Show BETTY BLAIR i 1 Letters and questions for the department should be addressed to Miss Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only on one side of the paper It is necessary to append your our name arid and address but these are held are held in confidence and will not be published Lost and found notices cannot be published In the column 4 CRAVING FOR MOTHERHOOD Dear Miss Blair H Here re is my problem for you to ponder onder over and answer I have been married marred three years and quite happily But now arises a bug be r. r I have a widowed mother with an invalid an-invalid invalid sister to help sup sup- support port My two brothers who are also Iso married but whose wives work pay their pro rata share She re refuses refuses re- re fuses tHan to to with any of us and keeps up a separate home which Is is more costly than living hiving with one of us and the others paying their share of her expenses I have paid my share without y a murmur from my wife wife Until until a few days ag age L I had given her a little lap dog don which a friend had given her birthday present While sh she was cuddling the pup I t made the hie laughing remark that she treated it t like a baby She winced and with tears in jn her hep voice re replied rc rc- plied that most likely it would be bethe bethe bethe the only onu- baby she would she would ever hold held holdin holdin in her her- lap I waited silently for her ar to rec recover ver her poise then started to talk things out as ai we usually do Here are archer thoughts We cannot can can- not afford to have any children Kow and unless you receive eiVe an ab abnormal ab normal normal- increase in n wages which in In your position is js unlikely we can never afford to to have one As it is w arc merely lead leading ng nga a hand- hand to mouth existence existence no money in inthe the lie he bank a small insurance nd hop hopelessness You wont won't allow me meo me meo meto to o work and if I did the small wages I. I would I-would get would hardly compensate compan- compan sate ute for the added expenses because be be- cause ause I was working Every woman wom worn woman an wants her own child but I would rather ot have any than to to- have fb fo o bring On one up in in poverty with I nothing for its future I realize you should contribute te to your moth moth- e and not let her become d dependent pendent upon public charity but I if you were to become ill w we would b bt be forced to depe depend d' d dUP UP upon h charity ourselves put aut ut there is s no way way- out ut ut of it iti All we can do is hope and pray I agree agree with with her except that there must be some way out of it After paying my share toward my mother mothers mother's moth moth- er ers er's and sisters sister's expenses we have just enough to live decently on with no surplus worth worth- talking OI ot at Everything she he said is too truthful truth truthful ful of my position and I am not qualified to find a better one one y yet t. t But in time I will But the future is is' rather drear and So Miss Blair please please advise me what to o do WORRIED The first thing I 1 should attempt to io do would be t to jolly my wife wile out ut of her destructive self pitying attitude atti atU tude the expressing of which has baa 1 cast sf such a dreary aspect over ver er everything She evidently has too 1 time on h her r hands in wh which to indulge in gloomy thoughts thoughts- thoughts and ft might be the very ery best thing that could happen to her it if you were to tt give ghe your consent conse t for or her bet to go td w work rk Eith Either r that or or- that she consent ons nt to have ha h her hr r child with the firm determination determination determination de de- de- de termination that come what might the the- three you would stand standby by In your our love for each other and sink or or swim together If f your our wife really e l y wants a achild child she sIte wilt will never be content to tG sit and fondle a lap dog She She Will be willing lIlIng to undergo till more sacrifice In order to satis f. f ty fy her mother craving heart She will IlI aI ead at the years ears that ar are to come come when she herself self may h b he old and helpless and feel that the sting or of those years rears will be be- bere re- re moved ln care car of ason son or She will be he grateful Jn Sn those years ears that she was willing that that- she sacrificed in order that bet hev Hl husbands husband's mother and invalid im-aUd sister c could uld have ha family lo love and maintenance I like your Jour spirit I am not qualified to to find a better Sob Job yet but but Ume in-Ume I vill with nth that un un- failing determination and with loved roved on si to stand by with witha a a. word of or f enco encouragement and with continued preparation for the the better better job we doubt not but bu that it will come i You have ve this to remember too that many a. a child brought up In Mumble fumble circumstances has because of t tho tle herit heritage ge of ot Its rather father and and mother and its Us splendid home train train- e able le to forge his way to success success and and andt to bring happiness happiness- happiness and and honor to his parents I I. I think the decision of oC the Widowed mother and the invalid daughter to remain by themselves though it ft may be a more expensive a arrangement is VIa in the tho long tong run the one ono a apt t. t to bring the least mount Amount of ot unhappiness What hat do I advise you ou to do Oh h 1 what hans Is there that I can advise advIse you to d dd do We Va Weare are all like rats caught daught aug t tIn in a a. trap if it we choose to look at life life- th that t way for or ro matter how much one has he is possessed by bythe the urge to get more But if be fa faces es that urge uig with fear in his heart heart- with his whole outlook poisoned pois by pettiness and recriminations the physical and spiritual be being being be- be ing is polso ed too and he is much less likely to achieve his lila goal What do I 1 advise you to do To look up To consider it it a a privilege lege leg to care caro for tho the mother who gave ave you ou birth and the sister r so cruelly handicapped To satisfy the cr creative urge in lb you f for parenthood