Show I I E COME CO IE TO TOL L EART'S HA HAVEN VEN With BETTY BETT BLAIR will be discussed Ie 1 Affairs of th the heart rt and problems problem ONLY In this department addressed ed to top be t I should and 1 for advice z I Letters questions question SALT LAKE TELEGRAM MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN p only ono one side of the paper Write legibly upon address I but It Is necessary that you append the right name and these will be hold held In strict confidence Mid will bY bY bYno no means appear I Ha In print Ed I PULAR ULAR DISCUSSION RENEWED fir t Ml Blair flair Blair wonder if we could start a little ulon on necking 1 I have albeen al al- rj been of the opinion that neck 0 J was unnecessary There are arc so soy soly iny y ly things a young ayoung couple stepping together torether can can find to talk about if U they desire to spend a few e together after a dance beater eater some Interesting subject aly al- al y crops up and it Is not necessary It ut and neck Im I'm old fashioned but If m im Im I'm glad of it No Im I'm not old maid nor am I a married wo woo wooD n D Ti but a young oun carefree girl out to toWe We a good goode clean dean time Until recently I have Mn had bad no trou trou- B eat at all to keep from necking with withe D e boys I step out with I sometimes el at that they wait walt for a lead from frome I e 5 and If they do they never yet let It H. lout tout two weeks aro ago I happened to toi l i out with a boy I had just met out ut a month previously He lie was ferent from other fellows I hanen have han haven en n with and immediately upon upon o our r rival home began bejan necking I told el at how bow I felt feU about it and he at me mei The only way I could i him to stop was by telling him 1 M LI sorry lorry but I had to go 0 in I dont don't Ink I hurt his feelings feeling's b by refusing refusing- neck with him for he be has since Lied me on the telephone Miss Hiss Blair mI may w we have a discus discus- m n on this subject ct In your column would ouM like very ery much to let get the theas theas thel's as ls of the fellows and girls who do doeck eek eck what they think about it ft d 1 how bow they feel about it as well the Ideas of the fellows and md girls 10 are like myself and do not beVC beve be be- ve VC in necking Thank you ou B D. D U ar Miss Blair t have hare been going with a bo boy whom have v never regarded as anything t a friend We get ret along fine only one thin thing Occasionally when he Lags Ings me home he be wants wa to kiss kissI I good night I tr try to change the and sometimes even draw ay y 1 from him The reason for tor my willingness is that kissing between tween ends seems to spoil everything ever I allow him to kiss me Is Itty it ty for me not to If I do not let leta a kiss kin me me what shall I say t to him way of ot explanation r WET BLANKET ar Miss Blair I am zm just so fed up on boys I never at ett to see one again rain When the f of your Ideals turns out oat to tobe be be bet t t a a. common little necker It is ugh urh to turn one against them all ked ed this boy because I thought thouM heI he ho I different I went with him a anth aoth nth oth and he was as a a. perfect gentle gentle- J n who knew how to say good rood night gentleman should Then the theer theler ler er night he had to spoil It all by ting liD me in his arms and kissing in a disgusting manner I fought a It away a and d bolted into the house hout even saying good rood night I It 4 t had bad to spill spur over to someone It might as well be you yoo Miss Blair at ot you think it was perfectly hor hor- f him DS DISGUSTED GUSTED Ul UI U three thre letters in one maul mall All ll necker The writers te not In collusion They are girls mi rn different parts of the cit city and anda a check on on the directory shows im rn different stations in life They're Is with ideals they're girls with a deal of ot personality and pep as asir asir assir ir sir handwriting and their written show And they all have feeling that promiscuous neck spoils everything as one so soLly Lly put it and that it is an activity t t tto to be tolerated between friends fot ot one of these girls has said she s In love with with the the boy who offers intentions We doubt if it one them would object to the the- demon- demon aliens of love from the man with lom lorn she was in love And judging m rn this sudden and explosive out out- i it would seem that though a ent play announced in its title May Kiss according to pular vote neither strangers nor ends may do so and maintain a aLtUS altUS itus of ot friendly feeling Everybody knows s that there are areIs Is ls who kiss every man who asks them hem to Why cant can't boys distinguish between the two kinds of girls those girls those who vho will and those who wont won't Why cant can't they understand that a girl can cane be e a good pal a friend who interests a good sport too under all ordinary and nd respecting sell situations and that she he may not want this pleasant association association asso- asso spoiled by a sexy clement element that hat disgusts These same boys will be wanting a wife some day They will not choose her from among the girls whom they Key and every other boy have kissed There are girls whose attachment to tone toone toone one ne whom they love is strong enough that riat they're through with love If they cant can't have this particular one There are men with this same ardent nature Wouldn't it be a wonderful arrangement if H the two tv of one kind could find each other and leave the promiscuous ones to battle it out among themselves Hold to your Ideals girls You dont don't have to do anything any different to maintain the thc allure you will vill havo have because of your high standards for forthe forthe the he men who will some day come caine seek seek- lag ing ng your hands in marriage and no nother other ther explanation need be offered than han that you have offered here Say merely Lets not spoil a perfectly good friendship Any Apy boy who needs more nore explanation than this or in fact act more than your our act in drawing away way i Is a boor who need not be tolerated tolerated toler- toler ted as a friend attentions should hould at least be mutual even be be- tween those who are arc in love with each other ther PERSPIRING HANDS Dear Miss Mss Bl Blur Blair lr Will you you help me with a problem that hot has bothered the me me for some time My Hy hands perspire excessively No matter what I do by way of treatment I do not seem to be able to remedy this his Thank you for your our suggestion BILLIE An excellent preparation for keeping keeping keep- keep ing ng the hands free ree from perspiration during office hours is the following Tannic Tannin acid 2 drams glycerine 1 ounce toilet alcohol 2 ounces rose rosewater rosewater rosel water 3 ounces This lotion may be applied to the palms and b between tween the fingers ingers before one goes out in the morning and again at bedtime Another simple remedy for tor the woman woman woman wo wo- wo- wo man man in the home is an ounce of powdered powdered pow pow- dered alum m diss ved in one pint of hot lot water Allow to cool and use as asa asa ash a h wash which must be left to dr dry on two wo or thre times a day S TO UTO CHANGE THE TilE NAME Dear Miss Miss' Blair Please Ml ull me what the old saw aw is about marrying a man whose name begins b with the same letter as your our own D Dont Don't nt think I believe in the these e old superstitious us sayings but I 1 just want to Jo use It In fun luri Thank you yoo ENID To change the thc name and not the thele le letter ter is to change for for- worse and not for fot better beUer Is ls this the ad adage ge of ot which you are thinking FLOWER FOR JANUARY Dear Miss l Bl Blair lr Please tell me what the flower for is and what meaning It has Gratefully v JUST ME S Some me authorities ies say the c carnation ton is th the January flower and th that t it means means consolation others have it that th the January flower is the snowdrop and that that that-it it means purity purit NOTE TO P P. P Our Otar circular on Treatment of or Blackheads and Pimples will instruct you yon in the care and treatment of ot these facial l blemishes Send a stamped I self addressed envelope for it |