| Show rt 1 o 4 y 9 i III w U w t R t BLAIR BLAIR- tl BETTY 0 Letters and questions for fop this department should be he addressed to Miss Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Lako Telegram Write only on one side cf tf the tho paper It is necessary to appen append l your name and d address but these are held in confidence and will not be b. published 0 pear Dear Miss Blair This is the first time I have written written written writ writ- ten to you but I have been a reader of your column My husband is 40 years old and I am 38 We have five children two of whom are married married mar mar- ried vied tho others still at home My husband has always been devoted to his home and family and has always spent as much time with us IS as possible though his work has failed balled him away for part of the time Some time ago he ha was sent so far aw awry y that he was only able to get home twice during his stay While hanging up his clothes one day a girls girl's ring fell foil out of his pocket pocket pocket- I found that he ho had hers and she had his his his- I am amso amso amso so heartbroken heartbroken heartbroken- She Sho first started to help him with his work and then then then- He had never nover told her that he was married and and when she told him how much she loved him he had to tell her that he was married married but but then she told him what a terrible man he hod been to his family and to herand her herand and nd that she never wanted to see him again the the worried way he acts that he loves her her her- I feel I just couldn't live on and know he loves her but what am I to do I h have ve no way to support my fam fam- ily Now he has always seemed to think everything of mo ma and wai waa always fussing his head off if I 1 Idid Idid did the least thing with any other man even as little as to dance twice with the same man I 1 never dreamed of such a thing coming coming to our home I have never told any any- ono of this trouble not even my children and I feel that I really might have a breakdown if I didn't unburden my troubles to someone and to you Miss Blair I am doing that thing He hasn't said he loves her but buthe buthe he acts like it He said he would give anything to right the wrong he has done her not seeming to care what he had done to me What can I do What can I 1 do to prove whether r not he does love her Or how can c'an can I make him choose He Helas MRS TANGO las has has r C I have been thinking about you and your problem for some time how Siow loW Mrs Tango and am quite willing to admit that its solution solutionis ts is anything but simple but I be believe believe be- be lieve that you are going to manage I all alf right and that you will one day soon be able tp smile at what I seemed t the e verge of tragedy Dont Don't you really think that your husbands husband's Interest In the other woman woman woman wo wo- wo- wo man was was simply that he was faraway far faraway faraway away from you and was lonesome Probably i if he had told the other girl that he was married there I wouldn't have been any problem I because she would have remembered remembered remembered you and wouldn't have thought of him seriously Her being being being be be- ing hurt by his duplicity in all likelihood is the thing Which holds him now rather than any real bond of affection other than that of friendship A guilty conscience acts ads as a a. constant reminder but i if your husband once straightens things out in this complication I believe you'll never have cause to worry about him again It is not difficult to appreciate your hurt and resentment you ou have just cause yet when you vou consider afford to carry the costs costs can can you ou your grievance to a a. point of re retaliation re- re Evidently Evidently- the tho girl has taken her situation into her own hands and has disappeared from the scene She though your husband husband husband hus hus- band was frightfully unfair has shown that she recognizes your prior right and you could probably count on her cooperation with you I rather than on on any effort to hurt hurty y u. u Cant Can't you let time adjust your difficulties Let things tl drift for awhile without making snaking any definite d decisions one way or another You were both wise and considerate considerate considerate consid consid- erate not to mention any of this to anyone who knows you and to keep it from your children You said that your husband had had to I leave on business again again walt wait until until until un un- un- un til he returns and then talk things over with him Each of you play nay have a a. new perspective on your problem by then and may be able to solve it to the satisfaction of all of you Your husband will have had time to consider and no doubt he will appreciate your point of view by now Wait and see if he cant can't offer a solution instead of your YOU trying to shoulder both the hurt and the responsibility Let me know if I 1 can help further fur fur- ther Dear Miss Blair Monday evening at the BonTon Bon Ton ballroom my black and Gold old patent leather envelope purse disappeared disappear d. d It may have been picked up by mistake mistake mis mis- take or I may have lost it it but I art any exceedingly anxious to find it be because because be be- cause it contained a new pair of gloves and most important of all the key to my home Id I'd be more than glad to let whoever found it keep the money if I can just get the purse the gloves gloves and and the key Wont Won't you please run this in your column Miss Blair and let the find find- f finder nd- nd er bring these things in to you or telephone you MAE J. J Yes well we'll be glad to help you out that much and well we'll hope to have some good news for you vou as s soon as the paper is out Will th the Under please call Betty Blair at Wasatch and help this girl out of hex her predicament Dear Miss Blair What is the county seat of Montezuma Montezuma Mon Mon- county Colo I haven't a map or I shouldn't bother you Thank you O. O K L. L Cortez is the town and you you are are no bother and quite welcome Dear Miss Blair This letter will perhaps be a little late to help the lady who asked how to remove argyrol I hope not My baby has been ill or I should h have ve written sooner I was helped very much by th the lady who took the pains to tell me of Clorox to remove mildew stains It did and bleached my clothes beautifully white Thanks very I much to you and to her Now Miss Blair I am going to tell you this about argyrol and it may help others The best way to remove it is to rinse it out BEFORE IT DRIES with warm water After it dries water only seems to set it into the material I took some out with Pyramid cleaning compound even after it had stood for weeks but in doing so I rubbed blisters on my knuckles so you understand it takes a lot of hard rubbing This compound also takes many other stains out of or things I took iodine out of my gray silk hose It mal may rhay fade the material slightly but my hose were scarcely faded enough to notice I do not know of ofa a place where this is sold but it Is manufactured by the Pyramid Manufacturing Manufacturing Man Man- company Alhambra Cal Now just a word about ladies going to the mens men's barber shops I dont don't know about the prices in most places in Salt Lake but we have to togo togo togo go to the barber shops out here or else take a trip into Salt Lake for fora a haircut Isn't it just possible that the barber shops are a LITTLE I CHEAPER The one time I 1 did go to Salt Lake I went to beauty par parr parlor lor tor and it cost me for a haircut haircut hair hair- haircut cut marcel and singe Out here it would only be HOUSEWIFE That argument sounds like a perfectly perfectly perfectly per per- good one and I believe that even the most conscientious objectors objectors objectors ob ob- ob- ob among the men would recognize recognize recognize rec rec- th that t and be more We Ve surel surely appreciate your writIng writing writ- writ Ing ng and md giving us the benefit of your our experience and we printed your letter at once once so th that t if the alcohol failed our reader may m make l e euse use of the hint you have lave offered We are glad that you were so su suc successful sud- sud with the Clorox Thank you and we are always glad to have you in Hearts Heart's Haven I sur surely ly hope your our baby is is entirely we well again D Dear ar CITY BUG We have r followed your suggestion and you will probably hear more of It within a short time Dear Miss Blair What is going to happen to Sandy And how hoy much longer must we be held in suspense I 1 cant can't imagine any further difficulties into which the poor child might get Cant Can't you give us a hint HOLDING MY BREATH Dont Don't do it Cant Can't you ou be a patient patient pa pa- patient pa- pa tient girl just a day or two longer Truly you'll know the outcome before before before be be- be- be fore the week is up and I dont don't want to spoil the final chapters by even hinting at the conclusion Dear Miss Blair Can you tell me when and where Luther Burbank was born and also his present home address Thank you CURIOUS Luther Burbank was born at Lancaster Lancaster Lancaster Lan Lan- caster Mass March laTch 7 1849 He moved to Santa Rosa Ca Cal in 1875 1815 and that Is Ms Iris present home ad- ad address ad ad- dress YOU are welcome |
