Show Your our Marriage Fight Hard Against Jealousy It Can Wreck Your Home By Samuel G G. G and Esther B. B Kling Q How can ean you ou tell if youre you're you e overly jealous A. A Just as a thermometer registers regis regis- tel's bodily temperature so certain signs indicate that youre you're oure too jealous for your own good Test yourself against those listed below 1 Are you annoyed when your spouse smiles at a member of the opposite sex 2 Arc Are you hesitant about trustIng trusting trusting trust- trust Ing your mate alone in a Ii room with an attractive member of the opposite sex 3 3 Are you filled with constant doubts about your our ability to hold your partner 7 A. A 4 Are you convinced that your our spouse neglects you 5 Do you youl usually feel fee un uncomfortable com com- Portable when your our spouse is introduced introduced introduced intro intro- to an attractive stranger 6 Do you become moody and depressed depressed de de- dee pressed when your mate inadvertently inadvertently compares you yon unfavorably unla I with another person 1 7 Are you suspicious without any Rny real reason that your mate male has been unfaithful 7 8 When your spouse is unusually nice to someone are you so filled with resentment that you yoli try to get bet even 7 If your answer is ye yes to all or most of these youre you're oure so jealous that neither you nor your partner can be bc happy To Jo overcome this barrier to personal personal personal per per- and domestic happiness try to discover the reasons for your extreme jealousy Ask yourself Why do I doubt my ability to hold my partner Serious self analysis should produce produce produce pro pro- duce the basic reasons responsible for your self And once you know the reasons do all you can canto canto canto to increase your self-confidence self by overcoming them getting getting- whatever whatever what what- ever outside help is needed Its It's perfectly normal and natural natural nat nat- tural t- t ural for or all of us to be jealous to some extent of those we wc love But extreme jealousy without jealousy without justification Justification justification cation is a neurotic symptom which destroys love and maJ makes es the Ule marriage tie tic intolerable |