Show SWEETHEART DEMANDS MORE LOYALTY THAN IS GIVEN IN RETURN Bridal 1 Bouquet Preserved in Glass Tray Tray Sister Sister Thinks I i t ix All AlIIs ii Is Fair in Love or War and J A Acts ts Accordingly By BETTY BLAIR A hurt to ones one's ego or feeling of self-importance self I when V delivered from the hand of one well weIl loved goes very deep The same words or ac act coming from another of ot whom one thought little could have little effect and would soon be for for- gotten To regain a place in the affections of or one so injured build the feeling of or self seif the offender must again up tance of the offended Dear Miss Blair I have been going with a b boy for six months and ond thought he loved ed me as much as I 1 did id him He ic asked me to stop r going with other I boys ond I did so O. O I t I didn't ask the I same thing of oC him I as IS s I just supposed to togo togo J 4 if il he be wanted me rue IH go wit with h him hint hintI I I steady he didn't I want wantS to go with I 14 anyone myone else eise either I He told me on many occasions that he had never gone with a tt girl who thrilled him asI es os esI I did or who came so near to being be be- ing mg his ideal Well to make fl Q long stor story hort I learned that alt all the while he was going with me another another an an- other girl was flirting with him behind my back and he ing for lor it This girl told a friend of ot mine that he was crazy about abouL her and wanted her to stop going go i log ing with her boy friend and go I Steady with him t He h has kl kissed ed her whenever he got th the thc chance She Is laughing at him behind his back backI I have faced him with oil all this and it made him very angry engry He told me rne right out that it was I none of my business what he did Then I told him I never wanted to see him again as long os as I lived But Thit I feel terrible I love him and cant can't forget him I have seen him several sc times since ond end he has talked and seemed to act actu as u i if nothing had ever happ happened ed be between us u.s. I dont don't see sec how a amen amon mon men can act like that after the way he made love to me inc It makes make me abS absolutely hate him though I know that I couldn't hate him so much it if I r didn't love Iove him so much Sometimes I think Hunk b bj the way he lie acts he would like to make makeup up but I simply w wont won't mt be the 1 first one IDe to mention such athIng a a. thing or show any more than aloof friendliness Yet I want i him back more than anything I What shall I do TRUE BLUE You make ake a a. contradictory statement statement state state- ment when you ou say soy you ou want this boy back more than anything You do rot not want him back more than you want your our own self-respect self and feel feel- ing of ot the self importance of your own ego If It you did you would fore forego go these things to make the first advances for a reconciliation Not that I think you should Your respect self rightfully means more to you than the boys boy's companionship does If he has any of ot the old feel ing mg left for fot you ou it shouldn't be e a blow to his self respect to take the first step toward a G reconciliation In fact fad i it should b bolster lster it up provided he thinks think he was really in the wrong Of Ot course it if he e thinks he was right to make love Iove to you to ask osk for your exclusive ve companionship and to give you less than he asked he is facing the same problem you are and will vilI not permit his pride or seIf self respect respect to uffer by making the first advances If It each could come to the point of letting the other know he was motivated motivated moti motE by b- banger anger and not by any sem blance blanc of ot the truth when violent things gS were said all n might be smoothed over Angry words have Letters questions and requests re ye- quests for advice adice should be addressed ad dressed to MISS BET BETTY ETTY B T Y BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HA HAVEN VEN I TELEGRAM SALT L LA LAKE A K E. E Write legibly upon only ono one side of the paper It is 15 necessary that you append append append ap ap- pend the right name and address ad ad- dress but these will be held in strict confidence and will not appear in print Questions involving in In- voWing advertising information cannot be answered a way a o of lingering lon long after the actual hurt has vanished BRIDES BRIDE'S BOUQUET Dear Miss Bli Blair r I would like to preserve a Q portion por per tion of my daughters daughter's bridal bouquet bou beta in permanent form I have heard there is a way of pre pressing ing inga a few v of the flowers and ferns and pl placing them under glass in ina a tray troy Can you tell me mc how this is done Thank you ou MOTHER 11 0 THE R Very lovely trays have been deco decorated decorated decorated deco deco- rated with portions of the bridal bouquet You may buy a tray ready mede or have one made to order but it must have a glass bottom One very effective tray was lined with peacock blue velvet On this rich background the flowers leaves and nd fern were arranged in spray design with willi a lovers lover's knot of the ribbon holding hold ing the main portion Bits of the fern fernand fernand fernand and flowers Jowers were grouped artistically 1 ly in vacant spots on the velvet If It the bouquet is of roses the they will be bc too thick to lie flat and must be slipped with a i sharp knife and hollowed out on the underside of both rose one ane anc calyx Carefully place each leaf and flower on blotting paper pa per cover with another piece of ot blotting blotting blot blot- ting paper and put to press between tween the leaves of ot magazines with a heavyweight heavy heavyweight weight of ot books boob on top lop Press more than will vill be n needed ded as some of them will vilI be broken For the first few days remove the damp blotting paper and put fresh sheets in its place every morning and evening It will take not less than two weeks for lor the flowers to press Remove the back from the tray and cover the Inside with the color of velvet you ou prefer Dab tiny specks of glue on the underside of the flowers flowers flow flow- flowers ers leaves and ferns ferris and glue them to the velvet so they will always stay in place Replace ce the glass gla s and fasten the frame as lS it was before Then glue a piece of green felt feU on the bottom and add the small rubber bum rs so the thc table will not be marred even when the tray is heavily load loaded RIVAL SISTER Dear Miss Blair I am heartbroken over what whet has happened in my own family My sister who is just 19 months older than I has stolen the boy from me rae that I loved most roost in the world She knew I loved him yet she deliberately took him away from m me I know he loved me rue too but iut she is prettier than I and m more rc talkative and looks just jurt as young if it not younger She says ays all Is fa fair f in love and war and if he likes her best I should be happy luppy that he has her I know she isn't serious with him She just wants to lead him a merry chase and then drop him as she has done with all the others But I cant can't warn him I cant can't enjoy m myself when I Igo go anywhere and I cant can't stay at home when he comes to see her as Os I just cant can't be natural feeling the way I do Can you advise me what to do TOO BLUE I think you are doing all that can be done under the circumstances Continue to keep out of ot the way of ot your sister and the boy ex-boy friend and to find other interests It is an unfortunate un un- un fortunate circumstance but I think you should reason with yourself and cease to feel so blue over a bo boy whose shallowness seems on a par with your sisters sister's sellic selfishness J If the two really were in love with each other you should try to console yourself with the thought that it was much better th they y had bad discovered the fact before beCore It was too late And if 11 they are not In love and can ruthless ly spoil your our happiness you should be glad to be well rid of the boy and ancl to be warned about the rather heartless heart heart- less way in iii which your sister has bas usurped your place |