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H Hearts Heart's Haven With BETTY ETT BLAIR p k mm k mm m 4 DREAM f OF HAPPINESS GONE mm Bear Ww Miss Albs Blair Will you pl please help me with m my May I also have ha the Opinion blon of some of your readers renders who h e had similar r experiences Two y years yean ars ago my husband and I were J married d at the I 19 happy go Ju lucky ky care re free tree and nd popular But oh such short lived happiness JuSt a S aY Y year ago o our r started A I month before our bab baby was wa born my husband left me rue Girls lured him bim away I W was desperate I didn't know what to do so I signed a Do warrant 10 have him brought back to meet ex expenses ex- ex pe h I wasn't In the house houe e when he made his quick decision to come He ile took everything he owned and I ha had hadDO 3 no DO warning at aU all I knew he had been going out but at t the time I didn't know he had been stepping with girls iris I asked concerning his hh going out once and he be informed me mc it was none of my rity business I felt It would be selfish for me rae to Insist Of course It was impossible because rf my ray condition to go with him but eh lIh how It would hurt to have him kiss me goodbye and go to dances I really enjoyed dancing more than he did After each dance he would ct as 3 If II nothing had happened and treat me fairly well around the house I kne knew that he never never had want wanted babI babies and that he was not happy over the realization that we wo were to toh h have ve one o After he had bad left with his hb things I Idid dJ did not see him again until we were In court He was a broken man nun and pleaded for another chance to make makel good After some time I forgave forga him but bot the love loyc and dreams of happiness happiness happi happi- ness ue-s were gone rone We have lived together almost a year yur and ad for a time it seemed we could make our dreams come true after all But in the last month everything has Ius fallen through again moro noro completely than before His ilLs Hist t boy friends are claiming his attention When I ask to go 0 with him to the dances he says If they dont don't go ro Ill I'll come back and get you b but t he never does H He Be also says to tome tome me mr How can cnn I take you Who would take care of the baby I 1 lie aw awake e until the early hours of ot the morning crying and feeling bad until he comes crawling in We live e in a small town and everybody everybody every every- body knows he is stepping They look 3 at t me roe as if to say the matter with Ut you that you yon cant can't hold your husband Oh it hurts down do deep He has gone away now to get geta a job I have a feeling that he will tend lend for me but its it's going to be hard to go o back now I Ita have ve lost all aU faith In him I dont don't trust him and my 10 lose lo e and md respect too are arc gone goneI goncI I for forgave ve 1 him m before but I feel that it is asking too o much for me to forgive him again and aIn and yet ct there is the tho baby to consider I sometimes think k that even en the baby would be better off orr without the environment of his own father who is no longer kind and has not even the patience a father should have ha With all aU the worries and responsibilities I have ban had I am under weight and feel like ilke an old woman but he is just the same sam good looking man I married Shall I forget and forgive again arain DISCOURAGED If young Oung people could on only I realize before marriage that married life is not a continuous Joy ride if 11 they would come to a unity of decisiOn n before marriage on the vital problems connected with married life such as that of having children much of the disillusionment that follows human failures could be avoided At least they would be more prepared to meet the exigencies of marital discord with an armored spirit Your difficulties are great great great-great- great greater I er than usual Ill I'll ad admit t yet the greater the trouble the r more will your our ingenuity be challenged to meet the Ule game of life Without throwing off of all the responsibility attached to w the marriage game you too should adopt something re resembling your our husbands husband's lucky happy-go-lucky attitude toward life liEs His philosophy has kept him young oung and gay yours was worn you out He clings to his friends you ou have let yours ours go He g goes s out and keeps In touch with life He you ou have limited your our life me to the four walls of a house You will possibly never again find the happiness of which you jOU had dreamed with your husband yet happiness happiness hap hap- Is not bound up In human be beIngs beings beings be- be ings but within the region of your own heart and the multiplicity of interests in interests interests in- in life Ute holds out to you J if you but knew it Shortly your our baby will not be needing so much constant at attention at- at Look ahead to the years when he can take care of his own physical comforts while you prepare your mind and heart to give him the mental and spiritual uplift he will need Groom yourself both In body and mind Keep up appearances Life In any