Show p hi BAVEN iA BETTY 0 0 S Affairs of the heart beut and kindred problems ONLY will be discussed dIscussed disS dis dIs- S cussed in this department Letters que questions ant an and requests ts for advice should be bc addressed S to MISS 1 BETTY BErry BLAIR Ls HEARTS HEART'S IIA HAyEN YEN SALT SALTS S LAKE LARE Write legibly upon on oni I. I one side of the the paper S It is 15 necessary that you append the right name and address addre s 0 but these will viII be held in strict confidence and will by no means appear in print Ed I. I FEELS OUT OF PLACE Dear Miss 1 Blair I am 18 years old and have hac gone with boys for a number of or years but bu butI I always ahva's feel out of place with them How can I overcome this weakness JERRY Maybe that which you oU call caU your our weakness is your greatest strength Jerry But lets let's not be bc too pessi peas The trouble is probably that thit you do not think of boys as belongIng belong belong- Ing hg to the same human species as yourself You think of them as having hayIng hav- hav ing ng different likes and dislikes or at least east inclinations that it would be Impossible for you to understand You think they would not be able to o understand you If It your our acquaintanceship with bo boys s 's was based on friendliness to be begin begin be- be gin gln with on common Interests in recreation and work you ou would not feel out of place with them Try to discover the interests of boys with whom you OU go and if they give you an opportunity talk about the flair you have for certain things The Interests people have ha in common common common com com- mon brings them to a n common understanding un un- with each other LOYERS' LOYERS QUARREL Dear Miss 1 Blair I have been going with a a. girl gin for quite awhile and I am very much in inore inlove love e ore with her But we wc had a quarrel and broke up How V can I get her herback herback back again ajain ROSY Whose fault was it that you OU quarreled quarreled quarreled If It yours go to her and offer a apology If hers take the blame and tell teU her youre you're sorry More than one man has had It to do and you had Just as well get your training early If It she doesn't forgive you ou after after af- af ter er the third time youve you've told herIt her hert It t was wasill ill your fault and that she is s an angel leave her entirely alonet alone It t will be then when she thinks she has lost you that she will begin to realize what a nice boy you ou are after all She will then call caU you ou on the telephone and ask you to come to her house on some pretext or other Dont Don't begin to forgive her all aU at once for she will only be bc nice to you sc so long as she thinks she cant can't get you ou And It will be lucky y for you ou if she doesn't forgive you any anyone one of the three times you OU ask her for i if she does she will treat you more or orless less lees like a mop stick PAL IS RIVAL Dear Miss Blair A year ago I went with a a. boy whom I liked a great gnat deal Then his pal came along and I liked him too One night my friend accused me of liking ilk lik lug ing his pal better beUer than I did him He Re said if I 1 had a chance to go with his bis pal I would We quarreled and h b broke broe k up and d since tl that th time I h have vc I I been going with his pal But I dc do not like him nearly so 50 much as I did the first bo boy I IThe The boy with whom I broke told old his sister to tell me mc that he didn't mean to say what he be did It just jus slipped sUpped out Why didn't he tell me sac that himself Every now and again h ii h. h throws little slams at me Do you yon think he docs does this just for revenge e Shall ShaH I try to forget him hina entirely or how shall I go about it to get him back SORRY If you jou paid more attention to Pal than was becoming in a young lady who had a nice nce friend you deserved some punishment No boy likes tobe to tc tobe be made to feel that his best girl thinks more of some other boy You arc lucky that something more malignant malignant ma ma- didn't slip sUp out If he wants want to make friends again he will welcome welcome welcome wel wel- come your invitation to your our house with other friends for a small party part And if you ou show him a n kindly favor or two more than you ou do others but not so the others will see well we-lI nobody nobody nobody no no- body can blame you OU If he hc makes es no move to follow this up either by inviting you to go to the movies or by making some other date you had better try to forget him But what do you suppose Pal PalIs Is going to be doing all this time Maybe your bird in the bush isn't a m valuable even when caught as the bird you hold In your our hand You Yot must have a little foresight You ma may maj not really like the first boy best II It Itis is always the unattainable that seem the most worthwhile Dear Miss l Blair We have bave not written to you OU heretofore here here- but on March 25 25 there was aletter a aletter aletter letter in your jour our column signed Pete Tele 1 Repeat which we uc arc are often called by many of our friends Naturally we thought nothing of oC it assuming that there arc are others who have ha those nicknames However Jowe since receiving reech-Ing a Do clipping dipping of this lila same article from sonic some unknown person we feel called upon to express es In the thc first place we did not write this letter letter let let- ter and feel that it was very vulgarly arly written and cannot conceive of how anyone would write such Your answer answer an an- was very cry good There arc many sides to the question then under discussion discussion dis dis- dis and everyone has a right to his point of view few We Wc do not wish to take up a lot of space expounding on the matter maUer as it has already been thoroughly discussed However er we wc should consider it a favor if you would print this leU in your col- col col col- hun for br the benefit of ol the person or persons who deemed it necessary to sign our names to such a letter Jetter which was entirely uncalled for As for breaking in our own nn men Miss liss Blair dont don't you jou ou think they should leave that as a matter for our consideration consideration consideration con con- TilE THE REAL REI PETE AND REPEAT We have previously had letters signed Pete and Repeat so if it itou you ou have not written before there are others using the same nom de plume Perhaps the clipping came from friends know knowing In your soubriquet And after all aU the letter expressing views on the single married girl man controversy In which Pete and Repeat Repeat Repeat Re Re- peat preferred to break in their own was not unacceptable ant and added added add add- ed eel spice to the column We su suggest gest that you think no more about It it |