Show a I I Letters and questions for fop the department should be addressed to Miss MIS Betty Detty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Haven- Gait alt Lake Telegram Write only on onne one side 1 of orthe the paper It It- Itis i is necessary to append your name and address but these I are held in In- confidence and ard d will not be published Lost and found notices can cannot ot be published In the column y- y r HUSBAND HOMESICK This his is ts the second time I have come to 10 yo your r corner I love to read other what other people w want t as well asto asto as asto to h hiv have v. v my own questions an- an an What I want to J know now now is s just what t to do doi We are doing very well that here hare that Js is s making better bet t ter r wages than we did In in our old ola home miles from here in m an another an an another other state Th There r is il s no one but I my my husband and me we are not not- young any more we are still able to work but may not be in a few y years ear arl My husband is II homesick and nd wants to go back home and I want I to stay here hero another nother year and work and work x 0 o we will be in better shape t to tand a layoff Sometimes he worries worries thi thinking king lie he may Tay die out here and he doesn't want to be bi buried burled in a place like this Now the main maui question is is this Which Which is worst for me to me-to to stay tay here and stand his nagging and and- have plenty to do with or go home and live live from from hand to mouth with no accommodations ns in the house bouse I am not strong cannot do our gur ur washings without a machine and at at our old home we have no accommodations Here I have an electric washer and iron He does not have ave to work any harder i rde here than he does at home and we cant can't afford to make a trip home and come back He Ho says saYI if f flie he lie ever leaves here he wont won't come comeback back Please advise me what you think is Ia best and I thank you in ad advance ace t. t ANXIOUS WIFE Nevada There Ther Is no worse sickness than I homesickness Anxious Wife VUe It eats eat right into the soul and body body of of Its It disintegrates one morally and mentally I am reminding re re- re mi minding ding you jou u of of- this merely merel nere that jou ou may ay have more sympathy lY for forthe forthe the homesick m mate te not that you sou ou U r succumb cumb to the nagging that H 5 a a. result of the frustration ot of his t to to- togo gO go home The kindly earth arth will wilt take tale one In its sheltering armp when this life Ute Is ended no O matter where the spot that one happens happens hap hap- pens ens to l lay y him down but it is not RO so o kind a provider to the Hying One Is sometimes s driven from irom pillar to fo post one before one encounters conditions con con- that permit one to eke ek out an nn existence existence- And when one one finds find those conditions it itis is not always a aIse i vise Ise thing to do to surrender them them- r to the Zhe call of the place where one hopes to end nd at last the struggle Pot For one must continue to live one must continue ue to struggle so 9 long longas as the breath of ot life lasts Why make k rn l e existence turbulent turbulent- with strife strite with Ith needless har hardships when the final rest est lures with pr promise prom ni ise iise se of utter and complete quiescence cence en e And what do does s it matter ari after all aU on what particular spot Inthe in inthe the e broad brod universe clay l y returns to I Clay glay- clay I Just the mere act o of ot Jiving livI e een en en irIti fIm the struggle is is' is sweet if one learns t to td tune In Iii on lifes life's sweet sweet- ness nets ness Ca Can j YOUr you ou without making g the effort fort apparent nt to his tender se senses ses surround your OUr husband with some some- some some-S tiling thing of ot t the e atmosphere of the old home at th the same lime jime Ime jou ou are are subtly leading him away from th the thep p idea of a a. return A Anew new friend r with Interests Interest akin to hIs hI's his own own a ahome a home Iome town n newspaper a a tree planted plant plant- cd ed right at atthe the same spot sot with rek re- re k to TV where here one stood tood at home letters letters' friends back home telling the changes that have taken place Haken cn place then thea your own apt re remarks rei re- re e i marks that the ther th old places s never the same when one returns Change Chancis Is Natures Nature's scheme of perpetual per per- 1 motion and like as not lie he would be unhappy if it he w were ere to go go goT T back ack with little chance cnance o of ot finding work and your jour our own unhappiness discomfort x and possible cOIl consequent nagging flagging to put up with up-with w If It it would set his mind at rest promise him that in the tine event he departs departs- into before you jou do unknown ou roo will take take him home Make life lice as pleasant as you lou c can n for him himin I in jn the interim and urge cautiously t continuously on Ills his mind the fact that that nine tim times s out of ot ten len when one orne answers answer the homesick call things seem scent the he same This added t to your picture of probable physical misery n should help belp to content content- his mind If It it were possible to make alJe the return trip with full assurance ance that you sou could return to your our pres- pres e cut ent t state of well being I 1 am s euro etre ro he ie i immediate cure for his nostalgia i rould be b found But under the circumstances cir clr- cir cir- ces one can caa scarcely dare take the risk f f NOTE OT TO MRS MRS I. I kG G. G t j t p In the case you jou ou mention your tour lett letter letter let let- t