Show Problem Talks With Mothers By Louise D. D Mitchell Mitchel As Wife and Helpmeet A At Ai first glance and tho thought there will w not seem to be bo much difference between yourself if as a wife and as a a. helpmeet hut ut a a second tho thought ht will convince you that not eer every wife is a a. helpmeet and not every ery helpmeet a a. good wife throwing aside ulde all aU question of ot the domestic domestic do do- economics I want to to bring up for fOl your Our consideration In this your out our position as a a. trouble saver Mover in your jour our companionship with your our husband Whether it may insy sound hackneyed 1 or not the larger part of oC our troubles are purely imaginary In other words they have ha been built up out of tion There Isn't an angel nor a woman woman wom wom- an nor half halt of ot either can do more than Just jut her best and If JC any problem comes comesup comesup up for your jour our consideration if It you vou have hac given It your our best thought decision and promotion you ou should resolutely lay It aside until the returns come in and then be courageous eno enough gh to accept your mistake mistake mistake-It if it has proven pro to be a mistake mistake arid and lay up the tho knowledge f for far r future use I think that e every ry wife whether wife whether she Is I. a mother or not should not should come corne face to face with the thc question of ot her right to tolay lay ay upon the sympathies of her h husband bus hus s- s band responsibilities that belong to her sha share of ot the burden bearing in any matter mat mat- ter that she ig is intelligently capable of deciding for fOT herself herselt A fact for you VOLt to take In deeply is 28 that our reasoning powers power like any muscle wo we ma may have e grows stron stronger er through legitimate exercise Your Tour ability therefore there there- fore to discriminate between n what is best or not best b st to do In an any of the matters pertaining to your our own responsibilities responsibilities In the home will wUl become strengthened b by exercising your our own reasoning reasoning rea rea- powers regarding them However clo close the devotion de between husband and wife wire there Is If a a. certain tin line of ot forbearance that should bo be rach reached between them Your Your little worries whether hether about the children or the home that are arc neither vital in importance nor noras noras noras as to time should b be bc kept to yourself and worked cr out tt In private and acted upon or else dismissed an as too trivial to bear weight with you sou souDo OU Do not hand them over 0 to 10 your jour our already overburdened o husband for Cor consideration Keep the small cares care awn awa away from Crom him and let Id his home b a h harbor of rest and security from the storm ho has Just left leet outside not a port where here he must t feel et himself an alien and where here th the troubled waters have haIc intruded Independence from tho opinion of another an an- anI I other gives es a human being man or woman wom an a splendid consciousness of Creed freedom om I If Ir you jou Ou acquire It Jt through steadfast t effort to decide things Co for yourself you ou will wUl find yourself launched out upon the happiest happiest hap hap- period of your OUr life I A large luge fact tact for you jou OU to take Into this thill thought also allio Is that with our j-our our home hom care eliminated from the short hours of or companionship with your our husband and his hlas private business cares that you jou can be no use to him in In also cut out ou you will have much more real enJoyment of each other and mental refreshment will result A diet of one line of conversation conversation conversation conversa conversa- tion invariably brings loss of appetite for such food A danger lies hidden in this er very verj- thing when such conversation haJ happens tobe between husband and wife they they tire of each cach other Little wonder then that oth other t women omen or other men have greater ater attraction for tor them It Is not dress nor pretty prett faces that help women to hold their husbands hus hus- band bands throughout the married life but charm charm charm chann that finds Its source its outlet In a mind that Is in- in at t toll nil t times mel |