Show L' L f Working W king oi-king Wives Wives' s 11 i By BY CYNTHIA GREY GREV I Stop talking theories t and give us some practical advice write writes Beatrice neatrice You keep preaching prea careers for or r Women m married keep her place and single You wy say y a woman can world and still be a satisfactory wife in inthe the bU business ness I and mother mathel I 1 dont don't believe ve ran it-ran it an be done I have a a. hu husband hus hus- hand band and It keep a home I also hold down downa a n. job And the result Is that we quarrel all the time Im I'm so EO worn out that I T dont don't try to meet Mm half way And i I cant can't help it This double job of ot mine ha lia haf lust t got me down And If I had children heaven knows where knows where Id I'd be But to analyze her hel troubles Id I'd be willing to I wag wager that she Rhe hasn't physical strength to meet neet her strenuous life Ute No woman without a large largo reserve of energy y should attempt the do double ble role of wage earner arner and wife For It makes maltE s heavy demands much heavier than fl most ost women suppose and heavier than any man is able io to believe Second it takes a woman woman with some balance ce and self control to make mace a success of ot the two careers Beatrice Deatrice Is is apparently too nervous t to face the situation situation situation sit sit- or think out her She he Is probably n nr the type of ot wom n who vho could ever ver make a ll success of or the double role t tI I am quite willing to grant that the wage earning earn earn- ln In ing wife wite meets dangers that do not confront the stay at home wife wife the the danger of or fretful nervous evenings evening'S the danger of self pity th the danger of peg peg- home When both husband and wife come home in the same state of or fatigue something is likely to No woman who has been boen n In Jn in an an of e all tIl Ja da day herself can can ac act as balance wheel to a tired Wred and Irritable man me Unless a woman has some special interest In a profession or business or unless there Is actual financial ne need ne I never ad advocate cate a job for women There is Js no point In a womans woman's sitting eight hours a t day at a job she dislikes unless the he family purse purse purses Is s lean B But t If she does choose to work there are ways of or m making her life Ufe easier ealer than Beatrice has made hers In the e first place she should hire the tio t e heavy y work worl at home done Dinners In restaurants while not so appetizing are are usually more feasible for o the working woman and an her ber husband But some women workers who prefer refer home food have simplified the cooking to be concocted from irom such an extent that dinner can ron 1 i ds and vegetables kept kepi In the Icebox and and In Incans incans cans in ad addition tion l-tion to a steak steal or chops that can be broiled very quickly As for the woman with young children I do not believe that she zhe can afford to work away from home The Tho children are too heavy a responsibility and too great a joy jo to be neglected neg l for a pay envelope envelop 1 I pity Ity the mother molher whose children grow up on closer closeT I ter terms erms s with a nurse than with her b |