walk you may choose will present hardships One difficulty overcome O gives that much more preparation preparation prep prep- to meet the advancing on on- slaught staught And one had Just as well learn to l laugh ugh at life as to weep over it it for there Is no escape If you are a alighting lighting soldier Stand by little woman wo wo- wo- wo man Its It's In you ou to hold your our own Know that this Is true and half hal your our battle is won Then fill fm your life Ufe with so many other Interests that your our husband will come Ome seeking you ou that he will consider consId r It a privilege to have your companionship HE liE LEARNED IllS HIS LESSON Dear Miss Ibs Blair A few years ago I would have sympathized sym sym- fully with other boys who said ld they were disgusted with life lIte I However for the past St two years jears I t. t i I Attain Affairs of the henrt and kindred kindred kin kin- dred problems problem ONLY will be discussed dis cussed sed In ID thiS department 0 Letter Letters Que questions and r requests request p for tor advice should be addressed d to MISS BETTY ETrY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S S H HAVEN A V EN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE LAK Write Writ legibly upon only one side of or the paper It Is necessary that t you append f the right name and address but g these will be held beld In strict confidence confidence con con- and nd will b oy Dy no DO means appear appear appear ap ap- ap- ap pear in print print Ed S h ha e ave been going around a lot and I have discovered th that t there are members mem- mem bees bers jers of the fair sex cx x worth taking a tumble umble for I think if It some me of these dl disgusted fellers would forget torget their disgust and overcome their prejudice they would have a lot more fun and get much more out of life WISER Youre You're right Wiser People who adopt the negative side of life remain kill Joys to themselves and to everybody everybody everybody every every- body else There Is trouble everywhere everywhere everywhere every every- where Just as there are disease germs everywhere Only those who have havethe havethe the he proper resistance to these lences are Immune to their ravages The ability to laugh at trouble is la one way of setting up the proper kind of resistance TO ENTERTAIN CHILDREN Dear Miss 1155 Blair I am ant an elderly woman whose two nieces ages 9 and 11 are coming for or a n months month's visit My problem Is Islow how low I may entertain them J 1 I dont don't go out much and they are vivacious children hildren who do n not t like to stay In Thank you for your our suggestion MISS J. J Invite children of your our friends t to me meet t your our nieces Children need no particular form of entertainment when there are other children with whom to play They arc are spontaneous ous Otis and Informal In their manner of getting acquainted The games of childhood arc are known to all children the he world over with but slight varla- varla lons Just give children the opportunity opportunity to w play and they will find Und a away away wa way to understand each cach other and have a good time An occasional movie with the subject matter well chosen hosen afternoon tea parties where the children themselves provide pro or make their own refreshments refreshments how how they hey love to make summer beverages and nd small cakes cakes cakes-an an afternoon o occasionally occa- occa a- a at the home of their newly found friends a visit to the parks and nd the zoo and the school playgrounds playgrounds play play- grounds and a sightseeing tour of the he city and what more could an any child hild ask BOY WANTS TO DYE HAIR Dear Miss Blair I am a boy of 18 and the unhappy victim of red redhair hair I am vex vexed sorely by y being termed carrot I wish to toye dye ye my hair I have blue eyes and a fair air complexion Would you OU be so kind as to suggest sugg a color and a abrand abrand arand brand rand CARROT Not if I am ani to remain your our friend Carrot for more sorely will you ou be vexed as a young man having to meet the he Jibes of ot your our friends who know your hair Is dyed and by the nuisance ot of f keeping It dyed than you now are arey by y being termed carrot Nope I cant can't do It Carrot I I would lie he awake nights thinking of the low deal I had handed you Rather would I 1 have you dye your our disposition to a color olor that will meet the thoughtless but harmless harmleS remarks of your friends with laughter and a good Joke at atour your our own expense Make a search for forill ill all all all' the funny stories about carrot tops ops you can find and tell them to the he boys when they twit you Get a kick out of ot beating them to their own game Soon the epithet good sport will so far outweigh that of carrot that hat even the significance of the later latter lat lat- lat lat- ter er will be for forgotten And youve you've no idea dea how much many girls love red redhair redhair redhair hair NOTE TO JACK There is b from 1 to 20 2 cents premium premium pre pre- on the 1838 penny Write the Numismatic Co Fort Worth Texas concerning catalog catalog- and redemption of premium |
