| Show HEARTS HEART'S SHAVEN HEART HA VEN I Conducted by BETTY BLAIR BLAIRs for far a advice should I I be bC addressed Letters s Questions and requests to MISS BLAIR BLAIR HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon OW oni one side ot ci the paper It n is Ls nece necessary ry that you vou append the right name and address but ut these will be held tied In strict confidence and will not appear In print Questions involving advertising Information cannot be answered answered an an- Letters requiring per personal Onal reply must b be accompanied by stamped sel-ad sel self addressed envelopes envelopes envelopes-Ed Ed PLEA FLEA FOR FOB BROADMINDEDNESS RO Dear Miss Blair I I Iam am wondering why lots of folks cannot annot be be bc more mora br more more out ut and out with things Instead of i or beating around the bush bushall all aU lL the thc time What I refer to Is this eternal j jealousy alo sy problem We We all know that human nature has ha a ten dency toward being polygamous We crave the companionship of others more than those with whom we are arec c constantly ass associated Go to a dan dance e hall hail If It wi fie seems to be particularly particularly- interested in any nan man other than thin lier her husband and dances with him too many times then she she is is accused of deliberately playing up up to him and her ber sheer honesty of expression Is quelled for- for aver ver more Or It may be be that hubby hobby Is too attentive tte tive to a another other other- wom woman n and sits off La In a a. corner comer with a along long lonE face Wouldn't for the W world be sociable with that woman therefore therefore there there- fore tore she gets no kick out of the evening and ou outwardly spoils all his hisle pleasure le ure Why a all 1 this silliness on b both th sides Ides We are re not all In the same mood at ataU atall all aU 11 times therefore re If one of us wishes to spend pend th the evening ev I in fn pleasant e con conversation n to compete successfully success success- fully with the ideas of others why have all this Innocent ceI t pleasure spoiled by jealousy It seems seems to me that a lot of us could be a great de deal l happier if everyone every one c could only realize this situation I I There'd be a great deal less stepping out ut at for wed we'd all find out for suret sure t that t anticipation is Is' Is greater than le realization n Honesty and trust is the thc essence of love but h how w- w iv we do disregard these things for the sake of jealousy What do you think Miss l Blair WANTA BE OW At the outset Happy Wanta let Jet me correct your our terminology Your own explanation very vey definitely means means' that we are ae gregarious being not necessarily polygamous For polygamy has has' to do with marrying more than one Being gregarious gregarIous' sim film means that v ar are arc gregarious beings we crave companionship of our I lei el lava lo men Because of th this gregariousness it is true as yo you yot say that a woman though she he be married to the man of her choice needs other men and vice versa versa It is a a avery very conceited man indeed who believes that tha he embodies all the social qualities ties ties intellectual intellectual moral religious religious- that a keen intelligent woman requires re reo quires for tor the development of her personality F For r a woman to set herself herel her herself self el up on that high pedestal l is as as' as fCo foolish ls It is a very very small small minded mean person who would deny a a wife or husband the privilege of conversing con ersing with others The trouble lies lies' in 10 the fact that many women in the quest for this companionship abuse their privileges What started out to be an intellectual quest ended too oo often with indiscreet women in a love fest Zest And the fault lies lic not alone with the women for tor the men are just as guilty of ot this intellectual craving raving ali bi bL But the women and men who are sure of their quest who have learned the art rt of control who have a love for loyalty and arid honor and advancement advance advancement ment ment should not be hampered by bYI the meanness of ofa a jealous jealouS' disposition It is Js b belittling to the possessor it brings misery to the one against wh whom m its shafts are directed It is is' the epitome o ome orne e in expression of a selfish self loving individual According to our latest latest- scientific experimental discoveries dis dJs jealousy can be he conquered and should be for the sake of all concerned NOTE TO 70 AVERT Kindly send lend a stamped ped self ad ad- Permanent Removal of Superfluous dressed envelope for for our circular Hair ADDRESSES Dear Miss Blair S Could you please tell teU me where I would be able to get et geta a list of of the various 4 9 t I L school dis- dis n tt DI UL n l Colo Colorado Olo- Olo ado rado Wyoming and Arizona M M. J. J Write rite the state stare board of education Capitol building Salt Lake City enclosing en en- enclosing closing stamped envelope for a list of f the superintendents of the school dis of ot Ut Utah h. h Write similar letters to each state slate board of education of the v various rio s states slates mentioned