| Show JEALOUSY IS AROUSED WHEN YOUTH FAVORS ONE ON E GIRL OVER OTHER I rr I 1 t B By y BETTY BLAIR 7 emotional expectations of love and affection When a persons person's inflicted on the supposed I ti overbalance reason any punishment h 1 offender rebounds like a boomerang t I on the sender ft CO i 1 e I Dear bea Miss Blair 1 I have hav a problem I would ap ap- pre predate elate Very very much to have you help me inc solve For two years I went quite regularly with a boy of whom I thought a a. great deal He also went wont with another girl quite often and andl I with other boys C Goes on on Mission I Last t winter this boy went on ona a ft mission and since then I I. have r 3 heard from h him hn m often Soften Just ret recently re- re t t centi my ray girl friend told toW me he o 0 has been writing continually to the tho other girl an and that he had s Bent rit nt her two large photographs i of himself I That That is more than I can take as I think so much of him and It hur hurts a great deal Shall I send his letters b back ck unopened and una unanswered unanswered un- un a shall I write him himI answered or T r arid and tell h him hm m my whole story and andt t b low how w much I think of at him and andI f I that I think it best we discontinue ue writing to him N I I would appreciate it if It you would tell me what to do about this matter Thanking you WORRIED ED i. I Thank rik you for the good wishes In fn your letter which I do not print Am sorry I cant can't give you your reply reply re- re r ply as soon as you OU wanted it as the letters must be answered in turn This is just a hint to those who I wish early replies to have your J letters letters letterson on my desk a week or ten tenI I- I days in advance adnee f t. t f I am om not ot in favor of either de- de deI dei i I y you u make concerning g this 6 You knew when he was here p. p that you were not ot the e only girl in his life Has he lie given you any rear reason rea- rea r son to suspect that you were since he behas has been gone Your status with him pro probably remains just where it was when when-he was here Why then would you send letters letters' back unopened unopened unopened un un- un- un opened as though you had expected to be much more than friend and were svere now peeved that you are arc are not Dont Don't Reveal Lovo Love Neither should you write and tell this boy the nature or extent of your emotion for him Any girl who whole le lets a boy know how much she l loves ves him when there is no expectation of love dove in return makes of herself an object of pity You surely dont don't want that th t. t If It you dont don't want to continue writing t to the boy for friendships friendship's sake th then n it Js is your privilege to stop If you wish to announce your intentions of not writing g any more moredo moredo moredo do so but dont don't make him the butt buttof buttof buttof of your emotional if you do so He has 1185 probably thought all along that you two were just good friends 1 b and has his enjoyed the tho correspondence from front that point of view To let him know you were stopping because I he sent his picture to another girl girlIs I Is also to let him know v you thought I you held a niche in his affections that portended more than friend friend- chip You must simply make up your our mind whether or not th the correspondence corre corre- of ot the boy is worth while from the standpoint of friendship and if not make your own decision decision deci deci- sion ion to end it for lor your own reasons The fact tact that you didn't know another another an an- other girl stood higher in tho the boys boy's regard is a poor excuse for making th tho boy suffer any pangs of misunderstanding misunderstanding misunderstanding mis mis- understanding providing he did nothing to make you think you were the tho chosen one I But there is many a a slip between the receipt of a missionary's photograph photograph photograph photo photo- graph and his return home If It you let Jet your reason collaborate with your emotion you will b be smart enough to increase the Impersonal interest In your letters to him Make them intriguing very Ivery Bw sweet et and feminine according to the pres present ent ant mode and a missionary's demands demands de de- de- de mands manila and take chances with the other girl and the time that must elapse before the missionary is due home For I understand that missionaries missionaries mis mis- neither make love nor give rings until after fter their release NEED FRIENDS Dear Miss Blair I am alone in Salt Lake City I dont don't go out with fellows very much and would like to know some Borne places to which I might go or girls' girls organizations I might join whereby I could meet more people or at least have some someplace place to go Am Ala also interested in clubs that do some ome studying Please h help lp me ANXIOUS Havo Have you looked Into th the tho very line fine possibilities offered for friendshIps friendships friend friend- ships and cultural advancement atthe atthe at atthe the Y W. W C. C A. A business girls' girls club the Lion House social center the Civic center Im I'm sure sure you'd find findall findall findall all that you seek by byway way of friends and study groups in any of these places Because there never was a bird bir called a liver Robert Gladstone l is b urging Liverpool England to give up its' its heraldic bird of that name and s substitute the eagle |
