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Show ENGAGED GIRL DISMAYED AT THOUGHT FIANCE IS j UNRESERVEDJIIGHTWAD By Mm BLAIR Thrift mean Knnnmtral minifrmnt, prosperity, growth. Binf (ightwsd mean holding on to your money, hoarding u to on' duv-advanteg. duv-advanteg. whan spending It would maan sponsion, greater comfort. com-fort. There la a vast difference; between beine MrfitXl and being a tightwad. Dear Mies Blair: I fear been gotrrf wttb a bay Bow for twa year and have become be-come aagaged la him eery to hmra to my sorrow that ha la a tightened. During all thl Uma be has beea giving ms a sang and dance about "warning to get ahead." what we would do whea times were better, "aavlng far aur wedding" Ma baa never really lAtli uVbMMjf EiTr kOBLX. M Pee yeas a pnHna baa bisa - need ta minds of yiaag pupal urTMeag a Heart's Hsveo, hew lain aba iM masiiiy to settle . Ml Th Boy Treed Mrt ea fitrte - Weed to Bo TrisMef Tha bead ' beaker a Bad asseo (boa Ha were aan irlig thes aaniiia wal wta reward af M. I iBIim aanat ba aaeSSed to Beaiy (Uese, sWM Lahd T i In rasa, aad pulimrbil Bad to BVsa falapl y asM, May s. toed Bva bow marh he waa get-. get-. tia ar bow math ba hod artaal-kf artaal-kf saved, Ciiianaiiiid have tsalsd both to me kMshjr. Me pa lied a iauar from hie pocket to ehew see, aad ba atoaskry beak stale-mint stale-mint fed aanetirsd aa the eaora - bostda aa. It fed between the suiknai aad my wot aar leu ad M Boat morning aad aasasd M to baa. He bad ambbled ea It th amauat af hla Bvanthly salary aad deducted from this lb feu at h Waa going to depaaM. Mora Thea Eipested Both bis bank aeeount aad hi aalary wer much larger thaa I had aay Moa af. The thing that burns ms ap Is that K seems to nearly hill him la Inks me aa a date that coats avsney. Several Sev-eral times w have beea Invited to weddinga af friends and he wouldn't Uka But because It meaal buying a wedding present. I am always missing tha good times my girl friends have bo-cause bo-cause It hurts him sa murk to speed any money. And all tha time I a been thinking It was because be didn't have R; ar that be was pinching and saving ta put a Uul by far ur marrlag as pens. I don't want to marry a tightwad. tight-wad. I'm willing to glv up a lot af things, too. Tour recent oontsst about girls knowing th financial statu af their hue-bands-to-be was very good aad I decided to writs you my story. Please tall ma what to da and If yea think I ta wrong la feeling feel-ing aa 1 aa. -HURT." 1 cast help feeling )uat aa yea do about a tightwad, "Hurt." Any fine girl would ba willing to da as yoa have dene to' forego many pleasures la a good causa but la Lara that th aaertflee waa uncoiled un-coiled for, that It was all a play to heap a maa from letting hla heart rua away with his poekeibook wall that's yjlet a tlttl taa mach. It a a good thing to laara ta ba thrifty, but there la a vast difference differ-ence between aalng good Judgment to budget your Income, part of which should Include a Beceaaary amount af recrealioa. and clamping clamp-ing dowa aa all spending to satisfy tha eeelra for bearding. Now, 1 think you ahould tabs tha advice glvea In tha contest letter and ask your fiance for aa explana-tioa explana-tioa of his Inooms and resource. Tea must remember that a light-wad, light-wad, married er single and mora so whea married he a ane-wsy pocket. What gees la, goea la to atay. Th tightwad does I aspect to marry a woman. Ha aspects to marry aa adding machine aoa who eaa Buuaga a aomiartable home, and yet make twa dollars grow where on grew before. If you don t happen to b thai kind af woman, you will b much happier to find another kind af maa. Disc use the question of your fiance' fi-ance' finance with him first aad ba sura yea ar not mlalakea la your estimation ef him. NO rOETes Hi COU MN Note to -M. a: No, "M. O." Heart's Havea doea not publish poetry la Rs column. Look for your poem la Graham's Subject Indaa far Poetry, at the puhlla library, ar through book af vara compiled for reading aleud. NOTE TO "MAA. E. S. H.e Thar hi from Is 30 cents listed a your Met flve-eoat piece, NOTE TO "MRS. . L L Kladly send stamped elf-addressed envelop for names and addressee ad-dressee ef eala collector. KITTEN roR GIFTS Twa running kittens, tw months old, ar at 4U South Tenth East street waiting to be sffered good DUdONTEXT From Ma to You: Are your child rsa discontented discontent-ed with eendltiona In tha bocnT Than glv them a share la th responsibility af making home a happy aad pleasant place la which to lie. On af tha greataat reaaoaa for discontent Is sllp-ahod housekeeping. house-keeping. Such things as a ear-mealy ear-mealy eat table, food cooked and served sa unattractively that tha children da not like to bring their friends home for fear af being embarrassed, ar reason why young people ge elaewher to aa their friend. Glvea the res pea sibtllty af setting th labl at-tractivly, at-tractivly, will make a girl want to bring her friend horn aad Inspire In-spire mother to mass lb meals more attractive. Attractively arranged rooms la which the young people share the responsibility for keeping them sa else helps t banish discoatsot with ths home. |