Show Wife Deprived Of Rights Seeks Escape By BETTY BErry BLAIR The conquering of ot one set of ot o ob oJ- gives one an open door to a better freedom than one could ever find by running away from front them None is prisoner or slave except to himself Dear Miss B BI Blair I am 21 years old and have been married over seven years Hearts Heart's Haven I have a boy of ot 6 and a girl of ot 5 and I am the most unhappy woman woman woman wom wom- an in the world My mother died when I was very young I had never had much happiness and I wanted a home of my own Then to my grief and surprise my husband husband hus hus- band brought me to his parents' parents home and we have lived with them ever since So far I have stuck it out for the sake of ot my children We Ve have no privacy the place Is so small His brother and sister sister sister sis sis- sis sis- ter open my letters go into my purse They are ignorant and jealous of everything r I say or do I could not even ven even have a doctor when my children were born My mother-in-law mother has the whole say- say BO so concerning my children They mind her instead of me and have been taught to consider their grandparents for everything they want or do I have nothing I cant can t call my own Suffers HI Ill I Treatment My husband is mean and in- in suiting to me before his family in ina a manner most men would abhor even in private He has stepped out on me several times I even have to submit to insulting treatment treatment treat treat- ment from his brother t I Three months ago I had an opportunity to go to work in an- an another another other state A woman offered mea me mea a job and a chance to go to school I couldn't take the children children chil chil- dren with me so I stayed Now I am convinced that they dont don't 1 need me there is nothing I can doto do doto doto to better their condition or mine by staying and I want to get getaway getaway away to resume my education to o mingle ing e w with th p people ople on on a better Jevel level I 1 know things will never change for me unless I do go Please help me rae I feel so utterly helpless and lost HELPLESS One day your daughter will wIlI be beat beat beat at the crossroads of ot her life just as you OU were when you married Your json son will wIlI have many important decisions de- de to make If It you leave them there will no doubt be another wife to take your place Are you willing to leave the important decisions of your childrens children's lives to the compulsIon compulsion sion of others Although your life to you seems driven you at least are an adult and should have the judgment judgment judg judg- ment to defend yourself Talk to toan toan an attorney Find a a- away way by compulsion com com- of f law to have your children under your wing and guidance with maintenance for both Let your attorney tell you what you would gain and what you would lose legally by going away without your children You know so much through havIng hayIng hav hay ing lived ll so much Dont Don't leave your children helpless to they dont don't know how to either take or rebuff Arrange for their safe safe- guarding It is a penal offense for one to open another's malL maiL Learn to standup stand standup standup up for your rights and privileges You have neglected these so long that others think you have none You acted too hastily once Dont Don't do so to your regret again TO REMOVE WAX Dear Miss Blair Will you please find among your household hints a way to remove wax from furniture without without with with- without out harming the finish Thank you MRS K Gasoline will remove the w wax x without harming the finish But you must immediately apply a furniture furniture fur fur- polish with an oil base to restore the gloss of at the wood NOTE TO UNCERTAIN Please call the American Express for the answer to your first question question ques ques- tion and the state penitentiary for the answer to your second WOODEN ANNIVERSARY Dear Miss Blair t I Will you please give me an idea as to invitations decorations fa favors favors favors fa- fa vors and games for a wooden wedding wedding wedding wed wed- ding anniversary Thank you ANNE Invitations for the fifth or wooden wedding may be written on squares of birch bark or on paper wrapped scroll-like scroll around a wooden skewer Wooden bowls containing spring garden flowers may be used for taIe table table ta- ta ble Ie and house decorations Curly wooden shavings dangling from chandeliers chandeliers' make an amusing note Two wooden spoons dressed as bride ride and groom add to the centerpiece centerpiece center- center piece of ot the table Foods served from rom wooden plates and spoons lend flavor Favors may be wooden clothespins clothes clothes- pins ins wrapped wire-wrapped with crepe paper paper- for or dolls Games may include any of the well known clothespin relay races aces or races where an empty spools spool Is s rolled across the floor with the aid of a toothpick Kindly send stamped self-addressed self envelope for our circular of games many of which may be adapted for any occa occa- sion |