Show ome io I HEART SHAVEN 0 Affairs of the heart and kindred problems ONLY will trill be discussed ills dis cussed In this department 0 Letters questions am ane requests for advice should be addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Writ legibly upon one side of the paper It is necessary that you yon append the right name and address 0 but these will be held in strict confidence and will by no means appear In print print Ed TO MAKE INQUIRY OF LOVE Dear Miss Blair but I don dont don't I I love Ilo a boy very dearly dearl know whether or not be he loves me AH MI my girl friends tell me he be lo cs me but I dont don't know for sure I have been goIng g with this this' not boy not bo-not not steady for two years ears Will wm you kindly ly advise ad ld vise me whether I should ask him hint If II he loves I dont don't feel that It is ism ismy ismy m my place to tell ten him first that I love him him but I d do Thanking you ou J 1 M. M 0 O. I S You dont don't seem to realize how frank franka a girl can be in these days about telling tellIng telling tell tell- ing a man that she likes him You Youcan Youcan Youcan can convey to him the kno knowledge led e that you cu think he is wonderful and ind still remain a a. perfect lady But until you ou also have an nn inkling that he thinks a great deal or of you it Is a risk to use the word love lo to convey con con- vey your feelings In a case where the use of the word connotes a feeling feeling feel feel- ing lug to be dealt with in connection with an avowal of love and a proposition of marriage most boys prefer to make their own use of the term and to do their own proposing On the other hand where two friends g genuinely love each other with a deep and abiding affection and no thought of marriage or of oi any relations save sa those of friendship friendship friendship friend friend- ship exists between them it is th often the case that a woman tells such a friend that she loves him She may love lo him without being in love with him There must be a perfect understanding understanding understanding under under- standing between t two o where t terms o oJ of such affection arc are used There must be no mistake as to their limited meaning In your jour own case if you have not already alread come conveyed cd to your friend the idea that you ou think he is your our type par excellence it Is time you ou began by the subtle means of which eVe every woman knows to make him aware o olof ol of of ot the fact Make it a a. rule to pay him one sincere compliment each time you see sec him from neckties to tc the turn of or his nose se or the cut of his hair The method of or substitution is sometimes effective as an incentive to a young man to declare his af at- at Let a a. girl spend an occasional occasional occa occa- evening or two with some other other oth oth- er cr young oung m man n. n and nd 1 if he is not the kind who Just naturally does a fade fadeout fadeout fadeout out when a rival appears upon the scene he will likely go to the other extreme and stage stige a grand coup to show how much more he thinks of the girl than does the other fellow You must adapt your our methods to the nature of the case in hand PATIENT NEEDS AMUSEMENT Dear Miss 1 Blair I wonder If It you will advise adise something something some some- thing with which I can amuse my my- self elC I am sick in bed and the hours pass so slowly Also please tell me menow how now much I should weigh I am 13 yea years s old 5 feet 1 inch tall taU What colors should I wear I have light lightbrown lightbrown brown brown hair blue eyes and md not too many freckles PAL PALS S While WillIe you ou are lying g in hi bed you youcan youcan ou can take imaginary trips aro around rid the world Pal With maps from old geography books mark marIe out each da cach days day's s travel tra with a pencil Then with the knowledge e you already have o of geography or with extra knowledge gained by reading write letters to your friends de describing the cities clUes you visit the people the streets amusements amuse amuse- ments ments everything everything of at interest your imagination can conjure up Add drawings to your descriptions to further further fur fur- ther Uler illustrate Make and dress dolls in costume to represent the natives cs of various foreign countries These may maj be made inexpensively ine of cast castoff castoff off ort silk hose and other pieces of cloth The faces aces may be made of white tinted with water colors or gay embroidery embroidery em em- for eyes eres hair pink cheeks Wouldn't the little patients In the ward at the St. St Marks Mark's hos hos- pital or in the Childrens Children's hospital love to see ee some of the results of jour your labors not labors not only the letters but the th dolls In addition to this pastime there is much other reading you may maydo maydo maydo do from books book your our friends may bring from the library Make drawings designing some of or your jour own costumes In colors blue green warm browns black white orange and j yellow ellow Also lovely prints combining colors that harmonize When Then you are arc well you should weigh about pounds INTERPRETATION OF DREAM Dear Miss Blair Will you please Interpret this dream for Cor me Ive I've dreamed it twice and andam andam am nfl anxious to know the meaning I dreamed of someone who ho has been dead for three years I see him alone and in a crowd Then he becomes ill UI illand and dies and I can see him in his hb casket cas ket ready for burial What docs does this mean Th Thanking you JUST A DREAMER What did you rou eat for dinner on the nights before you had this dream Dreamer Ill I'll wager it was some some- thing that gave you ou indigestion HOWever However How How- ever dreams are interesting In Some o of them hem are so vivid as to seen seem to ac actually ac- ac have happened and others appear appear appear ap ap- ap- ap pear to be warnings People in all ages have been Interested in dr dreams ams and their interpretations Napoleon and the Empress Josephine bell believed lin in n dreams Joan of Arcs Arc's dreams saved France I But interpreters differ as to the meaning of dreams In regard to your own one interpreter says to dream of a casket means serious illness ill ill- ness loss of a sweetheart or member of the family Another interpreter sa says s 's to dream of or one dead means that the he dreamer will wUl receive good news from the living And still another To dream o of the dead means a marrIage marriage marriage mar mar- in the near future Sometimes it is a warning and the dreamer should be careful especially in re regard regard regard re- re gard to marriage Seldom is it a mistake mistake mis- mis take to wait until you ou are arc sure of yourself regarding marriage Dreams are supposed to go by contraries Happy dreams denote that unhappiness ness nelS s will wm follow and vice versa We hope you will not take this attempt at Interpretation too seriously DISTANCE OF DINNER PLATES Dear Miss Blair To settle an argument please pIcas tell me how far apart dinner plates should be placed Thanks MAID Two feet from tro plate center to plate center is ls the correct distance for the placing of dinner plates teaspoon lemon extract 1 cup sour milk mUk 2 cups flour Jour 1 teaspoon soda Cream fat and sugar Add rest of ingredients Beat three minutes Pour into shallow pan fitted with waxed paper Bake 30 in moderate oven Cool and frost Bettina Frosting Two cups light brown sugar 1 cup I milk mUk 1 tablespoon butter 1 teaspoon vanilla 2 1 cup broken nuts Mix sugar milk and butter butt r. r Cook over moderate fire and stir frequently frequently fre Ire I until soft wet ball forms when small portion is slowly poured po into cup of cold water Set aside for 20 minutes Add vanilla and beat until until un un- til cream creamy Spread on top of cake Sprinkle with wilh nuts |