Show Come to to- to HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN HA VEN With With Hotly Belly Blair Affairs of oC the heart and kindred problems ONLY will be In this department Letters questions and r requests for tor should be bo addressed to MISS DEITY BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon tipon only one side of oC the tho paper It Is ts necessary ry th thA-t thA t you ou append the right name and address addre but thC these will bo ho held In strict confidence and will by no means ns appear In tn prink print print-Ed Ed THE CHILDS CHILD'S RESPONSE Dear Miss Blair Kindly settle this controversy Is IsIt IsIt IsIt It prop proper r for lor a child to say y Yes res maam and Yes sir Thank you yon OU MERRIE l MARIE The use of oC maam has none gone ou out ct Cr f style A boy and girl will sn say n Yes Mrs Smith A boy replying to a gentleman still uses the term of f sir Yes sir No sir I think so sir A girl docs does not say sir sir but uses the mans man's name Instead in- in stead Head No Mr Smith c UNWANTED ATTENTIONS S Jear car l Il Miss Blair I have ha been going coin s steady ady with a a. ahoy bo hoy for lor quite awhile and some day hope to be m married He Jle Is very ery rood good J looking and works work at a place where he lie has to be nice and md polite to o peo pro le Ie There are two girls Iris who cometo cometo come cometo to the place where he works and ask him to take them home They also call him up every day These girls seem to have everything everything every every- thing they want so now the they are af after after alter al- al ter him lie He doesn't want to take them hem home and he knows it U hurts me nie Last night I waited until everyne everyone every every- one ne had gone and walked out with him The girls saw us and went home I should like the opinion of other boys And nd girls Iris on the kind of behavior these girl gina exhibit ANOTHER DISGUSTED Do the girls who call caU each night for or your frIend know that he is keep keep- I Jag ing steady company with you Doubtless it would be a good plan for you to appear at the closing of his work daily for a time lime since it seems to be up to you to make them aware of this fact bet But it is hard to imagine that any boy has learned to to be so o polite to patrons of oC his working place that he cannot with little embarrassment escape two girls who appear and ask to be taken home It is really his responsibility to discourage their at atten at- at ten If he doesn't do so the second best thing is for the two of or you oU to ap appear appear appear ap- ap pear so o frequently together that the girls will lay off as it were cre creS S DOES FRIEND LOWER SELF Dear Dur Miss Ibs Blair I think a great deal of a certain boy bo- I always believed him to be bea a II fine line decent boy until I heard of him liin going out with a 3 girl who ho Isn't half haIr his equal He lie knows know what she Is and I cant can't understand Vh why he should lower himself to go 10 out with her Shall Shan I continue to allow him to togo togo togo go with me whenever he pleases es and also go 10 out with this other girl when he doesn't have ha a date with me LU People arc are judged b by their tastes Lu You judge this boys boy's character charac charac- ter because of or his taste in taking out the girl whom you ou think to be not Snot I half his equal Others will judge you for being seen with the thc boy I whose choice of oC companion is not appraised appraised appraised ap ap- ap- ap I praised at the highest standard This is not to say that the judgment judgment judg judg- ment meat of any of you will be correct Perhaps your judgment of the other girl is in iii the first place wrong It Itis Itis Its is s quite possible that your friend boy-friend is quite as decent as he was before he started taking out the other girl And by the same reasoning your character character char char- acter has not been harmed by your association with the boy since that time It Il ma may be that the reputation of or each will vill be assailed but you must not fail to distinguish between reputation reputation tation and character After AUer the manner man manS ner ncr of oC this reasoning you ou must make your our own decision CONVERSATION OF OFIE MEN IE Dear nur l Ii Miss s Blair I arrived from Irom France almost a n year ear ago 10 and now I write bel because use I am m lonely When I meet nice men the they smile and wink with themselves The They take me oat out again and yet yd an another another an- an other time and indeed they art are charming But Dut the they do not nol act so so natural with me as they do with the women of America With the women of America these thees C men talk Calk about music plays plas and md the things which I like to talk blk about But Dut with me the they only talk about the cabarets of or Paris and how drunken they have Lave got In France Why liy do they talk to me mt In this way I do not like it IU I am th thanking kID you ou FRANCAISE In the average I mans man's mind th the chief difference between France and America lies in the fact tact that here we have ha prohibition there the they have not their idea of ot a good time dTP when thc they go to France is to get Jet drunk They think 4 this is a Frenchman's Frenchmans Frenchmans Frenchman's French French- 7 mans man's idea of oC a 1 i. i I good time also They fail fall to realize it that French genn gentlemen gentlemen gen gen- J n ir I seldom eldom get Vt d drunk run k That a aI I Frenchman ta takes k e s 5 t his liquor leisurely leisure leisure- ly and that his idea of oC a gentleman gentle man Is a man who can hold his liquor liquor It would seem Francaise that you ou must cultivate the company compan of the ladies in fn order to hear the conversation conversation con con- in which your heart de do- lights American men races seldom talk about music plays or other subjects of value when they are by them themselves elves They talk BIG BUSINESS BUSINESS BUStNESS BUSI BUSt NESS depression or prosperity around the corner You must learn to talk these things in the American fashion Cashion when you are with men or else accustom yourself to the idea of listening to the stories of oC their inebriety when they were in your countr country Come Com again Francaise A BOYS BOY'S OPI OPINION ION Dear Miss Blair This letter Is really realty going foin to be a sonnet on a sonnet or words to that effect This little proverb I have hate used be before before before be- be fore in your our column tIne lie who sho finds pleasure In vice and pain In virtue virtues Is s a novice no in both does not Duty says Happy app know now what she has missed misled by not taking taking tak tak- in ing a drink now and again ain la 1 May I suggest gest that Duty Is a novice In the vices Ices of Df smoke and drink I have smoked about three years urs and I have been drinking much lon longer er than that I cannot notice any additional pleasure pleasure pleasure plea plea- sure or happiness has come to me rae from either habit As a 3 matter of fact I have ha almost entirely quit drink because of my growing contempt for It The pl pleasure asure of drink Is so 50 transient transient tran tran- and ephemeral A poet says trul truly enough And faith us lis pleasant pleasant pleasant plea plea- sant till past The mischief is that twill not last Personally I should much rather have a girl who drank and smoked a L little than Chan one with the qualities of Happy as u she shows them in her ber comments Having never touched drink or Dr smoke a person has hac little reason to feel leel superior It Is the person who has touched them and andun can un then leave them alone who Is commendable J F. F n II 11 THREE KITTENS Three lovely ely little kittens are arc meowing for new homes Which boy or girl Irl will get tel them first Call Can Hy or go to 1228 Harvard avenue 3 for lor them 55 |