knowing without a doubt that brain brainand brainand brainand and muscle and hope hop will cooperate to find you you th the better opportunity to provide for th the added Or for Cor both both- husband nd and wife to work awhile with that thought In mind of saving for the of oC your your Natural desires No doubt the thc widowed mother and invalid sister would be be glad to take care car of ot the lap you JOU Good Goodluck Crl od luck AIRPLANE MANUFACTURERS Dear Miss Blair I j jWill Will you pl please ase give me the ad addresses addresses ad dresses of some some of t p leading manufacturers man man in the Ur United Unit Unit- it ed States tes Many thanks t thanks lanks AIR Here you Jou arc aro Minded Air Boeing Airplane Manufacturing 1 ring company Seattle Wash Yash The Alexander Alexander Alexander Alex Alex- ander Aircraft company Colorado Springs Colo Cob Travel Air ManUfacturing Manufacturing Manu ManU- company Wichita company N Wichita Kan Nan Cessna Aircraft company Wichita Kan Nan Great Lakes Airplane Manufacturing Manufacturing Manu ra turin c company Detroit Stout Airplane company Detroit Mahoney 1 y Aircraft company compan San Diego Airplane te Manufacturing Manu Manu- company n WIchIta Kan Nan You ou are are CITY WAT ri Dear M Miss iss Blair alair My pr problem blem is i about water There was wal a story published hed saying an ordinance ordinance or or- was vas passed permitting p peor peo o opie pie outside of of the city I limits l to cone con con connect with the city water providing ding they pay all expenses es of connecting and 7 12 Z c cents nh per cubic foot My husband was in to see about it and was told that in order for us tp to get the water we wew w would uld h have ve to pay between be be- be tween two and three hundred dol lars for permits pipes etc and then the the- city would have haye the he liege of revoking ing the the permit any time they wanted to after a person person had paid all the expense and 2 2 1 cents per cr cubic foot more than the I Ic c city ty f folks and pay a 10 guarantee for their wat water r bill Now I should think thin the city would give us a guarantee too as as who would want to 50 ZO oto t tp all the expense and then be without water Our Our well is is practically practically- practically dry We surely would like city water instead of have hav ing another well dug as' as as it is is no ro joke to o carry water Would appreciate ap ape ap- ap having your opinion Wishing Wish Wish- ing you continued suc success ess WATERLESS LILY LILYThe LILYThe The purpose of the city in making the offer of the use of ot city water wafer to tho those thoe e who live out of the city limits yet adjacent to to them was vas that they might have the fhe benefit of city wat water r at their own exp nse For example the large z mains ain ln Twe Twenty first first South carn carry enough water to supply residents on the north and south sides of the street yet et the north side of the street i is within within the he city iti tY limits the south sid side is is in fn in the county it It would cost coat these home owners on n the south Bouth very little to conned con connect con Oh- ned up with with- tho the city main nain This same c condition con n exists with one or two other othel large arge mains The Tl e city could not go to any expense to extend mains ins or Pr make connections and in inease IJ case ase of a shortage the city taxpayers taxpayers- ers would have the first right to the water This would mId ne necessitate necessitate no- no cutting off off- the use of or the water a tel to out of users sers In y your own case living so far from from- the th city mains as as you do it would not be advisable th you that go td ll lI the expense of c matting the connection with a large city main m and then r run run- the run the risk o ot h fi having vIng the water cut off in case of a For of or course cI city y taxpayers ers would have the first right to the city wat water r. r The Tue offer was made merely as as- asan an accommodation to those who lived adjacent to the large targe mains I am hopeful that this explanation win will satisfy your yo mind regarding the question ion MAPLE MAPLE Dear Miss Blair I 1 have enjoyed- enjoyed the recipes for for I desserts Vou Sou ou have pJ d in in your I i interesting cC vry very ry much Now Nw I wonder if you can help me out with a r recipe ipe for fora ora or or a a frozen rozen dessert d I I. I think warm weather as approaches approaches ap ap- ap few people like ike a heavy dessert after a full meal meal- I shall shail appreciate this favor m more re than I Ican Ican Ican can can tell you ou R R. O OI O. O I I think you youre you're re going to like this reel recipe for Maple IC R. R O. O to substitute for the heavier desserts B Beat at four four- eggs slightly and ana over them pour slowly ly I l' cupful ot or hot maple syrup stIr stirring n constantly Cook hot water ater till Ull th the mixture mixture mix mix- ture thickens ns c cool Add lAdd Ad 2 of or bravy cream whipped Freeze in inthe inthe inthe the trays or of the electric refrigerator refrigerator ator or pack in ina a n rh mold ld an anti and freeze In hi n Ice Ice and and salt salt for foi 3 Or 4 i hours houra Very welcome elcome M MORNING R I G STARS Dear Miss Blair Blairs I read Hearts Heart's Haven the thie first thing when it omes comes every night Now I wonder if you will answer my question for me me a as this is my first time to come to y your ur corner corners Please Pleas tell tell me hl h names of f the morning stars are that thiat are arc shining at this time of cf the year Thank you and I 1 I hope haven't broken any rules BLACKIE Blackie youre you're youre you're all safe safe so far as the tIle rules are concer concerned ed and were we're gla glad you ou made your first visit to the corner Here ate are the morning stars visible now Venus from April 20 to the end of or the year Greatest brilliancy May 26 Greatest elongation don elon gation g-atlon June 2 29 Mars from December December Decem Decem- ber 3 to the end of ot Jupiter from Crom May Mar 14 to December iber 3 when it is In iii opposition apposition to the sun sum Saturn Sa S turn from froni January 1 to Jun June 18 when It is in iii opposition the loathe sun sun |