Show MAN WITH SOULFUL SOU L EYES DISCLAIMS ANY l MAKING LOVE IDEAS o 7 I I By BETTY BLAIR Youth in love with love is apt to mistakenly choose as its object someone least likely to return its fervor Eyes voice even yen the clothes one wears are apt to prove false lures for the uninitiated and lead them far astray T Ti Dear Miss Blair I seldom read your column and co 0 0 it was WB quite by accident I ran across the letter from Afraid To Ask AsIc and recognized recognized by one circumstance circumstance cir cir- cir cir- dt it c co o n- n I I tamed ta-ined that I must be the married man manI I fy IV 11 with the soulful j ey eyes s to whom the theil theil il il I young lady referred lI Except for the fact that she said in the thewl letter she had written written written writ writ- M ten this married wl If man a a. letter giving her telephone number number number num num- ber asking him to call her I would never have known myself either in the picture she painted of me nor in the villain you ou conjured conjured conjured con con- up In your reply Needless to say I did not call the young lady Jady The letter Jetter that came to my home address signed b by a young woman by the name of ot Barbara I assure you gave me a great deal of alarm My y position is one that puts me daily in contact with a great many people people men men women and children According to in instructions instructions In- In from headquarters I Itry Itry Itry try to smile and be pleasant to the patrons but but- who this particular particular particular ular young Jad lady can be I haven't the slightest idea My M concern over her foolishness in sending me me a letter was that my wife might have opened it and read it might instantly have suspected me of having an affair though affair though she Fhe knows well enough I have never had one and that my greatest greatest great great- est concern is for the welfare of her and our children Furthermore Furthermore Furthermore Further Further- more the matter might have ended tragically for my present happiness To me it Is most pathetic that thata a public servant cant can't smile or look pleasant at his patrons without without without with with- out having them suspect he is in inlove inlove inlove love with them I am in love with one woman only and that is my wife For a year old college girl to write a public letter makIng makIng making mak mak- ing such statements as this girl made se seems ms incredible except that I have seen the letter in your column and have had one from her and know it to be true She writes to you I know lenow he loves Joves me from the way he looks at me mc and 1 I just feel that he loves me from the way he looks at me And she even goes on to say that for two years she has fought this feeling and has tried to forget him without results result Pathetic Isn't it At first I thought of at coming to you and trying to get the young oung ladys lady's full name in order to warn her to send no more letters to me and to tell her how utterly mistaken mistaken mis- mis taken she is in the belief that I return her ber affection In the slightest slight slIght- est degree or would do so regardless regardless regardless regard regard- less as to what her charms ma may maybe maybe be bc for I am a woman one-woman man and that woman is m my wife My second second thought was to write you Miss Blair and trust that Afraid To Ask may be a devotee of your column and would see this I letter My sincere hope for this mistaken young lady whoever she may be is that she will pull herself together and snap out of her complex I advise her h hereafter hereafter here here- re- re after to look into the soulful eyes of the unmarried men or man to whom I hope she ma may be as asgood asgood asgood good a wife wile as mine is to me Sincerely GUILTLESS Well WeH there you are Afraid To Ask And of ot course you will do doas doas doas as the gentleman in the tho case asks You will stop looking into his eyes You will certainly not write him another letter and jeopardize the happiness of his home You will push puso a button somewhere in your consciousness to turn off the current current current cur cur- rent that has attracted you ou to him you will vill swath the halls of your love memories of him for the past two years in deepest black and consider consider con con- sider aider your own love dead As dead as his for you that has never existed existed ex ex- isted at all But most of all you will have in intelligence in- in enough to let Jet this letter from him set your feet in the normal normal normal nor nor- mal pathway to happiness How can it do otherwise Dear Miss Blair A boy has asked me for a date and yet he never talks to me Inthe in inthe inthe the halls at school Should I tr try to talk to him first All the girls think he is a woman hater be because because because be- be cause he doesn't talk to them I If I try to talk to him what subjects subjects subjects sub sub- shall I choose to break the thc Ice It seems I so strange that I should be facing acing this date with him and yet have nothing to say to him or he to me Please help me All th the girls like him a lot as well vell as the boys but he seems indifferent to all aU of ot us GRACE Talk to the boy about baseball basketball football He will be in interested interested in- in In one if not all of these sports Ask him which of ot these sports he likes best or which game he liked best of at all aU those he attended attend attend- ed this past season Ask him about his classes which subjects he likes best if he went to the school opera or play which of ot his teachers he likes be best I From these things you know about in common will come knowledge knowledge knowledge knowl knowl- edge of other interests interest he may I have nave through his answers to you ou Once you break the ice in a natural way with topics of common interest conversation should be easier i Ot Of course you can cant can't t just walk up to the boy J and say SaV H How W d do y you U Uto like basketball But you ou u can n say to him l fim In a pleasant voice Well ell what do you ou know today And I A Letters questions and request requests for advice should be addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S IIA HAVEN VEN TilE THE TELEGRAM SALT LAKE CITY Write legibly upon only one side of ot the he paper It Is necessary that you ou append the right name and address but these will be held In strict confidence d dence nce and will vilI not appear in print Questions involving advertising advertising- InI In- In I formation cannot be answered I S 1 t 1 without waiting for him to tell teU you all he knows say You know I have a sort of ot hunch you'd make a grand football player Are Arc you going going going go go- ing out for lor training this spring And if not football select your sport In accordance with what you know he likes to do And Arid dont don't think of the boy as a woman hater He is just a normal boy having as difficult a time breaking the ice as you ou are having You need to help each other along long CHUMS QUARREL Dear Miss Blair My best chum and I have quarreled and I would like to tomake tomake make maka up with her but dont don't know how She got angry with me because I liked JIlted another girl too and walked home with her a afew afew afew few times When my friend saw I was going to walk home with this other girl she wouldn't walk with us but made excuses and waited until we were out of sight Later I saw her walking home all by herself herselt My mo mother her doesn't want me to tomake tomake tomake make up with her as she wants me to be friendly with more than just one girl But I think she is very unhappy and would like to todo todo todo do something about it Please help me DOLLY I Your mother Is right Dolly Dony in wanting you OU to be friendly with more than one girl If It your our chum Insists on being a dog in the manger manger manger man man- ger I suppose you will just have to let her alone I have an idea she will see her mistake and decide to tobe tobe tobe be friendly in a broader way her her- self It might help for you to show her you intend to be friends not alone with this on one girl with whom you are now walking home but with witha a number of other girls as well wen Dont Don't make any fuss about tr trying to get the offended one to join your group roup She should do so on the same kind of an invitation you ou give the other girls While she may not be seen with you ou an and the other girl for the fear that wagging tongues may say she is jealous she might be very ery happy happ to forget her mistake and join the crowd |