Show r or- or fife ife Understands Philandering i Spouse use Yet R Relations lations Intolerable ble Signatures Are Used on Christmas Cards Wife's ken Name Comes First V Vacations F f Ev Every ry Girls Girl's Privilege I t By BETTY BLAIR understanding of an Individual breeds reeds a great tolerance and lo loyalty that in no wa way presupposes lr paw ce of at another another's ers er's s wrongdoing Par Particularly may this true e I in n m married life lite when ones s love has has' been deep seated Mw blip Blair BIl r Der r I was married Carried four fourr f B ore husband be husband to be o my ears a erg ago me because heiL he heI iL td d to fl worry 3 much interested so I alWIS alWI'S wI ettY girls even eyen though we r i pretty w were e ere r e engaged fi W whenever e n eve r he heI I j went to a party 5 he would leave me to find my myown 4 own amusement t while h he e spent 1 t the evening bantering ban ban- Wring with witha a ak a aI I k 11 flock I o 0 c k o 0 of t f girls girts r around him S SO J Jlong I r long as the there r e I. I were always alays so so 1 1 many who ed to fall for him I didn't I Iu Iu objections verbal LIlke my ny u soon soan as we were marm mar mar- Ir and m settled down things rieU the be rent I thought l would then have sense alone and andt him leave lesve r. r Mou nou to 4 t that Su perhaps a little of ot l his s own conceit would vanish vanish- MB But I 1 SUPPO suppose it is true that i I. I the spots of the leopard never change X He has never stopped around with women only laying dume Flaying before because ft h than Is 13 worse worn i It a h thai wi he haS become e co come me greatly Infatuated wilh with h one ani of them He doesn't L think I know this UW but I do for a ae af ad is that I don't dont f The e sad d part of It feel fed IS as bad as I should being his i t k le ge Somehow his flirtations t have dulled my for feeling for him 11 0 I know he heis is the sort who could 1 f never ne never be true to any woman and andI I J J find myself feeling sorry for forr r F the women soave who some day will willI I l' be left teft to suffer I don dont don't t feel r f Ano Another r reason why n J to bad is because a very wonderful wonder- wonder ful friend has come Into my life 1 l f r. r He is all that an any woman could could d b be in the inthe thc I believe belie a aman man cou i u virtue and in- in way W of goodness L Whence My husband knows i that teat we are re s seeing a lot of ot each eachL i L c- c coth oth other He merely winks at it iti i nd md Insinuates relations similar f to his own owns which he thinks I I. I maw know nothing about He pre pretendS pretends pre pre- tends to be the very jealous hus hus- band band but of course course he I too that he doesn't even wanta a divorce He knows himo him him- J 1 too well and down deep has hes hasi i great Ineat n fondness for tor me f But Bu life as asit it Is Js seems r Sable ibe t. t Nothing true or fine In my i- i relations I have sutE h J dent cleat evidence to secure a di di- f or voice e but I dont don't even want t. t to toI I k t lo do that thal I know that 1 H if he weren't t i. i t. t to 10 me there would be no bale bal bal- He He would be like a winter whiter K leaf iMf blown to shreds Can you 2 4 ke anything at all aU to help me I ento to jet get et hold of myself Kitt LOW TIDE TIPE that at what you n need more Baa anything right now is to get lwy from everything for lor awhile mr faces new activities new inter inter- 83 more than anything else could Dot fou back on your feet again ee d help hrip you youth to perfect a p philosophy oNite that QU qu have already well lii un Though your husbands husband's actions have cut you deeply at first they aey no 1 longer do so You live above aboe il Ha jet you cling to the opportunity babe to be helpful to him when he does L wea you sou You have come to the real real- attoa atlon that though that though others may affect T U O r happiness to add addor or detract torn Irem 1 it it Is im af after r all your our own a atti- atti lade tafe toward happiness that makes it a 0 takes It away fIt wb It Is 11 not that you couldn't battle ns ht through without change if it you s at t your tour it it but everyone is l ff of relief relic from tension at tub This relief you could get by r I a vac vacation Go among old J if you ou ca can Get back some Ioui girlish enthusiasm for life lite litem d a to for what for what th the future holds In t lity y it ll holds more more for you now m It ever did because of y your our own added strength f to endure and your i for really fine tine things I 1 v- v haS developed in the thc crucible m J ou u have been burned Above e aU an Ui dont don't let it make you 1 or Z brings fewer to life than this attitude Keep your charm chann and the theand and judgment nt that have come j 1 GoOd cheer I unS OK oti O CHRISTMAS CARDS i u ar M betas Blair IW hen sending Christmas greet greet- i 1 u IK cards and a married couple to sign their Christian names should the husbands husband's name b Written itten first as John and a ll Z Tl Thanking you PUZZLED en S signing ng Christmas cards the aa Sl name nUne e is it written first as I Y and d John John- bards ards sent nt fo foIt formally are usually en cc- saved It Il is b then better form to the f names manes at the thc beginning as l formal levitation than with the thc tore ture at the toe end The correct bar and Mrs John Townley W ish You Youa OU a Merry Christmas ON NV VACATIONS r Mi ss Blair Wo old you like to have a hus hum tads answer Jon on the question sUon of ot tc holidays for wife and we d I During Curing my married life I had a an unusual al amount because of ot a lack ea osay and mistrust t There b old re have been times that I have b been n pessimistic about y wife's Ie liberties but 1 I found g her or failing to be bebe pee Pal I r W Wu aa before be fon old HH re marriage drive lo kept silent her to Mla hate me mc So If One t feels that a companion not be tr trusted on a a. separate cation on that hat WOUld take him dr or r away h from om work ork worry worry and ve Ity On One ha has hns no right to vas a lave Iee that hat I can hardly g slave anyone would want e or be a a. slave driver v under a vow ro Tod it ono needing It of j vacation indication atlon greed an and d cruelty cruelly If U s ted kd is n not t one to be there should be a divorce Iv I d R IR h v s hest YAri q Letters questions and requests requests re re- quests for tor advice should be addressed addressed addressed ad ad- dressed to MISS BET BETTY T Y BLAIR GLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LA LAKE K E. E Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It is necessary that you append append append ap ap- ap- ap pend the right name and address address address ad ad- dress but these will be held in strict confidence and will nit nt appear in print Questions involving involving in in- advertising information cannot be answered silent on this question of separate vacations We wonder what what the the rest of f them think about it il KITTEN KITlEN FOR GIFT GIFTA A old month ray gray and white i will make a nice gift rift for a a. apet pet pet loving child It may be bo badby had bad hadI by going to South Sooth Twelfth I East street Call CaU Hy hr 1897 GIRLS GIRL'S PRIVILEGE Dear Miss Blair There is a aboy boy I like a lot He has taken me to a movie and I would like to have him come to see sec me Would it 11 be all right for forme forme forme me to to ask l him m to my home to spend an evening Thank you B Yes B It is your privilege to do so Say to him Id like to have you come to my house next Friday evening at 8 One or two of the crowd will be coming in An invitation of ot this sort can never give a boy th the Idea that you are providing a setting to angle for him |