Show Dolly Doily Dale W Will ill Answer It Replies to Women Who Are Troubled By Doll Dolly Dale ri-i ri H 1 IE E v variety ridy and technicality of the questions which pour to 10 my JU 1 J desk make some delay in answering them if it ita a detailed and th thorough rough answer is expected which would necessitate the consultation consultation consultation consulta consulta- tion of various ous various authorities But any query on any question of either ither personal or 01 general interest will wili receive the most thorough atte attention The name and address address' of the sender must be written in full but will not be published pub pub- I ti h rl if a l r to that effect be made 1 c Dear Miss D Dale IJ Is it proper for a woman dining alone to tip a w waiter iter It seems scorns to me th that lt they always always' expect it but I feel for some reason rea rca son or other a hesitancy hesitancy- about I I doing it If It Is considered the thing how much should be given Sincerely MISS A. A C. C R. R 1 Answer The Answer The question of or pro Iras has very little to tb do with tip tip- plug pins It i is not proper propel for a ti man nian to I under muter I accept mone money from a woman any circumstances However as aR lon lonas long lone longas as we have o to eat at and ami the they have o to lo I i I servo von ou it Is sometimes wisest to sacrifice principles to comfort I Prom 10 to 2 25 cents is s enough for or oran I Ian Ian an ordinary meal it tl it is all alI that hat a i i woman should Rive give o I I t Dear Miss Dale Some time ago you printed the I number of positions which were I open in Salt Lake to domestic ser ser t vanta and said that there were so few few j competent maids to fill them Will Will you please print In your columns the Irea I almost any any- I rea reasons that girls prefer thing to domestic work Also why employers do not make the hours I shorter for their maids M. M deB Answer There Answel There are many man reasons wh why Y girls refuse to enter enter the lIt field of or domestic labor and antI foremost among amons mon them is the fact that the pride of ur the average American girl wilt will not work ark which she allow her to do a considers degrading For another thins thing as n a rule sh she is ts not a n ver very d do- do elded success along the lino Ine of wash wash- I tn lag Ins dishes and anti dusting in In corners which do not show Why employers do not shorten the hours for their thelt maids I do not know Perhaps the reason lies in the distinct dis Unel lack o of or sympathy between hol them in the spirit of or Intolerance which one woman is iff prone to feel for or another I nd wo we admit that there are many women who ho acquire acquire- the means which permits them to have n a maid who II never neter have or nevor will know the thereal thereal thereal real meaning of oC the word lady lally the knowledge of oC which would teach her herbow b bow hw V- V to treat the girl hirl who Is in some somer I r sure under her protection and car care I My Dear Miss Dale I May I ask YOU candidly for some ome advice on a subject which h is it I admit I too much for me mc to handle and which is of vital importance to me 1 I I am a young man 25 years of age find and have been engaged for three years to a young lady of whom I am I v very ry fond Since the day of my en en 1 my father has died leaving the support of mv my mother on my I hands I make a month but In these days of the high cost of living I it is 18 no more than sufficient for the support of mother and myself I In the me meantime my fiancee I can I Iree ree reef Is becoming restless at the long I Ieng eng engagement and I am utterly unable to shoulder the double re responsibilities which marri marriage would thrust upon me What i f there for me to do Yours truly N. N A. A E. E Answer This is Ia a difficult matter mattel for a third person to settle an and the hC l that can he be offered is a few Cew J I words which might start things in Iii the right ri bf direction i 1 i Premarital frankness i is the one lung which would ouM save sa nial difficulties Go to your our fiancee and tell her frankly th time the situation ro- ro view your prospects with her aud and ask I her I If she will wait walt patiently until you OU aro arA making enough to 0 support sup SUII port both her und and your JUt mother i Perhaps If It she Is working now the thc I plan of oC marrying and md keeping her 1 I present position will occur ll to her r With your mother at home to do lo the I little housekeeping which would he lc necessary for a n family of oC three adults that arrau arrangement strikes me as quite Ideal TIm This i is providing pro the girl Irl Is 1 y i 4 U i ii i made mallo of or the right kind of oC stuff and andIs Is not lIot looking lookin eu on her marriage as aslie the lie easiest a way of ma making ing a living II Dear Miss Dale Daie Will I have good luck in the future fu ture turo with men I Is there trouble for me I Will I be happy with a 1 clubman I F. F W. W Answer Answer IL Il It is not possible for anybody riot not personally acquainted I with you yon ou to answer your our first It two i questions or en c suggest an answer You can cnn bo be happy with a clubman it if you Oll love 10 him and and can make mak his home I 1 more attractive than his club chum Men Icu must be he studied and each treated acI fiCI ac- ac I cording to h his s personality |