Show BETTY BLAIR k L tI and questions for the department should be addressed to Ml i setty Blair Heart Hearts Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only on one side the It I s necessary to append your name and address ot of f Piper paper but th theore theo th-se I ire re MId herd ld In ln confidence and v III not be published Lost and fo found not notices ea cannot neOt h be published in the column l HUSBAND DRIFTING AWAY ID DeJ D Miss Blair Having iving no mother I have always d my own problems alone but butthi this thi one is Just too much for me so soI I am coming to you for a share of kindly wisdom yur t 1 I married when I was 16 four 16 four ear ago go and have a dear clear little I am expecting another baby In I several months My husband is ily a few years older than I in years but he is a child when it itc c cemes ames mes to taking responsibility He Heing ing n cn tn only son his people have waited on him thought for him hini and panted granted every little want and when 71 were married he had no idea of the j J e real trials and problems of marred married mar mar- ried red life None of us have havo very extensive ex extensive ex knowledge on en the subject beforehand but he was unusually t. t Weve We've managed pretty pret pret- ty tj well I have been able to work r ind d help some and we have been very happy But the tho last year ori or ft I i iTne he ha has been gett getting ng restless and 1 seemingly tired of being tied down I H H. H has made no secret of going places without me of taking girls to I dances clances and amusements that are impossible im im- possible for me right now Lately l has talked about wanting to be bC Ilee Fires NOW Miss Blair I could get a Divorce divorce and live with my wealthy I nt-I nt I suppose that would be the porting thing to do but it would Just fu t break brdak my heart I love lovo him d I think he really cares for me mo nd nd I want desperately to make a of this marriage of ours Ive I've Iver r r ever nagged at him for leaving me mei i Ione one so 50 much in tact fact Ive I've urged him r 1 get a little recreation when I Int ant nt accompany him I have deVoted de- de Voted all my energy to making home pleasant for him but he seems fJ lost interest in everything jut but having a good time with a at younger crowd If I could get out t nd ind dance and swim and go 0 to parr par- par l s' s with him things would be dif r ferent hrent but I have been working flights and now I will be tied down downor I I or r some time l I r am willing to take part of or the theme I lime lame me if f I just knew wherein it lies pt t my big problem is to bring back ii h he contentment and happiness that ur UP ur little home has so completely 9 st t. t Please help me With very fit eit t wishes I am DOLORES r iTes ea 3 old dear you ou could ouM do tho the fino no thing straight rough v vei n to giving gl him up when foregather to tie tic him But youre you're not going to do Instead you ou must act In a 1 manto man- man tot er to the sporting thing 61 dL t 01 1 And I think when It came to laving you vou and other otner girls while you rou worked to tot t tP P your our little from going goin lithe rocks and too while wIllie you rou are o a condition of or health owing health owing o doubt to his liis selfishness that selfishness that I C Cl 1 beha behavior viol Locks lacks every clement element he square deal I Howo er 11 It does not solve the tho for fOl us to deal dea In ons D s now Your own love lovo for him in so much leniency is s no doubt been partly to blame eJa eIs as you say any a child chUd And do have to have certain rings n attached to their Incomings Ld d outgoings ing They must be certain basic balle rules Loyalty for the rights of others nth ith th honor responsibilities If It not hen are they ever er to take tate their lace ice ace among ups grown-ups Wo We are sed already of being a nation I duit Lets Let's not harr har- har or r rL an atmosphere that could pro- pro ace nothing but lf Jt ho he must have his hours of or rec- rec and lotion and he should have plan have plan him to make snake it something In ilich you can ron accompany him Go ih him as long as It Is physically sIble and comfortable for you rou to toG G GO o. o When It i. i Is no longer possible or OL you to 0 go plan evenings at ome sine with wills friends dropping In for ridge or radio programs or what what- iver v r else your own circumstances rU ill III permit t. t Ut lt i Is il to your our credit that you OU are arc fot q ot the nagging sort or of wile wife It If through brough the these o few waiting months Vou o 4 can preserve your our equilibrium Both Inwardly and outwardly It will Add d J 1 to your Our own strength and pow- pow in tho the long run iad now I have an Idea blea that ma may M Pot at all meet mt with your approval yet Vet It is one ono which has proved ef- ef fh feStive in m many cases As soon aft- aft tithe 4 the event as it will be possible you joc-you to do so so grant him a mariUl marl mari tt Ul vacation Close up the tho house advise him to visit his parents for or two and you OU take tho the Children and visit your our aunt Grant and gladly but not with wUi the tee thought apparent that it may hi the beginning of the end I Keep Keel u uppermost tho the Idea that such va va- va 3 mo are arp necessary to