NOTE NOlE TO B B. B B- B I Th The screen artist concerning whom you ou ask Is I. an an trained opera singer and sings hi own numbers TO TELL CHILDREN Dear Miss Blair I am the mother of a old four daughter and am now making Infant clothes for an an expected new arrival My y little daughter has already be ran gun t to ask me many questions ab about ut the e rl of life where e. e she h vui cic A a naveS nave inca inea 10 so ten aeu her ber the truth simply limply Enough of it to th her Now 1 am am a little dis as 1 to whether or not to tell her the truth about the new little brother or cr sister that Is Is' coming She Is Ia such a sensible len child so to 10 old old- fashioned and thoughtful I am hoping 7 you u can tell me what to do Thanking you YOUNG MOTHER I I 1 read a story the he other day that t I I. Iam am am going to reproduce e for for yo you Jn its entirety It It exactly answers your q question stion For other mothers who have not flot yet et answered the questions of life lite to their young children let me rue recommend nd the following books Child Qu Questions and Their Answers byH by H. H W. W Brown The Way Life B Be gins and How to Tell ChI Children dren by B. B C. C and V V. M. M Cady How Shall I Tell M My Child by M. M W. W Chapman Growing Up by Karl de Schweinitz The rhe story tory What ar are you doing Bobby The two ladies ladles stopped and wa watched hed t the year six boy holes holes in in the rose bed I Making pansy pansy hol holes bolOs sr Ive I've got pansies anstes t to plant They're in tn th the cellar How nicel Isn't it e early Oh Ch no roI lioI J must have havo them nIl all allI R t I want for my i. t t J little sister or maibe herll be a brother The two The two lad ladies looked at each other So y youre you're ure going ItO to have a little sifter o or brother broth il i said Mrs Brown How nice nic Mommy would let me do doh doher doher h her her- r planting l' l Im I'm h helping all I can she well v ll No you see the baby presses against her Heart and rid she cant can't do much but sew I have to help lots W We all have to do wh what t we we can to help our baby WHAT A SHOCK The The strollers stroller gasped This out of the mouth of a mere baby himself wa-s wa was t too ci astonishing What was was his mother thinking about B But t th then m you might know She was was was one one of those ne new young people who believed in almost brutal almost brutal truth about everything Heaven knows what all she had told this child They changed the subject and then walked on They had to stop and tell the news to Mrs Miller hillier v who vho o was vas also expecting expecting ex Mrs Miller was on the porch swing Do come up and sit It down a minute min ruin ute she begged I ought to be kitting but its it's time for Johnny tobe to tobe tobe be home a and d t that's ats the time Ume timeto to put things away Hes so curious about everything Some of these thes days he heis is going to be surprised d Isn t he she laughed A DIFFERENT VIEW W This was like according to their notions There wasa long Jong and confidential conference and much head shaking Mind you h he said our baby declared one visiting lad lady think that poor little tyke had to go out and earn earn the family bread and butter Ill I'll bet you hell he'll trot his I poor little legs legS' off from n now till kingdom king dom come Shell She'll see sec e t l to that I 1 dont don't approve of at it said Mrs Miller firmly My Johnny will never be made to feel that hes he's less important important im im- im than the baby The days das after alter the thc two arrivals un unfolded folded the truth of the tw two situations Johnny was surprised all ll right He hid behind the thc sofa when his gr grand grandma nd ma came downstairs irs and arid told him he had a new baby broth brother r and didn't want to go up and see see sec It lt Is that tha thing going to stay here he shouted desperately from the depths of ot his retreat I dont don't wa want t it I hate babies I r I wont won't have it around here I JOY OR RESENTMENT I But But Bobby beheld the little 1 tUe help less figure of ot his new brother with brother with an emotion too deep and wonderful to express Gee well we'll have to take good care care- of at him he said Look athis alhia teeny fingers I Can CanI I hold him Gee aint he cute cutet Is Moms Mom's heart any beu better r now now Just the differ difference nc l The attitude of older children to babies at birth often otten lasts through life lic It ft is better to take them into our confidence as far faras faras faras as as their understanding will permIt This bro brotherly herly finds or sisterly sisterly- love a balanced in the hero Worship of f the younger for those a few extra years above them At any ny rate the prepared prepare child is the happiest Nose out o of joint whole mental makeup make up out of joint jont A very serious thing indeed KITTENS FOR GIFTS Three black Persian part kittens well behaved and very viry playful are asking for lor n new w homes They may be had bd at E street Telephone Was J. Two other nice kittens ire are at rot 6 6 62 avenue Hy Ry W 53 hoping someone will want ant ant to give Elve them give them a good home and band car carl care |
