Show Conic Come toTi to- to H J Ti A 4 HA VEN EAR T S El Ili A 11 Ll JL I k O With Betty Blair Affairs of ot the heart and kindred problems ONLY will win b bo be discussed w v In this department Letters questions and requests for tor advice should b be addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon tipon only ono one side of ot tho tao paper It t Is nece necessary uy that you append tho tao right namo name and address but these will be held hold In strict confidence and will by no means menns appear In Ju print Letters requiring personal reply must bo be accompanied by stamped elf ed envelopes Ed VACATION FRIEND Dear Miss 1 Blair Last summer sommer I worked In one of our national parks and while there met a girl I cant can't forget forlet She worked In the curio shop and she also ilan sang Rang in the evenings e for entertainment My ly job was one of much more menial character character character char char- acter but even so I was able on occasions occasions occasions occa occa- to make a present presentable ble appearance appearance appear appear- ance and talk to her She was a eel col college lege girl and I a 1 college boy though from different colleges In the state I have ha made bold to send her a card cardor or two tiso at holiday times expressing nothing more than the seasons season's greetings greet greet- los lags and the hope that summer might see sec us at the park once more She was good enough to reply both times but the cards were nothing ng- ng more than an acknowledgment of mine Then last week I received another card tellIng telling tell tell- In ing me mo that she did not have bave her old job back bak at the tho park but that she I hoped circumstances somehow sometime sometime some some- I time might bring us together again This has lus raised In me mc the hope that she might really bo be glad lad to see sec me mc Nothing NothIng- would give me greater pleasure plea pica sure than to look her up on m my wa way to the park She did not Invite mc me to come to see her but think I might ask her to let me do so PI Please case give me a favorable f answer GOT IT Surely you may ask your vacation friend If H you may not look her up Write her that you are going to be bo in her town on a 8 certain date and ask her l If she will wm take dinner with you Tell her to choose the place and the hour If It your stay In the town precludes precludes pre pre- eludes the dinner hour make it luncheon luncheon luncheon lunch lunch- eon or tea If It the town doesn't boast a nice hotel or restaurant you can make the Invitation one for a movie or a drive This will wm give you an opportunity to tell her that you will miss seeing her at the park this summer Tell her you'd like to hear from her and ask if you ou may write Tell her you will be taking snapshots of the old stamping grounds and that you'd like to send her some just to keep her herin herin herin in touch with the place This much will vill at nt least form torm a basis for a 1 warmer friendship or give her herl opportunity to either cither accept your your friendship or reject Il it If It another boy waits for her in the offing otting The kind of friendship you offer In the beginning begin ning should not need to be rejected however because of another boy But since nothing stands still its development development develop develop- ment meat will make you aware soon enough whether something more than friendship Is to follow PERSONALITY PRO PROBLEM LEDear LE Dear Miss 1 Blair I simply cant can't forget m my self con or my cuteness When hen I Igo Igo Igo go out oat and am all dressed up I think how cute cote I look and that Tom or Joe will surely notice me mo above nil alt the rest and that tho the other girls will envy me in my m- new dress How can I get over o this I will thank you jou OU from the bottom of my heart If It you ou can help me UNPOPULAR It Is this false attitude toward yourself yourself your your- self seU and what It really takes to make real popularity that drives people away from you ou No girl ever yet put on a pretty dress and kept thinking to herself How cute I look that she shedid shedid shedid did not loudly advertise her opinion of herself to everybody else It Is impossible to keep the ME LOVE opinion of yourself hidden from ob ob- ob servers It shows in the selfish expression expression ex ex- of your face in the intonation of your voice in the direction of your eyes And Arid as soon as others see cec how much you ou think of yourself immediately immediately imme immediately imme- imme you become your only ad ad- From that instant nt you arc not cute nor attractive in the least People People Peo Pee pie cannot think such thoughts of you YOI as The silly little conceited thing and at the same time have any admiratIon admiration admiration admi admi- ration for tor you You are arc in reality no longer cute even though you do think so yourself You arc are merely ridiculous And now that you know this can you ever n again aln think yourself cute You are arc also mistaken if it you think other girls arc are envying your our new dress They are arc not They are arc doubtless doubtless doubt doubt- less very thankful In their hearts that they can be popular in their old clothes if it they even stop to think of themselves this much and that they haven't this false notion that Is very apparent In your our behavior that clothes can possibly make so much differ differ- ence And now that you know how silly and ridiculous you have been and that hat others have seen it too the proper prop prop- er thing thine for you to do is to strive for forthe forthe forthe the real things that bring friends to a girl Be sure that you arc are neatly dressed for the occasion and then remind remind re rc- re- re mind yourself that you dont don't even cven want to see that silly little girl in intruding intruding in- in in your eur affairs again for the whole day If It you find at first that tha she keeps poking herself hersel Into your consciousness order her out and be begin begin begin be- be gin immediately to become very ac active active active ac- ac tive either at work or at play The TheREAL TheREAL TheREAL REAL YOU is a fine lne girl who should not tolerate the silly intruder Be friendly to other girls by showing show show- tog ing ng an interest in them in what they think about many things in which girls are active or interested Paries Parties Par Par- ties ies ties basketball tennis hiking photography photography photography pho pho- books There are so many real things in Ia life to engage your attention at at- that you haven't time to spend another moment thinking about the things that dont don't amount to a row of pins TO APOLOGIZE Dear Miss lIss Blair How can I let my girl irl friends know kno- that hat I am sorry for my past offenses to o other girls And how can I show them that I really want their friendship friendship friend friend- ship ie tell me inc how I can make make others less fortunate than myself happy VENUS There I it noth nothing like frank and andopen andopen open spec h to let your friends know exactly how you feel about anything Tell your friends that you have offended offended of- of fended other girls that you see now how now mistaken ken you were and get them to help you plan a way of making amends They will like you better for taking them Into your our confidence and md for your thinking that they are arc brainy enough to help you out of or the grief into which you have fallen You can cm be genuinely friendly to other girls less fortunate than yourself yourself yourself your your- self by talking to them in a friendly wa way offering to help them to make other friends Including them in your invitations to parties making them feel that they really belong and that you are arc not just patronizing them WEDDING BELLS ELLS Dear Miss Blair Last night I 1 dreamed I heard my myown myown myown own wedding bells beUs ringing ln I am still young oung and single Can you ou tell me what this means menns Many Man thanks WONDERING There are arc bel 3 In your beUr belfry If you ou believe the following quoted from froma a dream drem book To dream of wedding bells ringing Is a sign of or enemies working against you ringing them yourself quarrel with no one or you ou will regret It NOTE TO I A. A M. M We have a circular r giving reliable formulae for freckle bleaches which we wo will be p phased ased to send you ou upon receipt of a 1 stamped self addressed envelope 4 |