admitting the gasp and the blush as evidence against him how bow can you be sure of or the cause Ho He might have experienced a sudden twinge of or pleurisy And again he might have Just remembered his promise to meet his wife at tho the dentists dentist's to get el little Willies Willie's tooth extracted extracted and and was due RIGHT THAT VERY MINUTE And Anti then again oh again oh well have it your way Not being specially specially- versed in mental mental men men- tal tat telepathy I cannot predict for you But dont don't you ou trouble about thi Inthe Inthe in inthe the least You have conducted yourself yourself your your- self sell in a very vory commendable manner maintaining your dignity ver very sweetly sweet sweet- l ly and it If Cupid really is acting as messenger between you Just leave it all to him him him-he he is one little person who is never outdone Certainly you OU must not have our eyes oyes cut at the corners Do not try to Improve upon nature nature nature-at at least not with a knife Sleep nine hours bours ever every night keep your eyes cleansed and anel bright by bathing I in t h a acid solution and the they will be at their best besL Will you please tell toll me through the tho columns of your paper the following following following fol fol- lowing a The proper use uso of all the fingers f of both h hands as regards the wearing of rings by both ladies and gentlemen and b Is it permissible for an unmarried unmarried unmarried un un- married man to wear a plain gold goldband goldband goldband band wedding ring and if so upon which finger should he wear it Yours very truly M. M H H. H The Tho eng engagement nt ring i is worn on the tho fourth finger er of the left hand countIng counting count count- Ing from tho the thumb When It is fol followed followed tol- tol lowed by a a. wedding ring the tho engagement engage engage- ment mont ring ring- Is lA removed tho wedding ring given Glyen first place and antI the enga engagement engagement engage engage- c- c ment ring returned to the same tin finger er There f is no special AI significance at attached attached nt- nt to tho the other fingers ers Fal Fashion usually dictates the style of rings s and the fingers upon which they shall shaH be worn The rhe latest fad fall for women is IH a n large elaborate ring on the fore tore fin finger cr Ordinarily a man wears only one ono rin ring rings s ol a signet or a solitaire diamond diamond- either on the tho fourth or tho the little fin fin- ger However er Ho a wedding wedding- ring ma may be worn upon tho the little finger cr of or either cither tho the right light or Jett Jelt h hand IHl |