Show LAWS LAW'S TEMPER 1 CONCERN M FOR FOR- ONLOOKERS I By BETTY BETrY BLAIR BLAIRS S Safety fety valves of f temper ill irritability and other dispositional p t trails aits indicate an inadequate emotional life for tor those indulging in such su U li h fits tits Supply the thc lack whether it be in phy physical intellectual pr or- or spiritual l needs and presto you have haye an amiable personality t Dear Mis lonu Blair BIr I X want to ask asic your Four advice concern concern- Inc ing my roy daughter She I is hi now 24 yean yer sid Id Id and has hu been married three years yean She 1 Is I. trying to keep III her marriage from I r going on the rocks by byI I J making her life Ufe one I I fl of sorrow orrOw tears tearl rui Her husband li Is aman amanI I L I iiiI I cant can't describe nb Cross ClOSS fr 91 I I mean She must 1 tl I I apologize for every III fN I I wor word 1 she speaks If It f ItI it I doesn't suit him He JIe HeL L must be the i p. p iii boss boas and anti she must even ask him where 1 1 H she c can n go He has LI no ton love for her and she he has to make all the love she Me gets over him hIth Is la It tight right for her to go 10 on with such luch a aman man doesn't nt drink or have She do smoke fault is bad habits Her greatest that she cbs is s very much In love lovo with him All her girt girl friends are married and sho shells Is I afraid she would to have to too KO 10 o around alone If she gave e him up Her father and I see ste her wasting her life on one no not worthy of her but we soy say nothing as we want her to work ork it out alone He was wa a aver very fine line man before he married or w we would never have let her marry him My hUS husband husband- And can h hardly hold bold his tongue when he mistreats her right before us He doesn't care cue where they are or in whose company when he talks to her as ILS he does doe so 10 we don dont don't t know what he does doe when they are areAway areaway Away from front us UL F Please easa help u. u with SAD MOTHER your pour advice A A No it It isn't right for two p people ople to continue living together If a a. decent plane of ot compromise and arid adjustment adjustment adjust adjust- with another another an an- personality ment of one other cant can't be achieved Some Som human human nu- nu hu- hu numan vent t to meanness man man beings give e yel to reviling to jei IC jealousy sy and the other negative emotions because of lack of at proper emotional outlets in their lives Some men become bossy and show the worst side of their dispositions because of dis disappointment die dbl appointment in their love life be beca because because be- be ca cause of physical in their marriage And some are mean because be be- cause of physical in their marriage 0 And Ani some are mean because because be be- cause they have inherited certain dispositional traits they make no effort to overcome There is a possibility your daughter daugh daugh- ter is blindly In love with her husband husband hus bus band but falls faUs to und understand his real physical or spiritual needs Disappointment Dig Die appointment is the pebble in the hoe ahoe that increases the discomfort of Its wearer as time goes on And some om people never find the way way- to remove the pebble They continue to tL bear the irritation without thinkIng think- think lag Ing there may be a remedy at h hand nd it they but understood it I dont don't c consider divorce as a remedy rem- rem 1 edy dy but of course marriage must be a fifty-fifty fifty proposition Two vo n work together to achieve hap hap- Knowledge of herself knowledge of at her h husband b nd knowledge knowledge knowl- knowl edge of the tho working principles of life Ufe and happiness is is' what any wom woman wo- wo m man mM n needs to make even ever a semblance sem cern blance l nce of success in marriage And of of course any man needs the same caine knowledge ledge and understanding I f. f NEEDS DIGNITY i Any woman whose life and background background back back- ground round assumes a 8 certain dignity o of her position as a a mans man's wife wite would never submit to being treated treated treated treat treat- ed as a doormat When the first Instance of a husbands husband's irritability broke out she would say You must never again speak to me in inthis this manner I am your ou wife not noty y your ur property I Lets Let's ts t's sit down and andt t talk this thing out What is it I lack what is it you ou lack that has haa sed this outbreak I am ant willing to try to overcome my own failings but I will never submit t to pcr personal onal mistreatment A persons person's strength dignity knowledge ige give power to wield in his or her own favor And AndJa Ja lacking these attributes they arc are victimized by another's tempera tempera- o tar tal failings If It your son law is 15 a man lackIng lack lack- Ing in the intelligence and the will wui to do anything about striving for happiness or trying to overcome his hla trouble-making trouble tendencies then happiness between the two is Is' Is forever forever forever for for- ever Impossible But Butan an Intelligent Intelligent intelli Intelli- gent woman woman can soon soon discover whether or not she is able to elicit an an intelligent response from r m her mate nuite Bo Be sure your daughter knows this fact That physical love without without with with- out ut intelligence to make a background background back back- ground of ot interests interest and an outlet of other th r than physical emotions is doomed for the rocks rock from roni the beginning SLIP-COVERS SLIP o Dear arMI Miss Blair v. v 1 I would like Uke to know where I can an get Eec a book of Instructions or Information mats mation matlon on on an how to o recover over over- tufted furniture Thank you you- i. i MRS d S B. B i- i Send Bend four cents and md a stamped addressed self envelope to Telegram Information n Bureau Frederick J J 1 Haakin Baskin director Washington D. D C. C for tor the booklet on n making malting slipcovers slip sUp c covers vers' vers ers for overstuffed furniture The covers slip may b be taken off oft and laundered and are proving mo moVe more re than thau any ny home homo lery J job b could be unless you are an expert Furniture re repair shops do doan an n excellent upholstery job in case you OU care to consult them Dear JJ Miss Miu ss Blair I I have hive been very much Interested ted in Inmany many Dr bf the cases that have ap aI appeared ap- ap in your column and so ao I X have decided to bring brinl my problem to you yau OU I X am in my last year of high READERS ATTENTION Hearts Heart's Haven n problems aro are discussed in drama form Mondays and W Wednesdays Wed d- d at 4 p. p m. m over Some of those may maybe maybe maybo be bo yours so do dont don't t fail fai to listen in in school but the boy with whom I I. I alain am ala amIn amin in love Is now out of school chool I 1 have been going Ing with him for about three years and we are both very much In love with each other and ana have considered marriage Buthe Buthe But Buthe he feels he he is not making enough money to give me the best bes things in life Ufe He is making ml enough to support support support sup sup- port me and has a steady Job that promises to be bringing In more roon money In a short time Please se advise me as to what I should do do Th Thank 7 you rou FINANCE PROBLEM If you yon are sure sur of your love for forach each ach other you can very well wel afford I Ito to p wait for that time to arrive when y your ur young mans man's job will have an on increase ase in salary or income There Theres Is s so much preparation for young people to make In lii order to be sure sur of f a happy marriage Why not for forthe the he time being keep your minds on the he things you want to achieve before before be- be fore bre marriage There leT isi so much mucho to o learn about abou y yourselves so much mucho to o learn about marriage and life Youth is the time to learn You are marri married d a long longtime JIme time Wh Why not take tak he tile time lime now to make your preparation preparation prepa- prepa ration atlon for marriage the finest it itan itcan cart can an be Why not take hiKe every pos poe fos- fos ible sible measure to enrich your lives Jives with rith something more than the ma nia- nia erial things of life so aD that whether y you u have much of this worlds world's goods or r not your po possibilities for happiness happiness happi happi- ne ness will not nol be impoverished I PETS FOR GIFTS GIFIS Here are the pets youve you've been waiting for kiddies Two cun cunning ning fox t terrier l' l pups pups Call Hyland Hyland Hy tHy land R after 8 a. a m. m or be before before be- be fore tore 4 4 p. p m. m concerning them See police puppies two months old at American avenue below Ninth South between Second and Third West I. 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