Show tho the art of hospitality 1 the be flint first essential quality of the ilia site 1110 host or hostee IS the knowing huv low to extend 11 cordial to the guest to ro bo be honestly lio neatly glad to ban so your visitor und to toaB assure BUrB him of your gladness by look tone anil and patient without eff naive adva talk und and simply by the iho expression of friendliness in your manner is no DO slight blight accent ment incomparable IS in that charm of salutatory greeting which at once with subtle confers iiri the freedom of 0 the ilia house upon the newly arrived urn veil ue ile Is id aware without th tho verbal pledge that the pleasant or has boon swept and garnished arni aneil and the board beautifully barred for him bilia rod anil still the notion that trouble ilse has been taken on oil life his account is kept out of bight this matter of the welcome la Is an important one there Ilie rii are kindly gentlewomen who never acquire its art tor for it is by oo no means elways innate in tista I 1 and 50 while hilo they feel pleasure ut at tie the coming of it friend und rod regard no pales pains too great to minister mini aler to him they do not show their pleasure by hand hando olamp o as p or beaming eyes hospitality is 18 moro than an all agreed blo way of breaking break ingup up the routine nto into which the liest best ordered families are opt pt to settle it is a direst educating fared to parents and children it helps to widen the homo home horizon und and to make the outlook on life anti and the world is a Be se renor happier and moro sopt lical one 11 moat blast inca as aa prof jewett well says rys 11 live in a corner and sea aoe but a little way beyond their own home or place of occupation they do not I 1 lift up their ejea to the hills hilla I 1 they uio are not awake when the dawn appears nothing so BO fosters a certain narrow narrowness nees of disposition oat bail if yaa yon please a certain household ism its as the living constantly conet antly without the ilia world contact which the ilia frequent coming and going of guests gives irea we read need many things besides bai bilea schools and text textbooks books hooks for our sons ODB und ana daughten rs and among other things we need i he owner of the cornot bag and the brawl ahe abe pleasant eudon of 0 go big i brough a loma lioma in IH one olits of ita most moat potential arito other t this his from that descent upon a household of konstant oong son tant stant company comp anyo who in rammer 0 amr or winter make the home of a kinsman kinman or friend it convenience this I 1 luet last invasion Inva Bion of rights Is idol brable alter the welcome the thing in order is to mako make the guest thoroughly comfortable for table birst in the bedroom bodro ora there are mally rooms which ure are olega ak iu every detail of their furnishing artistic in every appointment and bously lacking iu in real old fashions I 1 comfort the pincushion volda tie do pins the new towels on abo ruck rack tire aro hard and slippery there Is no soap or the ilia water neobi borax to sollon it anti and none is provided hot water aliat that toilet luxury iu in a chill morning is not invariably sent to a guests chamber by the provident house bouso but it ought to tie bo it hot hok and cold water are not everywhere in the lu mati minon pion the ghastly church yard hill chill 0 of soma spare spara rooms Is d dreadful ro adful 0 bloodcurdling blood curdling in memory a an u erotic experience at the time tim aitio it i endured hiva have exquisite trifles in satin aud and worsted the embroidery rod and tidies and shams it you choose but bat those should all lie tho the guests greats comfort is primary anti and 4 lie bo unobtrusively but constantly oil nt t tendril e a a 0 1 I to so BO long ions na as ho ha or she aba is i u under n d e r your roof never leave I 1 it I 1 to lor 0 gentleman seldom to a lady to take care of the shams shami coverlets etc eta which too rua fino for use nao are folded up op at night lot let some one go to the room and prepare it tor for its inmates occupancy P I 1 it t i ia a mistake akon idea of hospitality which keeps the ladies indies of the family weary over the li itchen range that the table ablo may be more daintily served than common uy by traditions ona received ived from out ancestors most moat of us ua like to get the table for company with miandi more various and delicious thanie than we have every day but we may carry this thin praiseworthy desire too far guests guesta want not fats fate and sweets but ourselves nelves ou and we should respect them and ourselves altea by giving them ample and well cooked I 1 tare are but not by devoting oar energies to lo confections confect ions and creams in its deree degree gree every meal taken with our friends liaa has a sacramental significance it strengthens for service it renews the ilia cirit it clo clos Bolier elier binds our hearts I 1 the most moot perfect entertaining tho the guest a large larga mousso of personal liberty well bred people in ia their friends houses rom euber that obliga bious are reciprocal guests do not ignore household laws but wise fieo hosta boots allow a degreg of flexibility to their rules rales when they have company they try to make nothing burdensome not oven even their courtesy and to so sarron nod nd their friends with such graces of lovo love that tho visit is always remembered with pleasure ithe coin |