Show tOM COMPAN PAN ION SH P i WEDLOCK p DO DOESN'T SN T l i FU FULFILL LF ILL PROMISE SE I 1 i f L By BETTY BETY I BLAIR Am A A. wrong mg done can never be righted by doing another wro wrong L pi's pis ts wife looked back and and- was turned to a pillar of salt The f forward ward looking habit is humanity humanity's only salvation especially when accompanied b by a fitting fittin sense of humor humor- and emotional stability 1 Dear Dair Miss Blair Elair I z ha haye hae e been married just four abort hort months I X am 19 and am to w be bl a II mother this fall My husband husband hus- hus band has hos been married before And has hu a baby 2 2 years old by his first wife He Re still atUl loves his bis first tint wife nd alv always s 's will Ho has even hoped that tha some Bome time abe sho would be his again I 1 I know that she ahe still loves love him also for when we were married It hurt her so 80 much It al alm almost al- al m most moat t killed hilled her It was WILS her het mothers mother's meddling that t broke them up or orthey they would still be together and hippy happy It seems seem that fate fato was wu against s her for she let her mother talk her Into leaving him p I I knew koew this girl Kirl before ever I met him We were never chums churns but we lived In the same neighborhood I x love Ion my husband more than n words can tell un I would do thing In Inthe inthe the world for him and ho be kno knows It which makes makes' It hard for him He thinks kI kIa a great deal of me and admires admires' ad ad- mires mires' me but I t wan want his love and andS that ir JS something I 1 can un never ne have han S v I II was not blind bUnd to all this when I married him because be he told me mo of It before he be asked roo mo to be M his wife He Ho told wId me mo he be was WM lonesome lonesome lone- lone companionship some some m and needed I 1 loved him BO so much that at the time I t was WI willing to be bo the tho com corn anlon he be needed and wanted though I knew he ho didn't t love me and perhaps nevet never could Now Zm to bo ho the mother of his child He says he doesn't really want me melo meto to lo have children but down deep hi in his bli hurt beart he ho know he does docs Boho Ho Bo ar arhe ho he doesn't like Ulce children but the MM the reason why ho he ho says urs this Is 18 because because because be- be cause h he has been deprived of his baby What shAll I do do He Ho Te Is Ie grand Brand to tom tome m ms me I have never been treated treated bet bet- tr Shall I leave nd let him hint try Ury y to regain what he h his s loit the lost the one he really realty loves lovu What should be bs do done De in a case like th this f p 1 So h he would leave leae the wife who Adores dores him with all an her heart and Soul foul ouI and who would do anything inthe In Inthe th the wor world for lor him for th the woman whose was vas so weak she let her another talk her Into leaving him J Well If this weren't rent m marriage my advice to you would be to leave him tIm and nd let him lentil learn by contrast the difference between the tho strength of ot the two loves and all It may mean mean In a mans man's life If there were just some arrangement in the thc marl marl- marital tal code by which he could return to fo that first emotionally unstable ind live with her r for about two months with the tho stipulation that thatTie Tie be te could then have his freedom to return to the wife wIre he he really loved best best I 1 haven't the sligh est doubt but that he h would return by leaps and md bounds bounds' to you But of course there can be no such arrangement though ra a marital vacation v cation might help The trouble with your husband h Is j A Along Along Along that ui that t he hi is a romantic long word but It means a person who h has bs s never outgrown his adolescent ado ado- m i He still sun abides by bytho the e ecstasy stasy of his first marriage Ho He dl didn't nt live with his first wife wire Iori long enough en ugh to outgrow the glow from this ecstasy And here let me nie me say zay that It the afterglow from t that first st r romantI m nt belongIng belonging belong belong- h ing g to each other that Is largely re responsible re- re for holding two together In the bonds of m matrimony B But ut t his hii wife waS was unequal to the test of the for better or for worse worsem m marriage ge clause and ana he lost her He should now become an emotional adult and set himself to o be worthy of o of a another womans woman's love and devo devo- tion tio Ho He should realize It was was' not late ate but but- t the e fact that neither he lie nor his first wife had bad hed emotional adulthood that that's separated d d th them mother or no an moU mother er Leave hi him n No Teach him hinr to grow ow up Become Become- the mother of ot his child and teach Veach th that t child emotional erno emo ema- tio al stability from its lu earliest days Lend end dignity to as his wife and pe perhaps perhaps' ha S' S just as as' as asa a better precautionary measure you'd let him Im seek leek just a little for your love loye instead of ot making it so ap apparent aren ar- ar eat ent to die dIo for tor en that you are ready r hint him JUST HUMAN IAN Dear Miss Blair I I. I being sound of or body end mind mindS mind'S S 'S in an fl Intelligent professional lonAI woman am hereby doing a perfectly In- In iF nn thing All my life Ufe I have read of men inca and women asking publicity for companionship via the news- news READERS ATTENTION Hearts Heart's Haven problems are discussed in n drama form Mondays and W Wednesdays Wed d- d at 4 p. p m. m over Somo Some of these theuS may maybe maybe be yours so dont don It f fail il to listen liston in papers apers and I have smiled my su superior su- su perlor smile and wondered Just what kind of creatures such could be and what kind of people would an answer answer an- an lIwer them And lo 10 and behold hero here is Ii that same BAmo superior creature creature crea ores ture seeking itching companionship In just Jut that way I dont don't know why but the letter from front Widower in last Jut weeks week's column Intrigued led me Into doIng doIng doing do do- ing this And so 10 Miss Blair you have havo my permission to forward i tome to tome me rue any letters that may my reach nacho you for tor me And will you ou also forward the letter I In a stamped envelope en en- to Widower Thank roul you rou l kindly and some day I believe Ill I'll drop In end and see ste you so you can tell me Just exactly what sort to-t of an in idiot you fOU think X I am WOMAN If you will come and see me I will explain the liberty I have taken to publish your letter in lit the slightly slight slight- ly different form from th that t you in in- tended I have forwarded your in in- closed letter to Widower who is certainly getting his share hare of re re- re plies I shall gladly forward to you any letters that reach me mc with the correct correct cor cor- cor name and address of ot the sender send send- er together with the request that I l' add your name and address The letter to you must be In an stamped envelope Will those makIng making making mak mak- ing reply kindly observe rules otherwise letters will not be for for- warded And as for far my thinking you an Idiot it may surprise you to know that I dont don't think so at all My Mynot Mynot Mynot not thinking so is In reality reality- handing handing hand hand- ing lag my column a bouquet that correspondence correspondence correspondence cor cor- between human beings may Inay be so 50 safeguarded in Hearts Heart's s sHaven Haven that only respectable people are arc invited d to reply and that any names an and addresses sound o bund nd to be Incorrect will vill under no circumstances circum stances be fo forwarded ard |