Show r i 1 6 I l bt be um I I I 1 By Kathleen Kaye Queries to this department should be addressed to Miss Mies Kathleen t Kaye aye department Salt Lake Telegram Salt Lake City Utah Queries are limited to one question each and must be written In Ink and on j cn one side of the paper only with full name and address of writer appended alto also name or Initial Initials to be used for identification In ln All names and addresses are held In strictest confidence I For special service phone Wasatch between 11 and 12 o'clock or between I and 4 When necessary please pleasa p phone hone for th the location n of any commodity mentioned I in this department J Dear Miss Kaye It seems seems to me that now would bea be bea a good time tithe to say a word on the tho I cigarette question You once wrote a a. a aver very good thing thing short short but to the point point point-in ip which you made a point of cleanliness of ss Will you please re republish republish re re- publish that for me Thank you ou very much We feel that t that at y you u are filling a big place plate and we we ar are are gl glad d you are proving it worth while EDENE Salt Lake t A A. A year two scrapbook scrapbook scrapbook scrap- scrap book gives gi up the foll following wing Edene a arid and d I I. I imagine it is the query and ond answer answer an an- I t to which you refer reer ily My Dear Kathleen Kaye id i I r sincerely hope I have complied compile yI 1 the rules of the d department so soI I t that that at I may be insured an an answer to toI these perplexing questions I i 1 Is it true tru th that t in the next nert world I smoking for a woman woman Is an unpardonable unpardonable I 1 donable sin I 2 Why is it any worse for a aI woman to smoke than for a man 1 It It I know th these e are very shocking questions for a young girl to ask I Il l Rut but a friend of mine and I had a an i ia a argument and decided to ask your you advice ad ice ice- iceon on the subject I wrote t to you you once before and I thank you yot v. v ry much for the trouble you wen went to t in in answering met mel I hope you wi will not humor the waste basket with thi this letter for I r am very anxious for th the answer answer to these questions FUSSY MISSY l J. J T Fussy Fu ansy y dont don't you think I would b be attempting to cove cover rather a larg large field fie even for an Answer Woman should I r extend my territory to in in- in elude lude the next world l' l Suppose yo you P j permit it me to confine my answer t to things eart earthly and let Saint Peter Pete speak f for r himself himsel at the Golden Gate My Iy advice It is DO DONT DON'T T TS r S SMOKE ff is it i any worse fo for a woman woma smoke than for a man 7 Po Possibly blY it it It may only seem worse The very fact of the o of smoking which no one can deny i is Sufficient reason reason for the girl wh rho aspires to dai daintiness iness to scorn th the habit habit ere ere it is formed Can y yo you u uI i I fancy rancy a truly sweet lovable creature with cigarette breath and thumb With all due respect to the me men God si God bless em let em let us be glad that tha 11 down through the ages a wee bi bit more m r has ha's been expected of the fairer faire s 3 x x arid and let US not prove ourselves unworthy the standard set us by fanIng fail fan Ing ever to live up to it let us d do o our or our r bit to make the word WOMAN synonymous non m us with the word CLEANLINESS CLEAN CLEAN- rI LINESS even LINESS-even even unto the end Dear Miss Kayo Kaye 1 t have been a visitor to your department de de- before and was much pleased i iy the answer I 1 received You told vie e e to come again so here I 1 am Will you please tell me if there i iz is isi s i z city in in n the government Russia spelled something like this S Anyway the ord I want walt contains eighteen letters Sincerely yours VALENTINE Salt Lake t d raF PossiblY w you refer to tir ow This city is a manufacturing tind nd hd trade center in on the river river Sto The population is 15 15 The word words word's is pronounced Sta- Sta ro tie stan accents on the first and final syllables Trust this is all you had hoped for Dentine l ntine Dear Miss Kaye There are so 60 many troubles in m life that it seems you are the Fairy Godmother Godmother God God- mother come to help us all God bless and cherish you that you may never leave our circle My husband and I sometimes have haves s small ill troubles We both belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Latter- day Saints He always leaves a little work for Sunday like going after hay for the horses or or chopping chapping wood I want togo to togo togo go go goto to to meeting He does too but he says his work must be done I want him to finish his work in the weekdays week weekdays days He hasn't been to meeting for fora fora a a long Iong time so it seems hard to get gel him started I usually scold him and make him mad How would be the best way to encourage him and atthe althe at al the same time make him happier want to get him started to priesthood priesthood priest priest- hood meetings Hes He's just a teacher and ana has to be a a priest and an elder How long does a man have to stay ir i either ither of these positions in order t to go to the Temple I wanted to togo togo go go- before this year is over Hoping Im I'm not ot a trouble and that r I Imay I may come again I wish you all the success in the world LOVE Brigham City Citro Yes dear there are many troubles many real o ones ones es that fairly crush rUsh their iron grips grips so so let us n not t deceive let ourselves ourselves let us not confuse conse con con- fuse fise se tragedies with trifles Lets Let's at t least multiply every opportunity to smile and count our OUT blessings by the ine number that we do our sor sor- sori i And if it do deceive rows we ourS ourselves ourselves our our- S selves let it be on the side of gain not not loss Th That t yoU you wish to help your husband husband hus bus band I I have no doubt To lead any person person into th the way of 01 the forming of better habits is worthy but in that effort for another we must ever be most careful not to let self sel I enter in into r in to to deceive de eive ourselves that it is foY another twe we work worl when in reality it itis' itis is' is the for the glorification of self It H is w Rill ll enough for yOU you to advise with the the husband u to to suggest sug-gest ways and means me-ans of makin making plans whereby he hewin win he free to do what he wishes wisher on tn the Sabbath Sabbath day but never for a moment nt must you you lose sight of the fact hat he is a separate individual responsible for his soul