the happl- happl J or of iBl nil all m married J people Make I Tm JIn teel t th the dignity and strength ct v your Our lOvo Jovo V trust tr Tell him Mm t you OU do not intend durIng this h H time n to do anything that I uld Uld reflect in any degree on marl marie mar- mar l ie sc Jc vows ow nod antI neither do ou you exI exIt ex- ex t It of f him Let Lct know that ru ou will Mil b be happy to pick Ick up tip P family Ir U f n when each cacti shall be ready F it Do not he gIve him the thc ld Idea ida I i hu Still this u vacation i III for tot hl his especIal P CIlI 1 He hn has a the thc Idea too w well 11 jed ed In n 11 mind fn I n now that hat eP special In are ordained j Just for tOl him now r Lila i y You u are as asAn much t f II a change that a as h he is and OU yo are b It for the or both bolh It is that yi ur own judgment t to Institute ma may lead you QU tim limn 3 rather the ld h arrival a or yoUr OUr second And An now MW if H i it will wUl a. a ot I to your Our S one in ray pati Md let that I an of no mo Our oUr h nil do opinion that love 10 you ou and deadly The apt to fo affect the monotony or of life fant nerves of Older ohler than Your Our thier lher circa it rn rn which out to b be I s neer fleere ices interesting Ic conducive male to 10 happIness make I appreciate theli OWn O And nd hes beal mind adage W 10 j r S jy V and ud whom UtI OUr I. I 1 I t. t duo due amount of servIce 3 from him Our wishes for tor a happy outcome REMOVING WAX STAINS Dear Miss Blair Will you please tell teU m me how bow to ic I remove candle wax v stains from a I crepe de chine dress Thank you OBOE Place brown paper or a dry cotton cot cot- ton Ion cloth over the UIO satin and a C n I hot Iron Two applications If rna may nty b be Ii necessary to completely ab absorb rb the thc wax In the tho paper or cloth You arc an welcome ON KISSING Dear Miss Blair We Wo are deeply troubled over Al an extremely puzzling question Why oh why cannot the male of the thi species kiss without emitting saliva on ones one's cheek Hoping to receive an answer to enlighten us on thi this matter we remain your faithful ad admirers admirers TWO KID SAINTS A kiss without saliva m my dear dea Kid Saints is Ja i like Uke an egg without without with with- out Ut salt You I tee see e I had to submit this to a male of or the species species one one most moat likely to know know and and If it this L in i the tho point of view in iu general genera am and you dont don't like It It well well I suppose you must make up your our minds that the better the salt had lost its Us savor savo and forego osculation altogether BOOKS LIBRARY HOSE Dear Miss Blair Will you kindly give me a list o of interesting books of fiction to ge geat get at the library I do not seem t to pick interesting ones I should uk like something on the order of Main Mai Street or Elmer Gantry Do you think it looks well fo for the women in the library to roll rol their hose and then get on those thos stools to reach for books before all al the men customers I do not think that sets a good example for the theyo th yo younger nger girls several beveral years ago I purchased a bottle of for falling hair and to restore color and I have not been able to purchase it since I Iwonder Iwonder wonder if you could give me the address Thanking you in advance for these favors I am a regular reader MARY ANN Boston b by Upton Sinclair An American Tragedy by Theodore Theodole Dreiser most anything by Anatole France For something on a different different different differ differ- ent order try Joseph Conrad Later books are The Bridge of ot San Louis Uey ney My Iy Autobiography by Isidora Duncan and Joan Lowells Lowell's Cradle of tho the Deep Awake and se by Louis Dodsworth by hy Sinclair Lewis Oh Mary Iary Ann do 10 you OU suppose tho the younger generation are watchIng watchIng watch watch- Ing anybody but themselves to no- no I tIri tico how th they V wear their nr or any part of them ot-them them You You- m must t s-t- concede eon con cede that modern ways was o of rolling their own or wearing caring none at all when the tho weather permits are more mor sanitary And healthful than the tho old ways Do you ou not recall the days das when whom short sleeves to the elbow bow Were considered a disgrace Its It's all according to the tho manner in which your our mind Is clothed as to what you will wUl wear or l permit others torea to wear weal rea Sorry cannot locate for tor you ou the tue particular hair hall tonic you ou Inquire about If JC you will send a stamped self seIr addressed envelope I will vIli gladly glad glad- ly Iy mail mall you tho the sago Bago and black tea formula for lor keeping the hair from graying It also acts as a tonic I You are aro always welcome TWO DOGS Children hero here are two lovely doss dos for tor you Ono Is part Airedale has hasa a lovely disposition is about 6 months old ohl and will make an ex excellent excellent ex- ex pal for some kIndhearted child His Ills present owners who are very cry fond of ot him aro going away and cannot tako him hini with them Hema He lie ma may bo be found by calling Mrs J B. B at Hyland The other pet Is a Llewellyn Liewellyn setter setter settin set set- ter tin about 2 months old lie also must belong to somo family that will know how to appreciate him He lie may be bo had by calling