Show Dear Mrs Bliss ss Girl 17 Is Deeply Hurt Over Loss of f Older Love s I. I Mans Man's MasLove Love By Mary Bliss I Persons seeking guidance on courtship court marital o or family problems should address their letters to Mrs Mary lUary Bliss BUss Salt Lake Lalie Telegram Tel gram S Salt lt Lake LaI City 10 Problems fi fiill trill ill be he discussed In the column only and no correr corre- or personal interview can be entered into Correspondents Correspond Correspond- must sign their true names hut but these will trill not lib be published l if so desire lere Dear Mrs Bliss Carl was a beau pf C my sisters sister's and for a long while I merely admired him from afar Then rhen when she had made plans for marriage with another man Carl dropped in to see sec the family and I think hink he was surprised to find that I wasn't just a little sister He took me out that night and then called several times to see me I cant can't tell you how I loved and love ove him To me it was vas the thc perfect love ove My folks folls thought I was too young to make marriage plans I am 17 and he is 31 He could couldwell couldwell well veil support a wife He did ask me to marry him and we made all kinds of plans Then he went away for or a month and I could tell fell by bv his letters etters that something had hap hap hap- to him Y Wien en he pc came home he didn didn't t call caU me for three days and finally I phoned phone him He said he had been busy with some house guests of oC his lis mothers My n suggested suggested sug ug- I have them allover to dinner din din- ner and I did The house hous guests were vere a woman woman- and her year 25 old daughter In front o of me Carl made fun of the love I hold so sacred I could have died He has written for his letters letter's to be sent back What hat can I do How can I Ivin Iwin Iwin win vin him back Please please help me Della Delia Dear Della Delia You have ha been hurt a as you Jou will probably I ne never neer er he be hurt again but hut that hithe is hi the pr price ce of love It Is painfully obvious that Carls Carl's love loe for lor you Jou Jouas as as almost brotherly In re- re re- re to your adoration of him Flattered yes Cs he was He might have hae married you Jou and he might have ha been a faithful husband husband husband hus hus- band but It would not have been the Ideal marriage you pictured There would he no balance In age Interests nor capability for accepting accepting accepting ac ac- ac- ac the responsibilities of living li to together ether Be thankful for your understanding parents who will always stand by bJ you ou There is no noU U way sway to Jet get back bac the lost sweetheart Della Delia but you OU have ha nothing with which to reproach yourself our and anti that means mean a lot For Fur awhile other bo boys s 's will seem very Cry Insipid but gradually you will recover reco equilibrium and In a few years ears will trill marry the right man Parents Worry Teacher Dear Mr Mrs Bliss I am a school schoolteacher teacher an and have taught for 15 years ears I get along as well as can be bc expected with the children but butI but butI I always as have feeling of having having- failed when I me meet t with the parents parents parents par par- They never seem truly cordial cordial cordial cor cor- dial and frankly I avoid ever haing having having hav hav- ing to talk taUt to them However I Iam Iam Iam am now facing a prom promotion tion which if I accept will throw me with older people often Can you tell tell 1 me where I am falling failing in my myre response response response re re- to them S School hool Teacher Dear School Teacher Could it be that you YO f are arc too dignified Perhaps that is not Just lust the correct correct cor cor correct wort word but ut very often a person person per per- son who d deals ls mo mostly tJ with children children children chil chil- dren assumes assumes an attitude of superiority and arid when talking to older people carrl carries s o over er the talking down doom to them quality If you are arc guilty of such Hueh an attitude attitude attitude atti atti- tude you scare care those you yon meet I would say you need to gain confidence when you Jou mingle with persons your ur own age and there Is no hel heater belter way to do It than to be with persons ns of ff that a age c group more often orten Accept the new position Mom Yells for Help Dear Mrs Bliss I am one one of oC those mothers who suffer when bad weather hits the town I tell stories to my children until I am blue in the face I provide pro every kind of book crayon and paint box available and still my house is turned into Nightmare alley What can you ou do with these little balls of energy Distracted Dear Distracted Youre You're right The quiet Va way of life has never nc been bren heard of b by children Books s sand and cra crayons o only ll last a little time The only wa way to save c your peace o of mind I is to prepare for or spirited kids kids' to really r romp mp In doors loor Mark off a space pace where the least dam damage e can re result put putdown putdown putdown down and old mattress and andi i plenty plent of or things to climb over oer and under SU Suggest Jest a 8 circus tiny day and you'll be com comparatively para para- t. t cly safe Read the next Dear Deal Mrs Mn Bliss column on this page pate Wednesday |