| Show B of Says S ays Woman J NEW YORK Jan Jail 2 2 By NKA NIJA Service Service Must Service Must the modern professional professional professional woman have nave marriage to complete her happiness f To this question Blanche Yurka actress ss enters nn an an emphatic de denla de- de nial 1 No more more she contends than she must have success achievement companionship and freedom from financial pinches to make malte her happy app If marriage were the ideal state of bliss bliss' bliss and and contentment that sentimental sentimental sentimental sen sen- girls imagine it to be and sugary novelists who write for sentimental sentimental sentimental sen sen- girls describe it to be then thep of course cours there would be no question she says But marriage is rarely ideally happy happ she goes on because it is undertaken by humans who are personally personally personally per per- ambitious selfish and and ir Iri- Iri tolerant MUST SUBMERGE IN IX MARRIAGE A happy haply marriage usually dePends depends depends de de- de- de on the eff effacement cement of ego preter preferably bly the wife's ego A woman wom wom- woman an used to being financially Independent independent independent inde Inde- pendent bent upon continuing her career cannot be depended on to tobe tobe tobe be self effacing and yielding Consequently Consequently Con Con- marriage Is often an unsuccessful unsuccessful un un- un- un successful s venture for her or if not actually unsuccessful it is not the main interest in her life Modern life lite also con contributes tributes to womans woman's sufficiency she believes Women used to marry for a home and t to be supported she continued Marriage was their career It was wasa a part of their job to stick to the theman theman theman man who represented their nance Today Toda this is changed A woman is not on a husband for forthe forthe forthe the rent or the gas bill She can support herself herselt and have her own home houie and her own circle of friends She doesn't need a husband for his Jils weighty advice or counsel for she has learned to think for herself hersel So just marriage the privilege of a Mrs Mr Irs on on the visiting card an escort and the avoidance of the old maid stigma is nothing to her romen need not with marriage They need not marry just to secure material comforts comforts com corn forts and a standing in the com Corn mun Ity The maternal instinct and desire for children which ever every woman possesses possesses possesses pos pos- to some degree need not be bp entirely stifled by y t the e professional who does not marr marry she maintains MAY UA Y ADOPT CHILD Because a woman has no children children children chil chil- dren of her own she is not de deprived deprived deprived de- de of ot doing good for tor children who need affection she points outA outA outA out A true love of children wilt will ex express express express ex- ex press itself through any child that needs mothering and care it need not be limited only to ones one's offspring off offspring off off- spring Many a splendid woman who has ro never ver married has adopted children and made an excellent home for tor them She has cared for them in intelligently intelligently in- in because she desired to bring happiness to them as well as emotional satisfaction to herself So m many ny people have hae the idea Ideo that unless fJ a woman has a a. husband husband hus bus band she must po go o loveless through life and that it if she marries she shela Is la naturally surrounded by love and homage That is plain bunkA bunk A woman with a capacity for love ve will never lead a loveless life regardless of marriage She will sublimate the love that would have gone prone Into a a. home and children into other channels After all real love expresses ox Itself through kindness end nd service and ami there arn sA always alway around who nee tw thie NOT oP ALWAYS ALA YS II CO Ive Vve heard marriage advocated as asa asa asa a preventive for tor lonesomeness in old age Some of ot the most lonesome women I know lenow are married ones who have drifted apart I from their husbands whose children have left home and who have no outside In Interests interests interests in- in such as professional women have to fill in the gap Dont misunderstand me she concluded I believe the happy marriage is the greatest happiness two humans can attain but I be believe believe belleve be- be lieve it is exceedingly rare Ana Ano unless she can have real happiness In marriage I believe the professional protes- protes woman is pursuing her career v Miss Yurka speaks not without conviction She made a matrimonial matrimonial nial venture but is back at her career and announces her Intention of sticking sUcking to it I w L' L in c s. s 1 v r tl s e s 1 r |
