Show S COME C 01 m TOI TO I HEARTS HEART'S HA HAVEN YEN VEN i ii it ii i t i t j t. t with BETTY BLAIR BLAIR J Affairs of ot tho the heart henrt end kindred problems ONLY will wm b be discussed In this department Letters Lette questions and requests for tor ad vi co should be bo addressed d to MISS BETTY nErrY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one side of tho paper It i is 15 necessary that you append the right iamo and address but these thee will bo held In strict confidence and will 1111 by no means appear in print Ed Ed TOE TIlE GIRL HE TIE CA CANT CAN'T T FORGET Dear Dur Miss l Blair When I started In hi high school I was Wa very ory cry and md carefree I knew J was vas too young oun to bother my head heat about bont the opposite sex ex so everything went vent fine during durin my freshman year yea ear and the be first half of my sophomore year ear At Christmas time of my second second sec ond year ear I met a girl who wh Immediately threw herself herselt at m my head ead Like all nil the rest of the Hie boys bos I didn't want hr hr r because she was to too casy easy but toward vard spring I found m my self licit in love M with ith the girl She was as much muth In n love with m mas incas me inc meu as u I with her So much were we In Inlove inlove love Jove that hat we ve gave our complete confidence con con- to each other and vowed w wo we would never ne part For two years ears this hi continued then one summer I wen went away to work She was very sorry and nud said she would be true rue to o inc me She Sh J Is 55 two years ears younger than han I so I told oh her to go out and have o a goal time und and enjoy life Ute When hen I returned a month or tw two later and learned she had gone one ou out and nd found more pleasure elsewhere I 11 was angry and told old her I didn't care But Dut I couldn't stand that hat so then hen I told her that hat I really did love her This was not uncommon for we had told each cach other this his many times be be- tor Sore forr In about two weeks she came back and said she was sorry and wanted to go steady again I was desperately in love with her and gave aYe her every reason to know It It but just exactly n 1 month from that hat time she met another another an an- other bo boy from out of town and Immediately immediately Im im- im mediately fell In love with him But Butin Butin Butin in a short time he left town and she found out her feeling for him was only Infatuation and again she came back and begged forgiveness I thought this time she was sincere for fore forshe she he e even cven let me mc read his letters and stopped topped corresponding with him at my request nut Fut again as-aln I was mistaken for she for tor another mother man who shortly after left for a mission and with wih whom she still sUJI corresponds This time I said I was through h for good s but I knew I could not forget her However I got up enough courage rot not even to talk to o her at school and after nIter I J left school I didn't see her again for five fhe months When I did see her all ll my old love returned and I asked her for a date which she gave me inc We went together to to- gether for three months but she told old me inc she always compared me with other boys bos and found mo sue to be the most outstanding and trustworthy boy she had ever gone with yet et she said she couldn't lo love me use as she once onre had done She said if there were two ways was I Ito to love she sh-e knew them hem both boh for she he loved me one ono way and the boy on a mission another way wa- Now ow here is ismy my any problem Shall ShaH I continue my 01 friendship and courtship with this girl or shall shaH I leave her entirely Do you ou think her old love lo will return or orwill will her love lo for the missionary Increase increase In in- crease She has only gone with him hima a a. few tew times and doesn't know him ery very well Please help m ms me to decide MENDED HEART You will vill not forget this girl not in ina ina a lifetime The question is whether or not nol you are going to take steps to enjoy the hell you ou will have if it you win vrin her to swelter in the kind you jOU will have without her Its It's six of one and md hat half a dozen of the other Her emotions are unstable and will nih likely always be so to a certain extent even evenn n after ter she marries If she marries the missionary she will wish she had married you If she he marries you jOU she will sometimes pine for the missionary That is what loving two at the thc same time though in hi different wa ways s. s means But ButI I doubt i if you will ever know happiness happiness happi happi- ness without her You may find a peaceful kind of happiness with another another an an- other girl but there will never be the ecstatic heights