Show 0 Come Cometo to i arIJs I With BETTY BLAIR I Wih BETY BLAR J I JEALOUS DISPOSITION Dear Miss Blair I am sin 16 3 years ear cars old and cry cr much in inlove love Io with wih a a bo boy of oC 18 e Were been going go ing together for Cor ten months arid and we never quarrel Quare It I c ms we are arc just jut made for far each cach other But Bat here Is I m my problem I am very nr jealous and though we dont don't quarrel about It I It J I Ionly only makes make us u very ver unhappy for Cor me inc meto meto to be so 50 I love him far tar too to much to t allow alow such a trivial thing as a jealousy to lo conic come cone between us Not to change chane the subject or any any- thine like that please tell Sheik I think he is 15 a con conceited fop top and I hope some day a hennaed head hrad will mi take the conceit out of or him DOTTIE In I women as a rule jealousy oper operates ates In a less le brutal and ad devastating way than it does in 10 men but what it i lacks acks lk in brutality It compensates t s forIn forin for forn In n keenness of penetration and In beng be be- be ing ng less les amenable to t reason When Jealousy manifests itself Itel in brutality of word or action aton it is i generally because be cause cu one Is mistrustful of or the be beloved loved oved but if 1 it manifests Itself Itsel weakly It t Is because its Jt origin is mistrust of at oneself of or ones one's oes oe's charm and capacity to retain affection Th ThI latter is I the themore themore more mor painful sort since It has a n t tendency tend nd ency to strengthen the Inferiority complex comple and ad to crush the individual on whom it makes make its iLs ravages or Of all al the diseases of the mind jealousy Is that to which most things serve as food foo and fewest as a remedies wrote Mollere Moliere Nothing Is too impossible impossible sible or too low for the jealous person to o attempt He le loves his Jealousy l keeps It burning by groundless evidence evl evi dence and often oren acts act as a If 1 he would hate late to be deprived of It It And because because be cause Jealousy is i one of the primitive urges of man older In fact than man mant it t is incurable One can cn however learn earn 1 outward control which is i absolutely absolutely as necessary If 1 one expects expect expect to reain re tam tai ain the love of the one toward whom the he Jealous shafts sat are arc directed There is nothing which so quickly destroys love ove as misdirected Jealousy and it is rated by court Judges and others who have studied the problem as the first of all al matrimony wreckers The only way to supplant Its It far reaching devastation is deliberately to o fill fU your our mind with other thoughts and with activities that will 1 induce other thoughts If I your our Jealousy is i caused through fear that you have hae not all the charms charl you should pos pos' possess ess sess to retain the affection of the beloved belo go out and buy yourself a anew anew new ha hat hat or a a charming frock frock There Is i nothing like lkc something new nevI to add to the flame lame of at a oman's v omans vanty van van- iy ity ty and a certain certai amount of or vanity is isan isan isan an essential quality of every ever woman Or if i he is i the kind to whom menal mental men men- tal al attributes lay most claim read rea a anew anew anew new and interesting book bool and talk about it Or brush up on the activity in which he is most interested Give I yourself a pat on the back just for fora a little boost and ad your jealousy will wi in the light of ot our begin to disappear your own vanity Sometimes one has ha to set et one fire tre against another to extinguish extin the greater geater flame ame BITES FINGER NAILS Dear Miss Blair Blar I have Mis the very cr bad of biting my finger nger nails nans Please tell me how I can stop doing this this I have been biting bing them for tor years and my fingernails fingernails finger finger- nails are becoming ugly and stubby uD D H. H I. I Nail biting Is often oten caused through nervousness Na When one tries tres to do more than one has h the strength to todo todo too do o easi easily too much worry or too much work and responsibility one feels eels restless restes and dissatisfied hence not mentally well poised Take more rest rt relax more often exercise In the open air and the need for nervous nee outlet will wi disappear In I the case c of children some bitter tasting drug dug like le bitter aloes is sometimes painted on the fingernails to break the biting habit Stiff finger finger finger fin fin- ger shields may also als be used to protect protect pro- pro the nails na The Te girl or 01 woman who bites her Ups lp or gl finger nails nai can only be b cured through her own determination Knowing this one subject to such habits habis should soon son be able to t develop sufficient will wt power to break them As A a a reminder you might at first fit fittry try aloes aJos ry dipping the fingertips in i bitter JEWELS IN hARt HAm Dear Miss Mis Blair I have fair taIr fluffy ury hair hir which Is getting rather long but not long enough nough yet ye to do in a knot on my neck I can cn take care of or it i in the daytime O. O K but for evening wear I scarcely know kow hat what to do with wih it i t as s a bobble pins and other devices device seem cem not exactly to t correspond with an n evening e dress Please instruct me meas mes as s to what you think I should do Thank you jou 00 VANGIE To ch choose e the right jewels jewel for tor the lair hair ha is I not as easy casy for the thc young girl girls gl glas as s It Is i for the thc matron However there here are arc Jewels to harmonize with every very type typo of personality and It is isome i some ome of or these you will n need ed to complete complete com corn e the perfect evening ensemble For the lair fair fluffy futy haired hared type twin J jeweled clips to hold the hair at the he sides of or the head hea are appropriate For the sleek haired girl who wears weS her hair brushed brushe to outline t the shape of her head hen the bandeau style sape Jewel should hould be chosen Worn Vorn across aro the theop top op of the head he and ad down at the sides Ides side the te bandeau bandeu scintillates diamand diamand dia- dia te mand bright flashes ashes of light liht that are alluring The sophisticated girl who wears her hair ha in a a low chignon comb should choose choe an a elaborate gem s set gem ETIQUETTE HINT Dear Der Miss Blair I Will Wi you pl please c tell teU me inc whether or I 0 Affairs cf Gt tho heart heat and kindred kin kin- In dred problems ONLY will wi be dis disS discussed dis- dis S cussed in this department 0 Letters Leter questions and requests 0 for or advice should hould be addressed to 0 MISS MIE bETTY BLAIR HEARTS HERTS I 0 I HAVEN V EN TELEGRAM SALT 0 LAKE Write legibly upon only 0 ono side of ot the paper I 0 It Is la nc necessary r that Ihl t you append 0 tho right name and address ss but bat o I oI I these tee will wi be held In strict confidence con con- I 0 0 and will wm by no means muns ap appear ap- ap 0 pear par In print E. Ed t I not it I is I proper for foe a woman to arise are when another woman enters enter the room What does the host hostess do when guests Jest arrive who do not know everybody everybody every every- I bod body present Thank you for the information MRS J. J A young oung woman woma rises when an el elderly elderly el- el derly woman enters enter the room rom alone aone The hostess extends her hand In il greeting to t the guests as the they ar ar- ar- ar rive rire She Introduces them to those toe whom they do not know kow The Te guests get acknowledge each introduction in turn tu If I the gathering is very large lage it Is not that the necessary all al te guests meet each eh other but everyone present present pre pre- pres pres- ent must be Introduced to the honor guest Guests Gue under the same hospitable has hos pi pIt able roof may speak seak to each other without being formally introduced FRECKLE BLEACH Dear Der Miss Blair Bair I have ha e freckles freckle on my f face e neck and arms Will ViI Wi you please tell tel me what to do to get rid of oC them as they are very cr large and very yer embarrassing embarrass embarrass- sIng s- s ing ROSY ROS 1 Kindly send a stamped ad self a- a dressed envelope envelop for our ou circular on freckle bleaches Formulae are given for the removal of light and ad stubborn freckles |