| Show ARE CONTROL f L I OF FUTURE YOUTH AND ANDt t B BUOYANCY ANCY OF SPIRITS SPI SP I RITS j p t By BETTY BLAIR Would Would you remain always YOl young ng and would you carry all the j joyo yo and nd buoyancy of youth into your years years' ithe Then have C care concerning ng but one thing how you live in your thought thought- world l Dear Miss B Blair i I have read letters in the tho years I C gone by from others writing you I concerning the coming of middle age and I have laughed to myself I J that anyo anyone could be so silly as to toJ J fear tear whatever age they are But Butt ButI t I now I find tind myself in that very i predicament The first gray hairs ar around und my my temples crows crow's f feet et at my eyes ees an increasing double chin and Old Man Fear has me mei f J i b by the throat Some women I know managed middle of a score I to cheat age of C years How do they do it to the beauty I j Not by running parlor par par- lor Jor though some of them may do 1 that too but they dont don't lay a great d deal al of stock In that any I more snore than they do by being always al- al ways 4 fashionably dressed They may do these things for tor the sake i 5 of their vanity but their youth I It t comes from front another source What la Is their secret Miss Blair i THIRTY NINE f It w was s Gautama the Buddha who aid ald The mind is everything what you think you become Ruskin had tho the same thing in mind when he said Make rake yourself nests of pleasant pleasnt pleas pleas- tent ant nt thoughts thought Tho The idea is that If it you would havo bavo In your body all the elasticity all the strength all H the beauty of Yo your r younger years then live these Jn lr n your our mind In the degree that you keep young in thought will you Remain young in body f You Yo will find that your bod body will hi Iril turn aid your q r mind for or body helps mind the same as mind builds body Your particular kind of thought connects you with a similar simi simi- flar Jar lar order of though from without if If it is bright hopeful cheerful you ou connect yourself with a current of thought of f this nature If It it is isaid raid aid aid fearing despondent then this Is s the tho order of thought you connect yourself with This latter is all a quotation but why not believe it Why hy not make the the e attempt to put it into practice j Why not give It the absolute proof Ho no to sec see if It it will vill work for you as ac others claim it has for them No doubt these same others who you say zay get their youth and beauty from some deeper sources than the beauty parlors whose function it itis is ls to apply the finishing touches FINISH WITH SUDS Dear Miss Blair J i I would like to t tell U your r readers aders b of a a discovery I have made int in i 7 l t washing fabric fabi gloves I wash I j 1 sudsy tepid tepid- water after i each i. i 7 ns- ns S- S S j ing 1 I I leave leave leavea ave a little lIght suds in jn inI I t the c final rl rinse se w water y ter This leaves I 9 them with a soft oft glos glossy y finish I t This j Js also good treatment for tor J washable suede sports jackets kid kidS kidI S I J and pigskin bags and shoes and for any animal nima fabric J I also never fail to wash my f 1 I silk ilk and lace hose in tepid sudsy water after each time they are arc I worn and I find they really last much longer It is true that perspiration per per- and soil so soon n ruin fine Cine fabrics Thank you for letting 4 t me come HOUSEWIFE c I We have you to thank for com com- ing with these theMe good suggestions and we hope to bo be able ablo to repay your kindness And reading what you have to say about bout rinsing animal fabrics in a slightly sudsy water reminds me that a friend told me mc recently she always gave her hair haira a final rinsing in slightly sudsy water just enough suds to make th the water soft Mid not and her i hair was left soft and glossy It is true too that t woolens should al always always always al- al ways ways be be rinsed in slightly soapy water if they are to retail retaL their softness i INDIFFERENCE RENCE CHANGES Dear Miss Blair A boy whom I have recently met tried very hard to get dates with me I didn't think I cared very much for him and after aCter I had been out with him once I t didn't accept his invitation to to togo go any more Now Nov however my attitude Altitude toward him has hns changed He has got Into a very popular crowd and some of the very girls are crazy about him What can I do doto doto doto to make him pay attention to me meonce meonce meonce once more SORRY Wouldn't it have been a fine tine I trait In you to have shown recognition recognition of this boy boys boy's a qualities before I he became popular with others I Iam Iam Iam am afraid that now he would be loathe the to recognize any attempt you might make at showing your Interest in him He would feel quite sure that you liked him only because because be be- cause he had become popular and not because of the fact tact that he was himself The rhe only thing you c can n d do is to tobe tobe tobe be pleasantly friendly when the tho opportunity op presents itself But you must be genuine about it and arid if It you youcan youcan youcan can det detect ct qualities In him that no noone noone noone one else has s yet seen seem he may appreciate ap ap- ap predate that fact tact enough to re return return return re- re turn friendship toward you |