| Show REACTION OF FIANCE DISPLEASES GIRL By BETTY BLAIR j Many of the faults we see in others are interpreted by the reflect tion of our own Seeing ourselves face to face and either getting rid of our faults or learning to live with them without imposing them on others is one way of eliminating the faults of other people Dear Miss Blair I have been going with the same boy n now new w nearly two years We Ve expect to be married as soon as ashe ashe ashe he gets a raise But recently we haven't been getting along so well wen He hasn't been coming to see me more than once a week and he gets angry when I ask him what he has been doing all the rest of the week He made me very angry thelast thelast the thelast last time I questioned him as he said I 1 tried to own him body and soul and wanted to know even Hearts Heart's Haven what he thought about when he was away from me He was en engaged engaged engaged en- en to another girl before he hemet hemet hemet met me Sometimes I wonder if he doesn't love lovo her more than he I does me now But he wont won't even let me mention her name to him so I 1 cant can't find out Once I 1 told him some scandal I heard about this other girl gin and since then he refuses refuse to even talk about her I have hated this girl girlever girlever girlever ever since I have known her and that was before I 1 knew him A friend of mine who also sees aces quite a bit of this girl told me she would give anything to get him back Ever since I 1 told him this he has been acting strange toward me Please tell me what you think I should do Thank you Worried lit In the first place I think you should look at yourself face to face Stop dramatizing yourself Stop playing yourself up as the heroine and realize that perhaps you are at least partly to blame for what has happened between you and your y t Your jealous possessiveness of the young man is far more at fault than is his reaction to it Your envIousness enviousness envious- envious ness of his past romance and the meanness of your motive in relating I Ithe the scandal about the girl to him I was enough to drive him straight back to her arms But you haven't seen these things as faults in your your- self You have been critical only of his reaction to them Chosen By Comparison Instead of being jealous and envious envious envious en en- of the other girl you should have been glad that after having had the experience of a former ro romance mance he chose you by way of com com- parison But no no all aU you could think of was belittling her in his eyes His first reaction to that would be beto beto beto to rise in her defense He did this thisby thisby thisby by refusing to listen to anything I more you might have to say about her But remember he still has his own private opinion about her And he probably knows her far better than you do Now my dear get rid of your petty thoughts of your envious envious possessive traits If you cant can't do that say to yourself Im this way I and I cant can't help it Then learn to I live with your own faults but stop ruining g the lives of ot other with them Many y a romance haj bai been saved by the participants com conS cong ing big face tace to face with themselves fo for foj the first time FOR EYELASHES Dear Miss Blair Since I was a child I always had hac very long Ion but thin eyelashes A year ago a friend suggested that I cut them off to make male them thick thick- 1 cr er They neither got thicker thicket no nor did they grow longer I am sick over the results Have you an any formula which makes them grow v again Thank you for any infer mati mation matlon on Miss G. G B. B lit lit Odorless castor oil applied ever every night with a tiny brush Jn In upward strokes is according to the testimony mony mony of ol some screen actresses wh who use it regularly the best tonic ther theris therel is for making eyelashes grow B B. B j careful not to ge get it into your eyes White vaseline bought in tubes L 1 L. L also good It Is good occasionally t to is cleanse the eye with a boric ad add solution or some other good ey ey wash BRIDEGROOMS BRIDEGROOM'S MOTHER j Dear Miss Blair My son is Is' to be married in the th near future The bride and he hei mother have asked me to decide whether I 1 shall stand in the re te receiving re- re line Une or receive guests a athe ai at atthe the door with the brides bride's mother The reception is being given in the thi brides bride's home Thank you for lor helping help ing me to decide Mrs B. B m If It the brides bride's mother is receiving at the door then I advise that you receive with her and leave the t receiving re receiving re- re line to the bride and bride bridi groom and the attendants If It the brides bride's mother decides to stand In hi Inthe hithe the he line Une then your place will be In Tn I.- I. en ii 11 In I I I I I KITTENS FOR GIFT Two vo lovely angora kittens kitten will b be bT given to those offering assurance of good homes Call Hy M oS at Warnock avenue after 6 p pm p.m. ni SOMETHING SO BLUE Dear Miss Blair Will you please tell me why PI a a bride is supposed to wear something something some some- thing blue Thank you E B B Wearing something blue was an uT ancient custom of the brides of Is' Is J Is-J rael who wore a blue ribbon cm oj the borders of their fringed rob robea robeE The blue denoted purity fidelity and love From this came the suggestion sug 01 that the bride wear Something Something Some thing old and something new something borrowed and something blue I j jOne One of the largest dress clips cUps eve ever 1 created was WaB worn recently by Joan Joal Crawford The clip ten cUp ten Inches In ia I length and four inches in width width- is a mass of diamonds diamonds- and square cut emeralds It should be worn wor diagonally at the neck of a a. plain and on a white dinner gown for preference I 1 |
