Show v l' l NEIGHBOR DISCOVERY r- r f SHOCKS AND BRINGS I ff MOVE TO INTERFERE j Air ri Exception c to the the Rule That a aV V Woman ma Does Does' Not 7 J J f Assist a Man Man With His Ov Overcoat t Boys Also Cj GUlI Guilty y S Stamp amp Flirtation J 4 L j By BETTY BLAIR BLAm J The The homely rule rufe lC Mind i d your own busin business ss is as right L. L principle ciple is as S it Ls js' succinct The problem often becomes that l a of ot knowing Just where the Iusi business ess o one en ends and h hat t of another begins Certainly a nel neighborhood nuisance b becomes cp es the business of ot the neighbors concerned o and a friend nd must play the part of ot friend Dear Miss Blair The other day ilY I heard a story that h t simply horrified me I supA suppose sup sup- a A pose I have nave bee been blind bUnd or I could have seen it n all I for myself My 1 I r neighbor Is a aA ayoung A Li yo young g 8 attractive tr I lIili S S married woman Ill rI III whose husband is isI I I I- I ii away from away from home I a good deal of the thelI lI III iiri f N time I have huh seen very young 14 looking boys who I ii I I look ret to be anywhere any any- r ull m i where g from 1 19 or 20 years of age enter her home at t various variouS' times but they went In pairs or singly and r 1 I supposed ed they were on legitimate business But another another another an an- other neighbor who is not as t trustful as I bristled so much with f Indignation over what she supposed supposed sup sup- posed was going on that she took the trouble of finding out by spyIng spy spy- ing Then rhen she came me immediately immediate immediate- ly to me ne an and md io told d me inc th tha stor story i i It has simply made my blood i run old cold and andI I wonder how many mothers mothers' of ot these young b boys ys 10 know where their sons are arc at night when they leave home with at all as asto simple excuses or none r. r to where they are going Now o that we know w she Is an Immoral woman leading line fine young ou g men men astray we think something something something some some- thing should be done about it to put a stop t to her tier activities but we dont don't know what to do The neighbor who told me knows some of the young me men mep by sight and nd thinks we should go to their parents Yet we we hesitate about i d doing this t t too o D as the h woman poses as a a good woman in the community and of course parents par par- would have no mercy on her Her g good od name would be gone forever Will you please tell ten us what to todo do do PERTURBED NEIGHBORS I Could you not go to the woman herself herself her her- I self elf and tell her in no uncertain terms that she Is breaking the law th that t the penalty is is' very severe sever and that as neighbors you do not intend by and let her practice cor corrupt rupt your neighborhood or the young men whose parents you ou know You might mention her husband in the course of the conversation and ask her how she would feel if it you were to togo go to him him about the matter You might night also suggest that certain par parents parents par par- of the young boys whom she has dragged Into her net would doubtless th thank y you u for telling them abo about t the whole matter If your boy were one of those lured into the entanglement of a woman woman who had no scruples of decency would you want to know about it We think you would In most cases of outside interference ence we would sa say Hands off oU- dont don't meddle e but in this case you are entitled entitled en en- titled on your own yn behalf to get rid rido o a a. a public nuisance in your neighborhood neigh neigh- b r and if it cant can't be done in inthe the way we suggest by going to the woman we think you should enlist the aid of the parents of the boys nd clean up the rotten mess A MANS MAN'S OVERCOAT D Dear ar Miss Blair W Would ul uld you tou kindly tell me if a aj j hostess hostes ss should help a man with wil his co coat t if the theman man has difficulty in getting if it on This applies to a hostess in a p public place of business winess KATE Unless a man is drunk or ill for l tome gome other reason he would be embarrassed embarrass em em- barrass d to have haVea a woman help h him himon t 1 on ca n wj with his coat even though she v a hostess in na a a public place and it was It-was vas her duty uty to make everyone comfortable If It he ho Is in his right mind he will straighten out the difficulty difficulty dif dif dif- fic himself If not the hostess may have t to help him if It he succeeds insetting Into his coat at all au REAS REASON NF FOR n IT Dear MI Miss Blair Jt I am not intruding I should like to to give Up Ted the view of a girL I l' I have gone out outa 4 a few times timea in my life me but the boys with whom I have gone al always al ways talk of girls they have taken I out and what a swell time they badI bad i ill I am now o going with a young r m man n of whom I think a lot He has often mentioned ed his hi previous girl friends and the kind of partners part i ners ness they were I think enough of him to overlook k this as I think Jt it Is only n natural if he sees something something some some- thing in another that reminds him of a previous previous' friend to speak of it I 1 think the boys should likewise like like- wise iise forgive us for our failing falling In speaking of other boys boy T THE liTHE FORGIVER I 1 I suppose it is a common failing both boys boy and girls that acca- acca occa occasionally Il they forget themselves and arid be become ome personal or pr make compari comparisons ions sons that m may b be flattering to one oie c companion but objectionable to another an an- other It Is the safest plan to keep the conversation away from person Titles Someone has hilS said there are three f conversationalists those who talk l about events ve ts t those oSe who talk about bout thIngs and those who ho talk about e c each h hother hoth oth other r. r He classes as thep the p poorest rel In conversation the last type S I STAMP FLIRTATION Dear Miss Blair You have helped me ine meo t me so o many times 1 I couldn't resist coming again agam Hope 1 am not too mu much h This Thi time wJ v h to asks ask t I Letters Que questions and requests requests requests' re re- re- re be addressed ad ad- quests quests' for advice should dressed to MISS B BETTY E ET T T Y BLAIR LAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LA LAKE KE KB Write legibly dp Upon n only one side of the p paper It i. i is necessary that you append append append ap ap- ap- ap pend the right name and ana address ad dress but tb these e will be held in strict confidence and arid will nut n app appear ar In print print- Questions in in advertising information annot be answered 1 you ou if 11 you will please send me methe methe methe the flirtation b by stamps SUNNY We WC receive n numerous requests for lor this flirtation but since space will not permit that we repeat it except at t long Intervals Intervals' of ot a year or two we hope all those wanting it will clip It and nod save it You are no bother Sunny we are always alway glad to have I you come Postage stamp flirtation Upside down on left corner corner I I love you Same corner my crossWise crosswise my heart is isa a others Straight up and down down- good good-by sweetheart Upside down on right corner write corner write no more Inthe In Inthe the middle at hand right edge write edge write immediately In center at top top no On hand corner at right angle angle- Do you love me mc In left hand c corner I I hate you ou Top corner at at the right I I wish your friendship Bottom corne corner corner accept accept my love The same upside down down I I am engaged d. d At right angle same pl place place place-I I ce-I I long to see f. f you u. u |