Show I t I HEART S HEA R HA VEN Conducted by BETTY I Letters letters questions and requests lor br advice should be addressed f I j to MISS BLAIR HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT 1 r i. i LAKE Write legibly upon oni ani one side at ot the paper I It is necessary that you append the right name and address adires but these will bs be held In strict confidence and ond will not appear in inC C print Questions Involving advertising Information cannot be answered an an- Letters requiring personal reply must be accompanied by stamped self addressed envelopes Ed PLIGHT OF THE TIlE MISSIONARY 1 Dear Dear Miss 1151 Blair BIair Very soon I 1 am to ro go away on a year two mission for or my y church There is a f rid with whom I have been keeping company for three years She is my Ideal and n naturally I hate bate to tob b be parted from her though I am anxious ious bus also alzo to fill rm this mission We have talked some of being married before I I C co 0 away but there J Is b this obstacle Cle In our way My parents will be keep keep- inc Ing me while I lam Iam am on OD my mission and andI I could do nothing toward the support sup sop port of a wife Then too it looks as U though I was WILS just trying to tie her down to keep from losing her er It happens so many times that when a young man malt goes on a mission he be loses lose the girl he loves He lIe returns to find her married to another man I 1 dont don't want arit any other fellow marry mury marrying ing Ine my mr girl rid yet It looks as if I couldn't trust her lier to remain true to tome me if I talk marriage or ur urge e It before belore going away I haven't even given hen her a ring yet and I also hesitate about doing this and arid she hesitates about deciding whether or not she should wear a aring aring aring ring during our ur long separation Can you throw any light on this question that Is causing me so 10 much grief of mind UNSETTLED It is my opinion that young boys bys about to be separated from the girls of their choice over a long period of time should n neither marry nor become become become be be- come come engaged Too often young people peo pIe carry in hi their minds the idea that there is only one person perso in the world or d with whom they could mate happily That person is the one with whom they happen to be in love for the time being It is quite true that young mission missionaries aries often return rn from their missions abroad to find the girl to whom they were engaged or with whom they were in love when they left married to another m man But it Is also true that most of at these same missionaries missionaries' find consolation in the love of somebody else in a very short time afterward In most of the cases happiness results But I have also seen unhappiness follow such unions The girl who marnez mar mar- nez while her sweetheart is on a mission mis mise sion Lion is apt to say to herself when trouble arises If uIt I had only waited and married the other man He really was my souls soul's mate matel And there begins be be- begins begins gins gins' the train rain of thought that makes her feel sorry for herself for having married the wrong man The sensible girl will say to herself Troubles arise no matter to whom you are married Romance doesn't last last forever The thing for forme me to do tp buckle down to the realities of do my part toward making a happy marriage In nine cases out often such a l marriage will succeed especially ally so if it her husband is isas as as conscientious con con- toward making a success of marriage as she is There is such a thing as two people being so much in love and so well mated that love lingers over a long period of time whether the two are together or separated Let us hope that yours Is such a love that it is mutual mutual mu mu mu- in degree and if so that the girl i Will wIIl be waiting for you when you r re- re turn Then will vill be time enough to give her the ring and to lead her to the thc altar LARGE PERSIAN CAT CATA A Persian cat l large re black will be given Iven to anyone offering him a good rood home Owners arc are leaving town Call at Edith avenue I STRA STRAWBERRY PRESERVES Dear 1 Miss Is 5 Blair I have tried making makin sunshine strawberry straw berry preserves but have never been successful in my attempts I have heard there Is a recipe for tor sunshine preserves where they are c cooked sU slightly first D Do you have this and It If set so wilt will you yon kindly print It for me mc Thank you ou MRS l A. A Sunshine strawberry preserves are delicious and are easy to make Weigh Veigh fruit after hulling and washIng washing wash wash- ing and use three fourths of fine granulated sugar to each pound of fruit Put a layer of berries into the pr preserving ervIng kettle cover cover- with wilh a layer of sugar and continue layer for layer until all is used Let stand over over- night Remove scum as it rises and arid let boll boil gently for five live minutes Po Pour r onto large platt platters rs and nd cover cover with glass or mosquito netting Place in inthe inthe inthe the sun Cook in the sun stirring occasionally until the syrup is thick Twelve hours hours' of direct hot sun sun- sunshine shine will cook the fruit and juice uce to the desired thickness Pour into sterilized glass jars and seal If glass is used to cover the fruit it must be ber r removed moved and dried frequently MARBLE IRBLE IN CAPITOL L BUILDING Dear Miss 1155 Blair BIaIr I read your column every nl night ht although this is the first time lime for me meto meto to visit It Will you please tell me where the marble comes from front that tbt thatIs t Is in the capitol building We were discussing this last night and none of or knew Thank you ou BULLY ul The onyx in the lobby of at the tol building came caine from tram Tooele county county county coun coun- ty the birdseye marble is from This tie The marble i in hi 1 the governors governor's reception room th the senate chamber 4 and the room where the house of representatives rep i cs meet is from Georgia son SOME LOCAL HISTORY Dear Der Miss tUss Blair It Is a pleasure to kno know that you are Jue always there in your corn corner corner r to serve us All that I want to know this this' time is who owns the following pieces s of land Antelope Island BIrd Bin island and Ensign peak Do the they belong belon to the government or do indi vi duals duals' own them T Thank you it C CHICK ICK Antelope island is owned partly 4 y th and partly by indi victuals The Dooley estate is th the individual owner here Bird island by P. P P. P W. W Madsen and Thomas I R. R Cutler through the placer place law lal a a mining law and Ensign peak 1 is owned by the corporation n of Salt Sal Lake City It has been so owned since It It was wu acquired by gift girt from th the United States State through the efforts o ol 01 Governor Daniel H. H Wells S I X ICE AS AN ASTRINGENT t Dear MIu Blair r VIII you ou please Jet act me straight on as f 1 f he the use of Ice as a a face astringent I have a friend who claims that tbd the use of ice on her face lace resulted d in broken face veins Yet beauty specialists recommend Ice to tobe tobe tole be le used as asan an astringent after the fach fa- fa a- a ch Il 1 cleans cleansing nJ Do you think my friend ma may be mistaken as to what it t wi was was that caused the broken face veins elos Thank you M l I. M. M Some beauty spec specialists f oppose the use of of ice iee as an astringent th the ground that the the sudden change from warm t to cold may may in soine some instances and has lias caused caused broken lace face veins One specialist even v n goes goes gocs s so i far ras ras as to declare that the i ice e c caused us d broken capillaries and made those unlovely r red ed marks i iks th that t sometimes oc occur i o othe on the he cheeks Not for one moment do we regard regards lS as s hazardous the practice of lof the beauty salons to give an ice rub as ashe the he finish to a treatment Where the he treatment is in the hands of one exp expert rt in its use there is no danger A happy medi medium m for Jor the novi novice e who vho gives herself home treatments would be beto to use ice compresses instead instead In In- stead of the ic ice itself Dip a piece of f absorbent cotton ott n into the ice ce wa ya va vater ter er then spray it with your favorite skin kin tonic and press it all over over the theace face ace and throat Repeat the process s several everal times The average ski skin will respond nd to the he treatment reat ent with the freshness and and glow of a healthy childs child's skin The icy compress alone alones I is s very much worth while without the le tonic It must be used only after the he skin has be been thoroughly cleansed with so soap p and wat water r or with Cleansing cleansing cleans- cleans ing ng cream |