Show Evening Chit Chat BY EUTH CAMERON CAEtoN CAMERONI I A A FEW V w weeks ks ago some flome of m my readA readI read- read TV ors ers and I had a little discussion as asto I A to whether it really paid in terms x JL of ot masculine approval and admiration admira admira- tion Hon and love lo-e and matrimony to be bea a thoroughly nice girl J Iy assertion that Jt St certainly did was taken exception to by some girls who I said they the had tried it and found It did lId not and who thought that Be good and I you'll be happ happy would have to give wa way to the modern version Bo Be good and you'll youil be lonesome lone Maybe be the following letter leller will Interest Inter Inter- e est et t them a bit Anent your our chitchat about the forward forward for for- orward or- or ward girl girl I I want to give iye the of one who though not a prude tended rather toward prudishness than forward forward- nessI ness I i was conscientious over man many things to lo the point of Q where I felt that I was missing much of th tb the fun un that oher other girls had yet for indulgence In in my conscience conscience conscience con con- science troubled me out of all proportion to th the tho pleasure derived When I was aa away on a visit I met a ayoung ayoung ayoung young man who showed me some attention attention attention atten atten- tion from a sense of duty dut to my mo hostess hostess host host- ess but butery very cry soon Mon one of his invitations brought me up standing before my con- con It was an invitation which nine hundred and ninety-nine ninety girls in a thousand thousand thousand thou thou- sand would have accepted unhesitatingly and which hf h In itself involved no forwardness forward forward- ness ness merely merely was in opposition to m my idea 0 of what was right for a Christian to to do I sent my m- refusal and explanation tion lion with the feeling that it was the knell of our friendship and that he would read it with a sneer but to my great surprise ho he replied that he disagreed disagreed disagreed dis dis- dis- dis agreed with me he respected me for doIng doIng doing do- do Ing what I thought was right A year and a n. half later we c cero were ero married married mar mar- ried ned and for fOI the past four years I 1 have I been happier than In all aU the previous tent twenty fl e Xo No husband could be more considerate of his wife nor more devoted devot ot ed cd to her her and and still we each hold our opinion about the matter mattel referred to For the girl Irl who ho longs for a good time at almost an any cost let me quote Ruth McEnery Stuart For a steady stead diet day in and day cIa out theres there's nothing like a quiet gentleman The sun Isn't exciting exciting exciting ex ex- ex- ex citing in its daily uprisings and goings down down but but it Is good to live along with Ith Pyrotechnics are for holidays No I J dont don't like her a hit hit bit said a ayoung ayoung ayoung young girl recently when I J asked her opinion of at a prominent alumna of ot her university Why I wondered wondered p bpi did diel like that particular woman er very much I have a feeling that she doesn't like e me x I Wouldn't you OU think she would have I been ashamed to give o that answer Disliking people merely mereb because one U thinks that thc they do not approve or like e one ODe seems to me a weakness that one ought to be unwilling to admit to oneself one one- self to say nothing of telling It willingly to another person Occasionally I catch myself disliking a person for that reason and I am thoroughly thoroughly thor thor- ou ashamed Is that ever the reason rca for or an any of your likes and dislikes dislike and do you think its it's a very nice one 12 r p A I. I 9 |