Show l O O J 91 Il i s 4 l I Ii With i t e Q BETTY U BLAIR 0 Letters and questions for the department should be addressed to Miss Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Sait Lake Telegram Write only on one side of the paper It Is necessary to append your name and address but these are ara held in confidence and will not be published Lost and found notices cannot be In the column I v Dear Miss Blair I I have visited your corner before arid nd d have always received very prompt and satisfactory answers answer's so se I you hope ope you wont won't think I am in intruding for one more answer I Iam Iam Iam am in a position that of a stenographer stenographer stenographer pher and cashier for a large concern in rn Salt Lake City and have a anum- anum number num num- number b ber r of opportunities to go out to lunch and dinner with the different traveling salesmen and agents who visit our office and in iri some cases I feel rather obligated to accept these invitations and furthermore I see no harm in a girl accepting these invitations with the right intentions I am not a gold I can very ably buy my own meals but you no doubt doat understand how it is is where there are always a lot of men in and out of the office I am sure they only have the best of in in- in Now for my question When going out to lunch or dinner with a man who gives the order the girl or the fellow I have gone several several sev seve eral times before but that one thing seems to bother me just a little as asI asI s sI I I am not sure whether I have done doneit it correctly or not Thanking you in advance and wishing you success success suc sue cess ces JUST JUS A GIRL We Weare are glad that you are able to take care of yourself so well Just Justa a to Girl and It would be just as foolish for us to suggest that all allmen allmen men v who ho Invited women in business r f to lunch or 01 dine with them did sor so sofrom r from any other othel but the kindliest intentions int In- In as It would to say that all t- t girls and women who accepted these Invitations were gold sold We trust that the time may never come that you may have any other but pleasant pI sant memories of such lions i Now to answer your question AlWa Always Al Al- ways Wa s 's tIre the gentleman awaits to re receive receive re his companions companion's order and gives It with his hiS' own to the waiter walter L She may wish to consult with himas him himas as to Just what she might order for fora a change and he to suggest on his own accord something something- espe especially lally nice that he may think she likes This may all be bedone done most informally Informally informallY mally and one need not hesitate inthe inthe in inthe the least about making such con con- In fact a conversation about the very ordinary questions of If consumption of ones one's food rood often breaks the Ice lee for pleasant and congenial con con- genial conversation to follow You may ay find on occasions that you will I have Olave some difficulty In doing the I proper things In giving your order to your our escort as as' he may not be familiar with the correctness of the procedure and it sometimes happens too that a waiter will ask the lad lady y tor or her order Instead of deferring ring to the gentleman In that event on one e must learn not to draw attention t to o the ho fault but to le let it H go unnoticed iw Y You are welcome Just a Girl Girl and we hope you may come again Dear Miss Blair May I trouble you just a little bit too I would like to know when a scenario is written for a certain I person is it sent to them or to their I producer Also I would like to know who Lon Chaneys Chaney's producer is and the address I hope this is is' is not asking too much and I 1 thank you ou very kindly BETH Scenario editors are employed loyed by each ciach producing company Beth and It js is to these that original manuscripts are sent Be sure that you send stamped addressed envelope en envelope envelope en- en for the return of the manuscript manuscript manuscript manu manu- script in case it is not accepted Metro Goldwyn Culver City Oil I. ar are are Chaneys Chaney's producers with Ted Browning his director If an original manuscript shows promise for a particular star It will be brought to the attention of the star or producer pro pro- ducer Glad to give the information Dear Miss Blair I am giving a dancing party and there are a few of my guests who do not dance much Can you YOli suggest suggest sug sug- gest some real good games There will be about sixty present present all all married Id I'd appreciate a game or two that all could join in if possible Thank you E E. E M. M We refer you to the V column for March 11 April 1 and April 2 for games There are many oth other r flames eames ames that have been previously printed In the column but If 11 you will send the regular ular price of f the paper to to tOI I the circulation department for these is Issues ues you will find adult games that will be easily adaptable for fol your party In addition we give this game of Earth Air 1 Fire ire and Water To play this game seat yourselves In a circle take a clean handkerchief or or small towel and tie It In a big knot so that tIr-at it may maye e easily be thrown from one player to another One of the players throws It to another at the tho same time calling out one one of these names Earth Air All Fire or Water If Earth Is called the player to whom the ball Is thrown has to mention something something- that lives on the earth as lion cat If is called something that lives In the air Ir if Water Vater something that lives in the water but 1 if Fire Is called the player must keep silence Always r remember member not to put birds In the water or animals or fishes in the air Be silent when Fire Is called and answer before ten can be be- count count- ed For br breaking any of these rules a forfeit must be paid You are welcome To o LOVER OF POETRY A Areader Areader reader signing her name Anon has copied for you between her periods of teaching classes the thelong thelong thelong long poem Lasca Lassa which is the one for which you made inquiry under the name of Texas Down by the Rio Eio Grande Will wm you kindly send senda a long e envelope elope stamped and ad addressed addressed addressed ad- ad dressed for the same Thank you Anonymous Dear Miss Blair Blair- Would you kindly give me me V a alist alist alist list of exercises for reducing the abdomen I dont don't think Im I'm overweight overweight over over- weight as I am 5 feet 6 inches tall 27 years old and weigh pounds Thanking you MRS G. G O. O G. G Your weight is exactly right Mrs G G. according to the hE height age schedule Here are some exercises exercises exercises exer exer- for lor reducing the abdomen Lie down on your back and raise mise and lower both legs together knees held sUt stiff Lie Tee on right side Ide n Raise lse left knee to chest then thrust that leg out and upward In a sidewise direction Repeat with left leg Lie down on your back Double up your knees on your chest Keeping Keeping Keeping Keep Keep- ing your feet together shoot your legs out sidewise knees straight then swing them pendulum fashion to the side and back to bent po po- Rotate your legs in Jn this way ten times to each side tilde Rest Resta I a minute or two then rotate the legs forward alternately as though riding a bicycle You may find these exercises very strenuous at fi first 5 1 t. t Do not overdo but take tale them gradually and each day will 1 bring an improvement both do fa facility facility fa- fa an and results Very welcome Dear Miss Blair Will you kindly tell me on what day April 25 1877 fell Thank you JUST ME On Wednesday Just Me Die You Y-ou are welcome Dear Miss Blair My daughter left her husband because he was cruel to her and called her vile names They have havea a 17 months old baby and he has refused to support him My daughter daugh daugh- ter is now working but she is hardly able to do so as she is under the doctors doctor's care To whom should she go in order to have her husband support tho baby They are not divorced as my daughter daughter daugh daugh- ter is in no way ablo able to pay for fora a divorce She is only 18 years old Thank you for an early re reo re- ply VIOLET See the county attorney about this problem Vio Violet He will file me filea mea a complaint and issue a a. warrant for arrest if the case warrants The state has a a. statute providing that the county attorney has au au- to exact a bond from one against whom failure to support is charged and failure to pay this bond means a jail sentence The county attorneys attorney's office is located in the city and county building Welcome Dear Miss Blair Could you please tell me if Bob Fitzsimmons ever held three titles at one time Also what did he weigh when he knocked out James Corbett Thank you very much A. A R. R T. T Fitzsimmons held two titles but not at the same time Art From 1890 to 1897 he heas was as middle weight champion and from 1899 to 1906 he held the heavy weight title His weight classed him really as a middle middle middle mid mid- dle weight champion At the time he knocked out James Corbett he weighed 16 pounds hounds and he was never at any time heavier than pounds You are very welcome A A A. A |