Mrs Irs L I at Wasatch J. REAL NAMES OF STARS Dear Miss Blair Will you please give me the real names of Joan Crawford Marion Marlon Davies and Colleen Moore Thank you and may I come again PEG Course Courso you may come as often octen as you like Peg Joan Crawfords Crawford's real name is I Lucillo La Marlon Da Davies Davies' vies vies' is Marion Morion Douras and Colleen Moore Is Clara Morn Morri son Welcome ADDRESS POSTCARDS Dear Miss Blair Many thanks for or the list of books you gave me mo and may I bother you again Can you tell me where the Detroit Publishing company is located lo located located lo- lo Also where could I obtain postcards of the following ships Baltic and the Thank you BEATRICE The Tho Detroit Publishing company 1 is located at 2373 Seventeenth e street Detroit Mich MId Get in touch with wiLl Georgo George Evans E Souvenir Novelty Novell Nov Nov- ell cIty elty company an 44 East South Temple street in regard to ordering Postcards postcards postcards post post- cards that not In stock at tho the regular book shops or other othI places where they may be sold Welcome GRADUATION GIFTS Dear Miss Blair My friend and I are both graduating graduating grad grad- graduating from high school in June Could you suggest a gift I could give him that would be both appropriate appropriate ap appropriate ap ap- and inexpensive He likes to play cards but does docs not like to read books Thank you very much ROXY Yer Very well wen then give him a a. gift gilt set of ot cards such as aK are ate to bo ha haIn had hadIn In III tIm the gift departments of or tho book boole shops It might flIght bo be a IL good plan too to encourage his taste in books that no boy could dislike such sueh as the tho Conrad books already mentioned In Inthis Inthis Inthis this column What are some ot of hl his other Interests Tennis fish fishing I 11 hunting hiking or on what These Them Ih ro roaro are aro accessories for fOl Oc c each ch of at these I 40 t i J sports which If Ir indulged In would i please any boy Tennis balls and sheath for tor racquet fishing and bag canteen bottle compass compa knapsack and various arious other othel things tiling the sporting houses will be he glad t to show you ou We Ve hope this list a ill ill h.- h. ho h. suggestive of ot something that will satisfy you OU as giver and your friend as recipient GIVE UP BEING PAL Dear Miss Blair May I ask your advice and also that of your readers on a subject which I feel fee eel will be bo of interest to to quite a few Do men in general prefer a wife who is always ready to don her hiking togs for a fishing or hiking trip and who is always happy to work in the garden or do they prefer a wife who would never hever soil her hands with such work and who keeps herself and her house immaculate and is never seen to stir out of it unless dressed for town or an entertainment of some sort Now my way of conducting myself myself myself my my- self has been the former I dress very at home and for street wear and when fixed up will pass for fairly good looking But Butone Butone one thi thing g I I. I do notice That one I cannot indulge in the out of ot door trips which keep one in the sun hours at a time and not pay for it with sunburn I am very dark complexioned complexioned com com- anyway and by the time summer is over I am just like an Indian I use the best of creams faithfully and take all reasonable precautions such as wearing long sleeves and always a hat Whilo While my husband seems to want me to be a pal to him and do these things still it seems he admires the fairer daintier type also I have always tried to strike a happy medium medium medium me me- by being as much of both as possible I am in perfect health and have always been which is something that would be greatly appreciated by many men whose wives are so unfortunate as to be sickly We have four lovely children all little brownies like myself who are also lovers of the out of doors doors doors- two boys and two girls I doors I am 34 24 and my my husband 37 and nd we do have hav some good times though at other ether times it is embarrassing to be so dark I dont don't think I am drawing on my imagination at all when I Isay Isay Isay say that at times it is annoying tomy to tomy tomy my husband Now Miss Blair what would you do And Readers tell me too too too- would you give up this out of door stuff and preserve what little daintiness dale dain tines has been bestowed on me or go through with the outing trips in spite of my handicap Now I wonder wonder wonder won won- der just which my husband really does prefer Can someone give mean me mea mean a an idea One more thing before I close I must say in self defense that I dont don't neglect my house nor go untidy untidy untidy un un- un- un tidy nor allow the children to do doso doso doso so and I do every bit of my own work Now this is no youngsters' youngsters discussion discussion dis dis- dis for I feel that they arc are not capable of judging fairly What I want is the opinion of people near our own ages who know whereof they speak BROWNIE i My I dear I I you ou arc are becoming becom becom- ing leg unduly alarm alarmed d There Thero w were re blondes abroad exercising their charms b before oro your our hll husband married married mar mar- ried tied you ou weren't there fliers lie ITc probably |