Show BY MRS E. E MORRISON GROUT lie He knew not flOt what else to do and to toj o of op p f j wrote lately wh why so sonY wondering I j c been een husbands and wives es live lI unhappily Winy nY the Uthe Ih tr frets ts at homo In Jn tim tho ho evening i the children and tho tim man ta stass 8 1 0 out mt t tte come to the conclusion that lint late te 1 I have 0 tho fault tault of the lie wife generally it ft Is 15 tr very tr he has fo forgotten otten the little sweet coax- coax iks ways wars which were so 0 attractive attract In the She has even cen forgotten often the he of oC tidy trimness in her dress If IC tho husband ex- ex Jut b-Jut home and even en she thinks I 1 am his wife It nt matter ho lie really doesn't care it B-it It K if Ii no ho only topped stopped to thing Its It's tho the courtesies or the lack of or them I which really make mako the sum total of ot living lias has over aver Invented an any adhesive adhesive- strong enough to keep a man mati or 01 orMen Men even tho the children In iii an uncomfortable Lome Th They Thoy will nl always ays escape sooner or later Ister Sometimes Its It's only fretfulness is at fault It ma may be a false system tem tern of economy or general untidiness or ora a thousand other small vices that make wife site and mother a kill joy so at every op opportunity op- op the family fly Ily from her to light ht warmth laughter and liberality else else- Really can anyone blame biame them A reasonable amount of economy In a hous household hod Is a a. virtue too much is a vice viet jf If a woman oman wants to bo loved lovd she must te moro more than a human cash register If Jf homes wore all happy do you ou suppose the haunts haun Is of vice Ico would flourish I l have hare st seen n and I think you OU have e th the tho woman economist who took her husbands husband s t earnings from him and handed him him 50 cents with tho the injunction to be careful about spending it and havo have mutely extended cx- cx tended m my sympathy to tho man Then I i theres there's the other sort ort of woman who lit literally lit lit- trally trall keeps tab on o cr every waking hour of ber her husbands husband's 11 lie lite c. c until In sheer desperation des des- he seeks becks more pleasant companionship com corn If only t 16 tO show her that he owns erns himself even en ever er so little Others I to go to the cafes caCes and saloons and md drown ip I their troubles for tor a l few tew hours in intoxication lion tion and the tho wife doesn't analyze herself r. r enough to know that she sho drove him there and would 1 be e horrified If her dearest friend was honest enough to tell her so gO Its It's a 8 hundred to ono Jf Ir shed she'd begin to tu all this and study his disposition a little dress prettily for him meet him a smile after his lila hard work worl down downtown i town and amI forget for his sake salce and hers hersi i for a low few h hours that she has had any little household hold worries and try to ho bo a and Interesting Interesting- companion t to l husband she would hold him Kirn iiri with an fin affection as us strong as bands of or steel What hat do o ou ou think about it S I fA A bu woman said to mo mc th the other lay day Your work brings you much In contact contact contact con con- tact with Ith men too loo don dont don't t you ou agree with me ins th the ago of chivalry In Is P past She Sho went rent on to r relate how seldom men eXtended ex extended eX- eX tended courtesies to women at the present time and nad spoke of or the tho few tew times s men a seat at in a crowded car to a woman woman woman wo wo- wo- wo man or doffed their hats in an elevator ele 1 shen 0 a woman entered red I disagree with quite I am a 3 wor woman an neither young oun nor lor j-et j et old In indifferently commonplace as asto 10 to looks and manners but I rare rarely I have havo entered a street car which was as crowded I In tho the city that some somo gentleman either mg or old has not insisted upon my i t flaking taking his seat at I know it is not because o of an any charm in me but through m mo me the tho rt I 8 was proffered to lila his abstract ut Ideal of womankind the the sex In general Xo 0 douht 1 I to them had hurl no special InI in- in I t th the they Instinctively courteous cour coot and were l being true truo to themselves es II in Ii that the they owed 11 this courtesy to their flan 11 manhood l rather r than to the woman Ever Ever- Everman man II Is un an Idealist nn and If H you and 1 all l' fall t. t to receive e th the deference du duo u us UN let t U turn our magnifying glasses within oun ourselves l cs and know positively that weare weare we wo are lacking in some womanly attribute or ore we e would certainly be treated with def del Somewhere wo we are aro out of oC liar bar non ray with the divIne plan of or womanhood ij Till The flie worM world reflects the face ace wo we turn toward It h Why docs does one feel when surrounded sur sur- rI r- r I rounded ltd n. by a Latin race of ot people a n c 01 ot gracefulness s Because e they are of ofra ra Ireful ra dul temperament Politeness ss is an inborn quality Even en among tho the peon Mexicans I Jf It you thank the tho little street gamin KamIn for anything ho will w answer Yo los receive It IB Is I who hav Hive rec received I d the truest courtesy courtes In contradistinction tf to our colder more formal answer under tinder circumstances You xou au are welcome Tho The world can bo be conquered by kindness while it will turn an and rend you ou If It you club It So chivalry I is not worthy the tho name namo if It it can bo put pit o If and on at will It should be the very cry dynamo namo of ot the character of or man |