ter r IS' IS l is o out t of order for the column Those Iho wb whom m you jou consider best belt doctors should be consulted personal per per- surgeons j surgeons would JaG ise th the knife homeopaths homeopaths' and osteopaths 3 have t used ice packs Hot packs are are- nev never er under any circumstances in this thill case caJe since heat distends die dis T tends the membrane to the breaking Point Some who ar are considered dOctors best best d doctors state tb that t ice packs but delay delay- the climax of the tho trouble It It is very verj er imperative that In su such suh h a ease case ase a a. reliable reliable- doctor be consulted and that immediately I TO TO DANCE CRAZY Iad r I-adie I ie you jou Ou to look in th the the- busi business usi- usi j- j v iesi ness directory tory of the telephone book under the heading Dancing Dancin Acad Academies watch also the annOuncements annOunce annOunce- ments of Qt the dancing acad academies ad W in The lio Tel Telegram am for special ape ape- cial dat s cial summer w work ork which will be of the th very eiT sort for which you ar are and and write them regarding regarding- their terms and the duration o of ot th the time necessary to prepare you jou OU for jou jour uy hearts heart's desire r rANTS ANTS CUTWORMS C Dear Dar ar Miss Mist Blair Is 18 there th re anything that will wiH kill Around my house arid and garden grden the Itlie ants rit have made their beds Then th there re is some kind of long lona worm that il it is eating the I lettuce M I. n loi j 1 litt J t y ut Iy- Iy S I y I ans answer r these thes two qu questions for me meI I will gre ly appreciate it Thank yo you MRS C. C There are various ways of of- exterminating exterminating exter exter- ants oth other r than by by bythe the commercial exterminators you may buy at drug st stores res jOne One is to fill the ant nt nest with with- kerosene and stop up the opening with cotton cotton- soaked in kerosene Another is to collect th the the- antS ant in spon sponges es soaked in syrup and plunge the sponges in boiling water Some people eople pour boiling water into their nests ne from froma a a teakettle The long worm worm worm that thatis Is eating cating yo your r lettuce must be a cutworm orm Kerosene Kerosene Kerosene Kero Kero- sene mixed with ith soap Jellied in hot hotH water H ater and nd sprayed around on top of tho the ground neat near eat the tle plants Will keep the ct a a a y ADDRESSES OF TEACHERS Dear Miss Blair alai i Here I am c coming ming to o your corner corner cor cor- ner ncr again agai for help Could you tell me where and ana are re living The They have both been teachers teach tech ers at the Plymouth junior high school for some time I I am very much interested in both of these teacher I am planning on having three threw couples come to my place Could you tell m me some lome games game or what to todo do for forthe the evenings evening's s ent entertainment The guests are to be from 13 to 17 years year of age Thank you MARIETTE The first firs n named med t teacher a i r is listed in the city directory With residence nce at Kearns apartments apartments' the second at 2444 South The column has printed games so so- many times re recently that we do not feel Justified in taking space for fora a repetition of ot th these se Th They y have ap appeared appeared appeared ap- ap in in Hearts Heart's Haven on the tho following dates Sunday April 21 Tuesday April 23 M May y 1 May 25 Wo Yo add acId one more more- to the list The The- others may be had by s sending the regular price of the paper pager to the circulation department of The he Tele Tele- gram I GAME OF GOSSIP I Gossip 1 Is the the- nam name of ot this game game- I The players are seated in a circle The leader whispers a a sentence e I 4 quickly 1 y to the one seated next next next- to him ilm Th The s second player whispers it t in turn rn to the next player and so soon soon soon on around the circle le No Tp one may whisper th the sentence nt nce twice wic and each player repeats it a as he e thinks thinks- he hears it It is is' interesting to hear how the last ers n n- n nin in the circle interprets the th s sentence nten e which he does toy by repeating it al aloud ud T This is sort of gossip may go around the circle several times with witha a different person starting it each ti time e. e Dancing Dancing- card ard pl playing ying and old fashioned magio tricks which t only two or three of or the company Know may complete the evenings evening's enter enter- Dont Don't forget the refresh refresh- ments a PUPS NEEDING HOME Dear Miss MilS Blair I I have haye two little pups pups to giveaway give giveaway away to any of your readers ruder who would J like to give them a a good good- home I would also like to give give the mother to a sheep man needing a a good dog though she is also ilso a good good- h hose hoys ille dog I hope good homes home may be found for them Interested parties may my call in in inthe the evenings after 5 p. p m. m or mornings gs after fter 9 a. a m. m in the reap rear of North NorTh- Seventh Seventh Sev Sev- West MEOW Wo WG are hopeful that good homes homes- may ay be found for rot the pups and anc the mother sheep do dog TO INEXPERIENCED See the answer answer to to Mrs C. C in this issue issue treatment regarding treatment of w worms eating your plants Anything that Anything that will kill the Hie we weeds weeds except ds except the tho hoa or 01 other ther Or physical de de vice for removing th them them m also alsom kill m th the tender young joung plants COIN VALUE Dear Miss Blair Has a 5 gold piece made jn in Jn 1886 1836 any value other than its face fae value Thank you CURIOUS The 5 gold goh piece piece- made mane in 1886 has hils no premium value C Curious rio s |