Show HEARTS HEART'S HEAR TS T'S HA HAVEN VEi Conducted by BETTY BL BLAIR IR J Letters questions and requests for advice sh should uld bo be nd i ito to MISS BETTY BETrY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only ono one side of the paper 7 It Is necessary that you append the right name name and add address tI but these will wm be bo held In strict confidence and will not appear j- j i advertising Information cannot M Involving be bel print Questions e an Letters requiring p personal reply must be accompanied bv br I- I stamped self addressed envelopes E LOVE NOT NOl RETURNED Dear Miss Blair Ir J I I have been going with a sa g girl fri rl for bout About a year a-year year and and half The other night told me she didn't love me Inc She said she had tried me but bat lid had failed tailed I am very much In love loc with with her She a said ld she knew I was wasn In n love with her She also alJo Bald ald everybody every every- body called her a gold digger r f for tak taking ing all aU the things I had given her and for tor letting her take my car Will Vill you please tell me how to make her love me as much as I do her ber QUIZ I can tell you how to make her appreciate you and i 1 oftentimes very veryl l lasting sting love is built bunt on fine on-fine fine tion Write her a letter Dont Don't see her personally any anymore more for lo the pres ent And in this letter tell her you have thought things over and have decided since she feels the way she does docs that it is much better that you do not see each other nor communicate communicate I cate in any any way Do not even suggest suggest suggest sug sug- gest that you may later on try to see sec seel her Make the letter very brief and d I to the point Do not under any cir clr circumstances tell her this berm-this in this letter how much you love lov her She i Is already too too sure sure sure of your love Jove Tell her you have appreciated her companionship and wish her better luck with the next boy who gets serious with her Girls are exactly like boys in this thi regard that when they have nothing In iii particular to work for fox they take everything for granted and do no not exert themselves This girl did no not need to really try to love you She had your love and she knew it She had your your- gifts and your car She ha hanot has not the mature judgment to appreciate all these things therefore she should be denied them until her sense of appreciation ap ap- ap- ap is intensified It is not enough that you should stop seeing this girl You must start star seeing another girl who is also very attra attractive You must not lead this second see sec sec 1 ond girl on into any false expectations Plan entertainment that will encourage encourage encourage age a fine friendship and companion companionship ship without leading her to think you are making love to her Be sure that tha your other girl sees you with the new friend Be very op open en and frank about abou this new nw friendship It will be something something something some some- thing for tor you to be really proud of o if you make friends with the right ki kind of girl or girls for you need no not pay all aU your your attention attention to one girL Do not show spleen spleen- or revenge in any way wai In your new method of at regaining regaining re re- re- re gaining your former girls girl's respect and friendship Gr Greet Greet- et her always in a avery avery avery very friendly manner but always a as asIf asit if it everything was atan end between you Peel Feel in your heart as if U things thing were at an end nd for if they really ar arnot are arc not the first step at at- ata a reconciliation must come from her You can only drive her further from fromy y you u by continuing to see her am and plead for her love You can win he her deepest r respect by a gentlemanly and dignified attitude toward her and by showing her that other girls really appreciate you Love cannot be coerced but the finest finest fin fin- est foundation for love is respect and anda a fine appreciation of ot your w worthwhile worthwhile worth worth- rth- rth while qualities Your Your friend friend has been too close to the forest to see the see the trees Your absence from her at this particular lar time will give her hera a much better bette perspective TO AUTOGRAPH PHOTO Dear Miss Blair In giving photographs to 1 friends and relatives for Christmas what wha Is th the correct thing thin to write on them other othe than thai your name I J cant can't think of any any- say except the old age commonplace commonplace com corn phrases you see se on every photograph ph Would you please SUggest suggest suggest sug sug- gest a a. afew few phrases to write with m my autor autograph ph Th Thank you ou MAIDA Nothing looks looks- so out of at place as asto asto asto to see expressions of affection of at varying vary vary- ing degrees written on photographs Naturally with each photograph you send there will be an accompanying letter or at at- least a note saying that tha the pictures are being sent and wishing wish wish- tog ing the recipients a merry Christmas Also you send your love or your ai affection af af- in the letter Your name and the year in which th the picture was taken need be all aU th that t is writt written n on the picture itself Sometimes to very dear friends or relatives the one word Affectionately may precede th the name Very often nothing at all is written on the photograph and con cn n- n the Ia fa all that need be written is sent in the accompanying note this seems more as it should beThe be The very fact fa t that you know people well well- enough or like them well enough to send a R picture of yourself permits the photograph to speak for itself without any b posting bill g whatever OPEN HOUSE Dear Miss 1 Blair When a club holds open house am amIt and It has been announced that such will ril willbe willbe be held does It mean that anyone whis who wh Is Interested interest may go Thank you MERVA MERV A. A Open house bouse means that all aU friends and patrons of at the tho club are invitee invited without special invitations It happens happens happens hap hap- pens very often however that those who take advantage of open house are ure asked mixed to go by members of the club or by others who may be going CUSTARD ICE CREAM CREAl Dear Miss lbs Blair Will vIiI you yon please give rive me a recipe fo for custard Ice cream I am going to serve servo it at a a. luncheon if I can get et the recipe Many thanks JOY Three cups milk 1 cup cream 1 I Cu cup sugar 2 eggs 2 tablespoons flour teaspoon vanilla or other flavoring 4 3 teaspoon salt Mix flour and nd sugar add the milk and cook 15 minutes in a double boiler stirring often Pour this milk over the beaten eggs return to double boiler holler and and cook ag again ln until tint egg coats spoon Strain and cooL Add flavoring and salt and fold in the cream which has been whipped Freeze Freze This may be varied va by adding one pint of crushed fruit ruit of any kind Fruit should be added when cream is about half half frozen CHRISTMAS rAS JELLIES Dear Miss Blair I want to give ome some of my strawberry strawberry straw straw- berry borry jell Jelly with which I had bAd such success tills this year to lo a few fe of my friends for tor Christmas gifts Please tell eli me how to make them look attractive at at- as Kilt gift gifts Thank youW you W MEANS AND j 1 am sin glad 70 you era art re kIng g this thI qua lion tion because it is JS 1 so first appearances of ot gUt gifts are attra tive You can tie up your jarn jellies or other homemade to look like like- lit little e- e flower pot with tricky candy trees made of on top of at them for lowers flowers If ij Y yZ y get get- your wrappings early enough fc o get a good selection and take yoi r time to it it the littlest gadget that tha send may take on such that it ends by being the up e nicest w g gift t received If you are giving some bulky t that is hard to tie up don't dont b be stint with your paper Use a whole biz big roll of of-It of It gather all the ends r rat at the top slash them them to to make fringe ft lle and sp sprinkle stars all over th the y thing l |