of joy nor the depths of or despair that ll life e with the girl you Jou cant can't forget will bring Another woman may love you sincerely sincerely sin sin- cere devotedly agonizingly but bul even with your arms about her you will be looking off into space thinking of ot another And you cant can't deceive the woman you marry murry under these circumstances She will know anc ancher and her bel love may turn to bitterness Can you ever forgive yourself then thenor lor or not trying with all your effort to win the girl you truly love Love never remains the same from hour to hour from day to day or month to month It changes as all thin things s change but nevertheless it is love in inI I its various aspects This girl may never love you again in the same old way wa but we doubt if It she will ever cease loving you ou entirely Infatuation Infatuation tion dies and is lost forever love is isa isa a 3 quality that endures FACIAL BLEMISH DLE Dear Miss Blair I have a a. Vcr very noticeable Jon longish brown spot on my nose 1 I have tried trice to remove c It Jt with lotions bleaches anc and creams but to o no avail I first noticed this his mark- mark one summer when I vent wen away for a visit I hope you OU can tell el elme me how to o get rid of It IL BUBBLES Let a skin specialist determine whether or not this brown spot is a mole He can then tell you if Jt it Js s vise wise to remove it with the electric needle or by the use of ot caustics It I Is dangerous for you oU to apply home rem rem- dies edles without knowing what it is b and the he particular kind of or treatment it requires Cancers sometimes develop from rom such small beginnings If It it is nothing more than a stubborn freckle send end a stamped self addressed en en- elope for our circular on freckle Bleaches S VISITING CARD INVITATION Dear Miss Blair Will you kindly tell ell me for tor what occasions occasion a hostess may use her vis Is ting card for invitations Thank you MRS N. N A hostess correctly uses her visit visit- in ing ig card for invitations to an nn informal dance ance tea to meet a guest picnic ridge bridge or musical A CONFESSION Dear car Miss Blair Thank you Thank you ou for answerIng answer- answer i 1 Ins Ins- ng m my letter And now I have a con con- I to o make I gave ga you OC a fake name ame for my ray last letter I happen to o be the he boy In the case who left his girl Irl But I did not leave without a word vord I called her New Years Year's eve and nd told old her I might not see her gain again I thought that would be a er very good g time ime to start over I say start over vcr because because well never ever mind You said In n your reply that she he would be granting the boy a privilege to let him come back There Is more truth than ban poetry in that hat old dear I Jit U would be a veryl very l Iff s- s sl r l' re e eat a at I privilege I Why Because for lover over a year ear I went V I with her trying to toI o oI j I I break up all the he heime J I time ime and still caring car car- I ing more for tor her herI I I than I would be t willing to admit to o anyone anyon t Now ow that you you understand this his may be an entirely c p Pr differ different nt party part so soI soI I think it would be rather unwise to togo togo togo go back begging forgiveness like a a. crawler She may laugh at me for thinking that It was washer her fault at all Sh She might even think that mt I was s getting stuck on myself Wouldn't that be swell Not much I have hL worked 12 hours today and andIs It Is now 1 a a. a m. m and I J have to o concentrate concentrate con con- to write a sensible letter P Perhaps you think hink It is nonsense Im I'm wondering if I am playing the he fool wondering If It the girl who wrote you ou ouIs Is the girl I am thinking of always Good night WONDERING I didn't expect a public confession like kc this old thing But dont don't think for or a minute that you jou fooled your Aunt Betsy I had to use my eraser I frequently on my reply to your our letter lettero to o change the to hes But ut maybe its it's just justs justas as s well that you ou have lave unburdened your our heart for now ow we can talk quite freely After all there Isn't so much more moreo to o be said If It you ou love ove her and she loves oves you ou what more is there to todo too do o than to tell each ach other about it She sits alone wondering wh why you OU dont don't come You cant can't even read your newspaper right side ide up for thinking of her Why not end nd the misery and the mystery too so Life is so short love is so long that hat unless the two somehow get mixed up together together life life and love lovewell love love- well veil what's the use of living Why not tell her so I 1 promise you she wont won't laugh except for joy of seeing you again |