himself himself- direct to his Maker the same as you are are for yours For you to work out your your own salvation is your privilege e husband husband has the he same re e for himself him elf It would be splendid if through love and kindly influence he could 1 be persuaded to loin join the family F In in doing the church duties but for YOp e to to scold him himm and make him mad and thus hying h hin a dis discordant atm atmosphere sphere into the home is likely ly more m more re ret t to bo bl condemned in the si sight ht o ot th the Master Malter than bis 1 lack of diligence dill dili gence in things church So determine that while you'll tit to- ter terest terest- gt yo yourself in hubby's welfare you'll- you'll remember every minute that fie he NOT res NOT your responsibility and es pride e er from r sweetly W worded rde kindly h N r 1 d' d s S 'S Y r 1 1 I i I I I i i persuasion let him answer for his I soul in the way he will the while you answer for your own own And r re remember remember re- re member too that one of your sacred duties is to keep happy and cheerful cheerful cheerful cheer cheer- ful regardless Why not suggest on next Saturday that all hands join father and make a lark of assisting him bun to do all the possible things that he leaves over till Sunday Of courSe course you must be tactful and graceful lest you antagonize antagonize antagonize nize so on the Sunday thereafter I should merely say casually Dont you want to go to meeting with us daddy and press the subject no further On the next Saturday have another lark and on on Su Sunday day make your plea plea pIea for church a bit stronger by telling him how much more fun it is to have him with you you that that you miss him so when he ho doesn't go etc eta etc and I believe hell he'll capitulate Possibly not that day but with patience patience patience pa pa- tience and tact you'll win And when once he goes give real thought ht to making the hours thus spent nt joyous ones ones make make it possible for him to toV V WANT ANT to go because there is more to call him out than there is to keep him at home And let me ask again that regardless of what he does Inthe in inthe inthe the matter of worship you KNOW every minute that it does not justify you making an unhappy home or even in being unhappy yourself There is no definite time I believe for one to hold the position of priest or elder The bishop of the ward in which you you live is the proper person to consult on this matter however and he will be pleased to answer all such questions I thank you Love for your lovely appreciation of my effort and assure you that were I the Fairy Godmother you would term me I should have no greater joy than in waving raving the proverbial proverbial proverbial pro pro- magic wand over your little hearthstone Since I cannot do that rye tried hard to 10 make you see that happiness lies within yourself re re- re Wont Won't you write again that I may know whether rye Ive succeeded succeeded- and l' l if not wherein I failed Thank you Dear Miss Kaye Pearl Harding the cousin of President President dent Harding was invited to go to the White House to live Will you please give me her address E. E R. R Price Pearl Hardings Harding's brother proved to tobe tobe I be an Impostor for which he is paying penalty Pearl is not a cousin of President Harding but was made to believe so by the brother She merely hoped for an invitation to go goto goto goto to her heir cousin in Washington WashIng but never received it The home of this broken hearted disappointed little girl is Chicago Dear Miss Kaye As I am about to enter into the bonds of matrimony I must know how to cook above all things and although I can cook quite well now I would appreciate your suggesting to tome me me the title of a good cook book that tha r contains every day recipes including the baking of breads and pastries I also the putting up of various kinds of fruits and preserved meats Thanking you very kindly in advance advance ad ad- I vance and wishing you a long life lifo o of happiness and g good od fortune I I remain SUNSHINE Salt Lake Probably one of or the most complete cook books to be had In the market marketis is the revised edition n of The Boston f Cooking School by Fannie Merritt Farmer price You are welcome and heres here's a wish that yo you may may live live happy ever after My Dear Miss Kaye J Will you please give me the title and author of a good book on self self- cultivation in English that can be had tad at one of the local bookstores I send you my very best wishes i and thank you in advance for your help E E. E M. M S. S Salt Lake The Correct Word and How to Use It It by Josephine Turck Track Baker price irice Your Everyday Vocabulary Vocabulary lary ary and How to Enlarge It It by Josephine Turck Baker price 2 Self Cultivation in English by George Herbert Palmer price Expressive English by James C. C Fernald price 2 All these may be had in the local market I thank you ou for the good wishes and assure you that I enjoy assisting you Dear ear Miss Kaye I 1 have been a constant read of The Telegram for several months mo and I Ian Ican Ican can an truthfully say that I never have enjoyed reading anything more than I do the ium I have s several veral packages of seed brought rought from Germany German by my first husband who is now dead I have not lot be been n able to find out whether they hey are are vegetable or flower seeds so I come to you for aid These are the names lames written on the packages Kubel ubel salat dill I t will be truly grateful if you will willell tell tell ell me men which they are Wishing you all all' the joy this world can an offer I am lovingly Spanish Fork You do dome me honor It is always most pleasing to be I thank you for the good I wIshes too and return the same ame to your you ou Kubel is cabbage salat is l lettuce is bean is thyme and ad dill is dill plant used in pickles etc c. c The other two names I could not ot decipher Sorry Dear ear Wonder Woman Like many others when in doubt I come omo to y you u. u And I ani am an so thankful that hat we have someone who can soothe our ur sorrowS sorrows and give ease You have all I my good wishes for a long and prOsperous life which I know is for you ou Miss Kaye I want to get in touch with someone who handles corsets I t live so far out that I thought hought perhaps you would print the address in ip the so I could write and not have to come in I hope tope to see my answer soon THANKFUL Garfield Garfied r How lovely of you you thanks thanks a lot An agent nayl be reached by writing Mrs Kate Clark 24 South State street Salt alt Lake city Utah V |