Show Your Marriage Planning Honeymoon Keep It Simple e Restful By Samuel G. G and Esther B B. B KUng Kling Q What will help you make a success of your honeymoon A. A Following a sensible moderate moderate moderate mod mod- erate routine Here are a few tips that can help make your honeymoon a success Agree beforehand with your fi fiancee fiancee fiancee fi- fi ancee about where youre you're going to spend it and how long you in intend intend intend in- in tend to stay Remember that the purpose of the honeymoon is to give you a chance to get really acquainted especially in the intimate intimate intimate inti inti- mate side of marriage Avoid any fatiguing journey especially long auto trips that may make you tired dispirited and irritable The best place for the start of oC a honeymoon Is a quiet hotel A few days spent there immediately immediately im im- im- im mediately after the ceremony ceremony- and before any extended trip Is undertaken will undertaken will help get your marriage off to a good start Come Conte Homo Early Dont Don't stay out too late If you go to night clubs avoid drinking large quantities of liquor Contrary Contrary Contrary Con Con- to popular belief alcohol does docs not increase desire It deadens dead ens it If you have any doubts or fears about the physical side dont don't hesitate hesitate hesitate hesi hesi- tate to discuss them together Keeping them to yourself will only create tension and conflict which may have a disastrous effect on the marriage Remember too that the doubts and fears you Jou have are by no means unique Indeed they've probably shared by 95 out of every brides and grooms A wise plan is to read a good book on sex In marriage and see your Jour physician before the honeymoon Affection in Public Q Should honeymooners dem- dem their affection in public A. A You probably will twill embarrass embarrass embar embar- rass your partner by making malting public public public pub pub- lic demonstrations of your affection affection affection tion unless youre you're absolutely certain certain certain tain he has no objections Most newlyweds prefer to receive such displays in private Dont Don't by all means insist that your mate reveal cal his past romantic life if any To do so will only cause acute embarrassment on both sides and may even provoke a quarrel This is one instance where ignorance may be bliss Finally dont don't hesitate to show your appreciation for whatever courtesies or attentions your mate considerate say so If she's understanding understanding un un- and sympathetic tell her so The important thing is not to take each other for granted now that youre you're oure finally married |