Show Evening Chit Chat 1 L BT BY B O NANS N. N J ANS AN'S love lo Is of ot mans man's life a thin thing i apart M ils ls womans woman's whole existence I I I When hen I was as In college we used to argue arue over that quotation quota quota- 1 V I. I tion ton and I always took the stand that it I wasn't true trim But Dut Ive I've vc changed my mind For the average a woman as Ive I've Ivo seen her It i is Js absolutely pain painfully Culy true truc Wb Why do I 1 say painfully Because I think that's one of the rocks that a good goodNo soo many matrimonial barks bark wreck on No Ko matter mater how strong the lie legal formation formation for tor- mation maton of it f. f a n contract contract contract con con- tract where here the need 4 of the con contracting i other t parties partes I Isn't somewhere near El equal Is apt to be a f pretty weak one Because women omen need love and de depend depend de- de S pend on it A it great deal more than men mendo mendo do the tho men are apt to give It on their I 5 own terms term and in S. S 1 their own wa way tice i t Did you vou ever er no notice no- no that though you rou see so M much in magazines and In women's omens columns columns oh oh yes Ive I've Ive written more or less myself myself- about how a wife abut wie can cn keep a husbands husband's s love almost you never ne read rad anything about what a husband must do to keep keen his wife In love lo with wih him Well Veli Vei that's vh why He lie le doesn't have to be taught taugh how to I keep it It because as long as he doesn't beat her with the poker or um awa away and leave lave her to t starve starve and and quite Quie frequently even when he does these thes things things-no no woman waman is going goinG to stop lov lov- ing in- ng her hU husband ban since that love Is her whole existence I dont don't doubt Shakespeare was tight light lt when ho lie said Men Ien have ha died and worms have eaten enten them But not notor for or love lore O c But I would have been read ready to quarrel even with that very great reat authority if h he lie t ha had sal said the tue same thing of women What's the remedy 1 Dont Don't let it be I your whole existence That Is 18 not said sai In disparagement of ot love It lt I Isn't that I want you to love hove Caesar less but Rome more Of course love is h the most beautiful and the most wonderful and the most sacred r part art hut It I doesn't need to be the whole for Cur you any more than for him It I seems to mo me that the happiest marriages marriages marriages mar mar- are those In which the wife has some tome Interest that means as much to lo her as her hEI husbands husband's business does to him Perhaps the bringing up of oC your our chil- chil then dien and ane the lie care of oC your your homo our home absorb you ou completely An And th then n again perhaps you OU have hare no children or the they have grown rown up and you are arc so situated that the tho care of your our house alone does docs not nol absorb all your our time al Then seek out sonic some definite absorbing r Interest that shall keep you ou from dep depending en entirely t reI on your our husband hus bus band s a love for tor happiness Let your our Interest be lie charitable or church work or some som mp study studs or the devotion devo devo- tion ton to some art Just let t It I be bl somethinG something some some- thing thinG that you ou do O with such joy and pride thai lint It is an absorbing absorbing Int Interest rest Love an and work are the two crowns of oC of life them I dont don't want women omen to miss either r I J |