Show HEARTS HAVEN HAFEN Conducted by BETTY BLAIR i Letters questions and requests for advice should be addressed 2 to ro MISS BETTY BElT BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It Is 15 that append the right necessary you ou name and address J but these will be held in strict confidence and will not appear In print Questions involving advertising ad Information cannot be an- an Letters requiring personal reply must be accompanied by stamped self addressed envelopes E Ed FLY IN IX THE TIlE OINTMENT Dear Miss l Blair I have been married 15 years and have two children u a boy and a girl fir 11 and 13 years yens old respectively My Iy husband and I are the same are age though th urh everyone takes him to be at AtJe Je least Iet d ten years my senior lie He never goes foes out oot to any place of amusement except his bli i lodge without me and is 15 kindness itself when we are ace at home We both love to dance and we go quite often It is here that the fly hops Into tl trie tle e ointment lie He dances with me and then seems to forget that I exist while he seeks out the prettiest young girls he can find and proceeds to have e a glorious time Now I am attractive too and do donot donot not mot make snake a 3 martyr out of myself by looking glum and becoming a wall flower I dance every ery time and pretend pretend pretend pre pre- tend to be having a wonderful time hut But Im I'm not Y My friends kid me about MB hil actions and of tf course I hav to in pretend i t th d that here r Js Is one pl place where we try to forget we know each other that hat we both have a better time by so doing But I have never really a a. good time I love to dance with my husband hus bus band and I dont don't like Uke to have him show In public that there is Isone one little girl In particular on whom he has a dreadful crush lie He makes a line bee for her as 15 soon as he has done what he be considers the d decent thing and danced with me mc once once For five fire or six years now he has been doing this and we have had hadman man many anany bitter quarrels over It but even en though it still hurts I avoid the quarreling as that is too devastating Ills crushes vary ary from time to time On one occasion when we were out In the car with the the children children and had bad d Stopped for some lome root beer ono one of his crushes and her fellow drove un I along alone side Ilde He lie was out of our cat car car I and d over overto to her side in less time than It takes to tell it Her fellow was wasas as 5 sore as could be The children noticed it and asked q questions as he be hung hune on and talked so long JaDE I dont don't know of any cure for him do you yon WIFE Your tolerant attitude should continue continue con ti to see ee you through this d dif The sad part of it is is that you will finally come to the point of not ot caring That is w what results from continual bombardment of the emo- emo This will not af you so I much then as it will your husband who will come to the realization when it is is' too late that something that once was was very beautiful in his life lire has passed out forever and that will wUl be his Nemesis Naturally you will want to shield the he children from any further knowledge knowl know edge of his indiscretions No man mm can be perfect and his weakness should be looked upon pon with as much tolerance toler toler- ance nc as s can be mustered It helps one to take this attitude when you look at other women's husbands and think you you ou would not change the weakness of ot your husband for that of your neighbors It helps too when wives r remember member that to them their husbands husband's husbands husband's hus hus- bands band's weaknesses look much more formidable than do their own MENU FOR FOE CHILDRENS CHILDREN'S PARTY Dear Miss 1 Blair Kindly give me a menu for for a birth day ay party for children from 5 5 to 8 B Bears years rears ears of age Thank you MRS RS C. C Ch Chicken patties or chicken noodle ring rolls rolIs and jellied salad with ice cream and th this tho birthday cake with hot chocolate will make a nice luncheon lunch eon on n or afternoon refreshments i if served about 4 o'clock If It you are not setting the table sandwiches of peanut butter chopped olives with I cream or or mayonnaise minced ham hot not chocolate ice cream and cake party candies will satisfy Card tables or other small tables will do for the c children to set their then cups of ot chocolate on D. D HARD BARD TIME IE DANCE Dear Miss Blair Could you please give rive me some sug sug- for a a. successful time hard dance It Is to be held In the amuse- amuse jaent t room of the church We would like to use Inexpensive decorations Thanking h you The The gu guests ts should be told to come t to th the dance in clothes that lire bre are out of or style and worn to patches Use pap paper r flowers with carrot tops for decorations Since the dance will occur about Christmas time the Cowers co could ld be poinsettias Pots of the top carrot fernery co could ld be placed around the halt hall with a single ottia set in the middle to lend color Homemade paper chains made j-ed j and green tissue could lend to tp the time hard-time effect MAsk Ask the guests to bring produce to pay or orr help pay for tor their tickets tickets- rhe produce could then be turn turned d over Oyer yer to the welfare organization of your our church for distribution to the poor oo An Au orchestra of p organs mouth-organs and f With a banjo bani and guItar would further suggest your motif Ar- Ar range xanee for foe a quartet to sing Hard limes Come Again No More to be Happy Times es Are Here Again OVERLOOKED Dear Miss Blair I have gone out with a a. certain boy everal times He lie has never kissed me mc yet Sd et I know that when he takes other girls Iris he kisses them regardless as all to who It Is fl I have tried to be is as s nice idee a as I knoY know how bow to to be to him him but It U doesn't seem to do much good Will WUI jou ou please tell ten me what hi his hb treatment Jf f m me means or what I should do dC Thanking you ou UNA LINA Has Has it ever occurred to you Lina lAna that this boy might be paying you OU a compliment The fact that he doesn't consider that you belong to the promiscuous kissing group would In in- so BO Do you suppose he has a aery arvery very ery high estimation of ot the girls regardless re ye- as to who it Is who Invite his kisses You should be thanking your lucky lf stars that he places you on a little leyel than the other girls who their free kisses more blat blat- j than you have been able to do The only thing to do about this is to give secret thanks not at atall all in the than thou attitude but with lust just enough self pride that you can take teke a longer breath of pure sweet time he has lef lett ou without the kiss that is only a symbol of f cheap hep exchange ch ge WRINKLES Dear Miss 1 Blair Will you please advise me what to todo todo todo do for wrinkles that are beginning to show around my eyes and on my throat Thanking you JUST JUSTE ME E After thoroughly cleansing the skin use a good skin skill food for the fingertip massage that will Iron the wrinkles out An excellent cream for this purpose Is almond oil to which a few drops of rose water have been added With firm taps of oC the finger ends and a touch much like that used in piano playing describe on an arc ar from the eyebrow rounding the eyes' eyes corners corners cor cor- ners to the e cheek check cek bones Do it firmly ever every third stroke stop right on the spot where the wrinkles are congregating congre gating and do a sort of treadmill topping tapping A d different method of massage should be used for tor the throat With the fingers of the right hand massage In an upward direction on the left side of the throat and vice versa Try to correct your posture which keeps your head inclined to cause causa the throat wrinkles S GERMAN lAN POLICE FOLICE DOG DOGA A old month German police pollee dog Is seeking a a new home and will make a nice Christmas gift rift for a boy who has had this his longing for a a. dog left unsatisfied Call Hyland Byland M 1 or see sec him at 32 Ninth East S NOTE TO lONE IONE Send a stamped self addressed envelope en for our circular Games For Adults It will wUl help you solve your problem of p parly pirty entertainment e I. 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