Show r. r r 1 a r I q r Letteri a and question or ith department department should De d rt to MI Heart Haven Salt Silt Lake ran Write Writ only on Con on one an Ids hf of r the piper paper It is II ne ary to append and address but butth th thes thure M are heidIn confidence and will will not be b. Loit and fount found notices or o words to songs o po poem ml cannot be pu published In the MISUNDERSTANDINGS rT DiNO I IN t D car M Mut MII Bler- Bler r f Heart Hat Haven but is the the- first time I have attempted at at- tempted to e 1 I hope hops Lam Iam wel- wel ml l am 16 A year ago in ia- August J I t very veryl nice nce fellow of 1 11 I Started d going going with him Mm and nd did cUd ao so bout two months month Tjien hO he was with ith pneumonia and d was was fo four months th I didn't know bo bout t thia thi but thought just dropped me me Afterwards Afterward however W. W met an and nd f I began gan going gon together again and arid 1 I 1 have havi been bun going with him ever since inc until about three week wilke ago 4 a a number numb bf f. f happen About Abo t three thre I days daYI before school started he ho went I i for a we week k The rho night r fter he returned tie he came to see me me mi I c n riot not t go fo for a n ride rid with him ohe he n made nde madea de a 1 date for the n next t night which was was ws Friday Frida I wen went with him an and l he hi in made de dates for both Saturday he was Vas was coming flown down just for fora while and Sunday He didn't keep either S Saturday or 01 Sunday and has ha m made d n no excuse or apology or apology I saw saw him at t matinee dance at high hiah school chool and acted ed peeved peeved- but t I danced with him and let him take me me mo home I. I ex expected expo ex- ex po ted him to ta u say icy something about me but buthe he I thanked hint him for foi bringing ing me nie me home horne and walked k d right into nto the house I H H. H cams um arn down the thO next two rights nights but I was away sway Again I didn't see him for fo a week until last lait night My Mx girl friend and 1 I had hadd d decided ri ed to go go t together to R a a dance in in our ward At M the last minute shee she abC e couldn't g go so I went alone lone When hm h. became came to ask me me for a a dance I treated him rather coldly codly I supposed up pose r I I cant can't decide His Hi boy friend asked m rne n. wh t was the matter and I I 1 told him He said was worried M 1 had the fourteenth dance with him and nd nd as as fate would h have vI it the th last one I 1 want to go home honie with him because e I I 1 dont don't want him to think he list has has has' the right Bright to luf me me But h lie rhe got got my my coat and purse pur and asked me mc and L I aia Maybe A As we ve we w were re waiting for fo his il boy bay friend another nother fellow came and asked m me mei I didn't know what to say lay so I 1 ended by saying No I 1 h have ve a d date te Do I you think I did right or n not U Well anyway I went home with th the thi door with y He walked to me Pie and I asked him Mm why he wasn't going to school He look looked d rather embarrassed and end told m mb mo ho had to togo togo togo go back tb to junior junor high for another half year I ha havo o let him kiss me good night a few tim times time's s and he hew w wanted to last night but I turned my hu head He asked me what was wu the matter matt and I said laid Nothing He H. insisted that that there was and I 1 told tord him he couldn't expect me m. to act act the same samo after he had nii me He didn't make an explanation or 01 when he couldn could apology but asked n see me me again I said I didn't know thanked him for bringing me homo home and walked Int into the house D Do you think he will come down again agin I Jike like him very much and want to go with v him hm again gain Mother likes him hima a great deal because he ho is ii such luch a clean fellow What shall I 1 do to tog g get him thim back buck Do 00 you think I ought not not to have come coma home with him M. M Maybe be I was too hasty Do you think so ao I hope I haven't broken all th the thi rules and I wish you you suc sue cei cess Ces PUZZLED Now all this thit irregularity of ot ac- ac on the part o of your OUI friend that lids luts been ns os clear dear as mud to you 1 0 Is like a crystal costal ball to to anyone anone who wilt will stand aside Ide and look at the panorama In a detached manner You Y u young people who have hwe this nice DIce free fica and easy exchange of or courtesies like going to toward ward dances Alone and letting your your- boy friends jee ie ee you you u safely home shouldn't yell when a little thing thins like a a. to couple ol ot are handed to you into when there the tho bargain Especially Especial is is 8 abounding good reason for tor the I aforesaid d Muffs Bluffs s sIt I If It I were ere a a. betting belling woman Id I'd like ike to wager wage you OU ten to tp ono one that vcr very nights JOUl your sweet s young oun friend was due to keep two dates lie had just heard tho the blissful news of ot of having haYing to go 0 back to Junior high school for tor another half halt year earlo ear Now lo what bo boy wants to keep dates with the girl sid in the world under those thOM conditions And there 1 probably Improbably good excuse for r 1118 his havInG havIng hav- hav Ing lug to GO pro back to Junior hl high h. h too four months ho spent fighting fight fIght- dragon pneumonia ing ng that old dragon weren't erent sJ spent enl In furthering his hla knowledge ot of algebra and geometry I and and Did you stop in your JUr for correct eo bit of ot exactitude manners on his hla part lart to think of t that And then of ot course if he spent many late evenings c with you OU after aner ho lo became well again aGain well well that wasn't exactly bun building dinG up his scholarly record was as It Not ot that I 1 dont don't believe In young oun boys bos and i seeing each ench other in the homes of the parents and in other nico ico places But I do hope you ou haven't Jaent to remind yourself that you ou should have sent gent him homo home earlier kiss without the 1 Then too you must remember that that he came to see you OU twice when y you u weren't home Doesn't that m l keup e up uS for something Uhe Ithe lm- lm ply couldn't bring himself t see sec you OU on iwo wo certain nights for reasons cven even embarrassing for him to tr try to explain ater afterwards ards dont don't should have havo n a fine tine you OU think you understanding of his nature and toI try tr I li pu purely ely un unselfish friendliness to tomake tomake make makeup uJ up to him for tho the disappointment disappoint disappoint- ment 1 embarrassment that his hill fault of his comedo Jo through no own n Why not nol get tt your our mother to aMk him to come to your our place for dinner night ant and try to tomake make tip ip p to him in a sweet wholesome I friendly wa way for h having lia 1111 10 possibly added to 10 his mental distress s He lie will m cover those next few months in Junior hl high 11 In m sprinting spirits It U h ho he knows knos hi bin friends are arc IC pt stand stand- nl in fn ing by him im Success s also lo to you |