| Show I Jealousy Causes Quarrel That Threatens to Disrupt jLove Girl Realizes Error f Unusual s Storage Problem To Cle Clean n Silver 2 v Lace of the Northwest Eti- Eti 1 r I Quette Problem Organ Pipes S Br fly BETTY DETTY BLAIR Dear Dur Miss Blair Tho 1 ho lost lAst Ume time I wrote you rou it U was wu About out a a. very TtO 0 trivial matter and I didn't think I would be so o soon lOon S this thU time about something that cuts very d deep ep I ha hose been come tolne with Ith a s aboy bo boy for over two to years rears I 1 dl didn't nt think anything could happen to break brenk us up but but- It has hu and I cant can't tell you fOU how howit it has made me roe ted feel I have ha never Imagined d that could get et me meso S so 50 upset It U teems ems to me that m my whole I life is changed and ond will wUl never Defer be the I same lame again I The e trouble 0 L Is that wo we er erho ho have honus nus quarreled re tried 8 so o violently lJ neither oX ox us can canI caner I ever er for Ue the things the other hO he t Md I dont don't think either cither of ci us meant them either but ue we were both so o 0 anery we didn't care what we A Al At least lust this Is true of me mc I Just had hid to ito give Te vent to m mr mY feelings and said Id the most moat cruet cruel things I could think of When V I t think i of oA It D not noI to I f dont don't see ace how 1 I could l have even of such auth things 1 If IL ho hI took them and 10 they he hurt him as much as the the things f 1 did h he said to me we probably r S never Dever even enn speak to each other otner again I 1 know that I 1 was wrong wrone to start It It 21 was wu my mr Jealous leMous disposition made me medo do it I 1 dont don't think I 1 had bad an any real cauStI for Jealousy eIther cither only I can cant t stand It to 10 see him paying so 0 much flUCh c at t t Jt t to another t girl or talking about b her as u If she were the ani only girl with brains S whom hom he had ever met I am Afraid now that I 1 mIL may hive have him into her arms I do Is there anything row now that can About It I suppose this is Just one of the things you TaU do in life lIfo that can cant t b bo be o undone and aud that ch changes chanres es your our lif life from happiness to misery mIser Please hem help m mIf me meU If U you rots ca can SORRY Words arc are such terrible things They burrow burro into the consciousness like an acid which so long as asa a trace of it lt remains continues continues contin contin- r it ues to eat cat its way U Un Until n U ti t L forgetfulness ulness cl wi I comes comes or forgiveness ini v. v is granted memory wh which ch acts as the acid continues to i wreak its ruin rum But one should do what there is to do doto doto to make snake amends for lor or meaningless senseless senseless senseless sense sense- WV W Write I t less anger r e C him a letter or better still ask him to come and see you ou Make your apologies Not groveling ex excuses s. s but straightforward frank statements that you were jealous and lost your head That most roost certainly you did not mean the cruel things you said about him That you think it only fair Lair to say so so You have to run th the risk of not riot having your apology accepted in the fullest sense of the word He will i if he is a gentleman make formal acceptance ac ac- ac of your explanation but the thought may may continue to rankle in him Mm that you couldn't have said such things unless you h had d thought them I a and you couldn't have thought them without meaning them Furthermore Furthermore Further Further- more he may think and rightly that II your apology doesn't cure the cause of the up flare-up of your jealousy jealous But take the first step and tell ull him the truth ut of f the situation anyway There may later be opportunity to toI I let him know you are arc struggling for control of the gr green n monster and to reestablish confidence If his love ford lor you OU is 15 as s deep as yours for him re reconciliation stands in the offing It is the repetition of such scenes that cause caus cause utter disintegration of love But after your first lesson one need hardly say Dont do it again 9 I CEDAR CHEST Dear Dur Miss Blair We have A cedar chest In to which Ire e eh 0 hue h ve kept a number of things stored When we opened it we found all the articles to be coated with A gluey clue tub tub- stance atance which could not riot b be seen but could be felt on everything in III the tho chest There was WIS as A IL Jar ut or cr cellophane cellophane- wrapped lace face cream e in with t them ef Could the gummy substance have vt come from the cream or from the cedar Inthe in inthe the chest cheat The cream had not been spilled or opened Thank you fOU DALL DALU i 1 I have consulted one of our leading chemists on this question and am told that most likely the chest was stored In fn a place where the heat made the wood sweat and throw off oll a film mm of natural gum contained in the wood itself This film would be transparent ent eat and so not visible but could be readily detected by the touch Some woods contain much more of this gum than others according to their nature and arid the amount of ot seasoning process proc proc- e eat ess they have gone through before being made up I FOR J TARNISHED LACE L Dear Dur Miss fin Blair Borne Bome time ego ago I believe you published pub pub- 4 In tn your column A formula for forI cleaning tarnished n 1 silver lace by br using I burnt l alum u Could d you Jrr repeat the formula for for- mula for br me II Is it possible to the the- burnt um alum or must molt it ii be done at home If so 50 how ho you for HOUSEWIFE this and past favors It has been a long time since we published this formula ormula so we gladly tako take space to repeat it for you and others who may zany make use of ot it Baste the metal cloth to a piece of af woolen cloth and stretch by tacking to the kitchen table or the ironing board I Remove all dust by giving i it a al thorough thorough thorough thor thor- ough brushing Then apply powdered pow dered burnt alum Blum with a soft set brush and allow to stand for a little while Remove metal cloth and dust free of ol the J powder The burnt alum should ret restore re the bright finish to the Letters Ques questions ors and re requests requests requests re- re quests for advice should be addressed addressed addressed ad ad- dressed to to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one enc side of ot the paper It is ne necessary oary that you ap append append ap ap- pend the right name arid and ad address address address ad- ad dress but these will be held in strict confidence and will wiH not appear in print Questions Question in involving in- in advertising information cannot be answered Letters requiring personal reply must be accompanied by stamped tamped self addressed envelopes Ed lace ace or or an any metal cloth ly Iy y if it it is Js in ilL good condition Powdered Powdered Pow Pow- dered burnt alum may be purchased at the drug stores NOTE TO L C C. C M. M We have been ablo able to locate informs informs- tion concern Trio The of the tho Nor It was VILS first published by William Maxwell A revolutionary sol aol ol- ol dier In Cincinnati Ohio November 9 p. I l 1793 93 You will note that is spelled with a C Instead of an anS anS S 5 It was wu this that delayed our search learch for it St S WEDDING ANN ANNOUNCEMENT Dear Miss Blair The son of an old oId friend of mine minI has recently been married From rom hit hia mother moth moth- er cc I have re received an announcement of the marriage I have nye never met the bride nor her mother Will you fOU please t tell lI me what is expected d of me roe under the circumstances Thank you ou IRS K It Il Isn't es especially necessary that wedding announcements be answered However it is a gracious thing to tomake tomake tomake make some dome acknowledgment to o the son your of-your old friend so I suggest sug- sug gest est you write him a note of congratulation congratulation congratulation con con- and include i in its its' best wishes lor the bride TABERNACLE ORGAN OIlCAN Dear Miss Blair Will VIli you ou please picaso tell teIl me roe how many man pipes there are arc In the L. L t D. D 8 S. tabernacle tabernacle taber tabu- nacle organ and nd how the they range unie in length Many thanks EULA There are between and pl pipes lpes s in the great organ of the L. L D. D S S. S tabernacle Their length ranges from rom five eighths of an inch to 32 feet |
